June 30th, 2009, 8:47 pm by Tara
My best friend Lauren is turning 30. At first she was in denial. What do you mean I’m not 25 anymore? Then lots of fear. Fear of growing up. Fear that you’re running out of time. Fear of that ticking sound. And worst…fear of becoming your parents.
Look at it this way…10 best things about turning 30.
1. You’ll never have to go through turning 30 again.
2. Everyone over 30 still thinks you’re young.
3. Men are the frosting, you are the cake.
4. That physical trait that plagued you in high school or college has become your best feature. OMG
5. You really don’t give a damn what others think about you.
6. You’re old enough to know better, yet young enough to still do it anyway.
7. When a guy insists it’s over, it’s over.
8 Grown ups start taking you seriously.
9. You have a brand new decade, so enjoy!
AND NUMBER 10
10. Insert your own smart-ass reason here.
Happy Birthday 
Posted in: 29 and counting • Birthday • Denial • Fear • Over • Smart-ass • Turning 30 | Post a Comment »
June 28th, 2009, 7:31 pm by Tara
Summer. It’s hot and so much fun. No work. No school. Play hard.
Be fun and flirty on the beach. Guys will go wild with these sexy swimsuits.
Posted in: Swimsuits • Wild • hotties • sexy babes • Provocative • Sexy | Post a Comment »
June 10th, 2009, 8:19 pm by Tara
Some women will do crazy things on Facebook, including setting fake profiles to keep track of exes. It doesn’t matter if it was a bad break up or a mutual one, she probably wants to know what you’re up to. She won’t call or email you, but she can easily scope out your profile.
My ex-girlfriend scoped me out on Facebook. She set up a new profile with another persons picture, a very sexy, provocative lady. After a couple of weeks I figured out that the sexy lady was really my ex.
When I called her bluff, she posted embarrassing and compromising photos of me on her real Facebook page. She’s trying to manipulate me to get back with her but it will be a cold day in hell before that happens.
Posted in: Uncategorized • Crazy • Ex • Facebook • Love • Provocative • Sexy | Post a Comment »
June 3rd, 2009, 7:29 pm by Tara
The stress and libido posting brought about a lot of reqests for more ways to keep romance carefree in our busy lifestyles.
One way to keep romance in our stressful lives is to exercise our imagination. Free your mind and your libido will follow. Delve into your fantasies and you should be able to open your sexual experience. Conjure any images that may put you in the mood. Most people fear their fantasies but don’t. It doesn’t mean that you’ll always follow through with your fantasies.
Take time to unwind. Relax, exercise your imagination and enjoy.
Posted in: Affection • Arousal • Fantasies • Intimacy • Libido • Stress | Post a Comment »
May 25th, 2009, 9:23 pm by Tara
We all got it…stress, stress and more stress. Stress can be a leading cause of diminished sexual desire. It can lower testosterone, which is responsible for sex drive. It can also release a chemical reaction in the body, restricting blood flow and thus making arousal and orgasm sometimes difficult.
If you’re like most people, your workload will not be letting up any time soon. So what can you do?
Start doing things that make you feel better both mentally and physically. Have friends over more often. Listen to music. Get a massage and get one often. Try Biofreeze (a soothing product used by massage therapists) on your shoulder and neck.
We all love it but caffeine isn’t good for stress. And stay away from all the depressing news on TV. Watch George Lopez or something funny prior to hitting the sheets.
According to reproductive medical specialist and fertility expert, Dr. Arthur Wisot, “sex occurs 90 percent in the head and 10 percent in the genitals.”
If you’re feeling stressed out take time to unwind and enjoy your sexual desires.
Posted in: Affection • Arousal • Desires • Friends • Romance • Sex Drive • Sexual • Stress • trysts | 2 Comments »
May 13th, 2009, 8:22 pm by Tara
I’ve been dating James for almost one year. Our love, faith and trust is deep and sincere. We’re not just lovers, we are best friends.
For over a month, James has been talking about marriage, how many kids I want, and other things. One day I see us as a married couple with children but I wonder sometimes if we’re rushing into things.
I’m in my mid-20’s and have always respected advice from my Mom. She loves James but tells me that I should date him for 2 years before marrying him. I have friends that married after knowing their spouse for only weeks and months. None of them waited 2+ years. More than half of them have marital problems or are now divorced.
When I marry I want to have a life-long relationship. My mom divorced my dad after 15 years of marriage. They dated less than 1 year.
James feels that when people know they have a long-lasting relationship it shouldn’t matter how long you date. That lasting relationship can be built in days, some in weeks and others take years.
We’re not talking about getting married in the next several months, but I wonder how long we should date before we become engaged.
Posted in: Affection • Dating • Divorced • Engaged • Lovers • Marry • Trust | 1 Comment »
May 6th, 2009, 11:14 pm by Tara
As a single new Valley resident, it is hard meet people. I’ve met some very nice girls but where are the good guys. My girlfriends and I never seem to find any.
We go to popular hangouts throughout the Valley. It’s always the same people at each club. And when you meet a new guy you never know if he’s married or not.
I met this guy who is cute, hot and romantic. We went out for a month and everything was great. I thought I had finally found a nice single guy in the Valley.
As our relationship became very intimate, he told me he was legally married but getting a divorce and was living with his brother. Now, I find out that he’s still living with his “soon-to-be ex-wife” and that she’s pregnant.
Saturday we went out to dinner at the Island and after asking a couple of things, he finally admitted to everything. He said he didn’t tell me everything before because he didn’t want to lose me.
Hell..lose me…why the hell would I want to be with him? I grabbed my wine glass and the dozen of red roses and threw them right at his face. I walked away and never looked back. What I thought was a nice guy was nothing more than a lying deceitful SOB.
Posted in: Affair • Cheating • Dating • Ex wife • Hot • Infidelity • Island • Pregnant • Romantic • SOB • married man | 2 Comments »
April 27th, 2009, 8:50 pm by Tara
Two months ago, my brother told me he’s gay. I am stunned. He always hung with a bunch of guys but had a number of girlfriends in the past. His relationships lasted for months and sometimes a year. I never thought my brother was anything but heterosexual.
Last week I met his “friend” and it made me sick. It was very hard for me to be around them. I still love my brother but I feel a great loss. I don’t think I’ll ever support or accept his new lifestyle. Our parents would be devastated if they knew. They have strong religious beliefs and strongly oppose gay and bisexual relationships.
I’m married with several kids. My wife opposes gay relationships but she says I need to accept my brother’s wishes and maintain the same a relationship with him. I feel like I’ve lost the one sibling I have. We were always very close, hung out a lot and confided with each other…just like brothers do. I can’t do that anymore.
We’ll be visiting our parents for Mother’s Day and my brother wants to bring his gay friend. No way in hell should he bring him and ruin Mom’s special day.
If he wants to live like that…that’s his life. I think he should keep it private. Why destroy my parents lives? They’re elderly, love their children and grandchildren, so what’s the point of telling them or bringing his “friend” to family gatherings? He needs to stay away.
Posted in: Dating • Gay Brother • Gay relationship • Mother's Day • Romance • trysts | 2 Comments »
April 21st, 2009, 8:24 pm by Tara
I’ve been dating a guy from England online for months. We have similar interests and hobbies, love music, dancing and going to museums. We call and text each other almost all day and night.
Last month I went to see Andrew and we had a wonderful week together. We traveled to different parts of England and got to know each other really well. I cried on the return flight because I didn’t want to leave him and come home by myself.
When I left England, he gave me a web cam so we can continue to see each other everyday. Every night we turn on our web cams, undress and enjoy our video chats.
Andrew is now sexting photos to me and he wants me to reciprocate with provocative photos of me. I really don’t want to do this.
My friends tell me not to do it. What if Andrew shared the photos with his friends and my pics ended up on the internet one day. How embarassing it would be if my family, friends , boss or associates saw them.
We love each other and I don’t want to lose him. He says he wants the pics so when he gets lonely throughout the day he can look at me and feel wanted and loved. One side of me says don’t do it. My sensuous side says, what the hell send him sexy pics and enjoy life
I’ve always dreamed of marrying a European and living in Europe. I would love to have Andrew as my husband one day so I don’t want to do anything that may harm our relationship.
What should I do? Would you send nude pics to your boyfriend or girlfriend?
Posted in: Chat • England • European guy • Online sex • Pics • Sex Chat • Sexting • Sexy • Uncategorized • Web Cam • texting | 1 Comment »
April 20th, 2009, 8:55 pm by Tara
After dating for over a year, I broke up with my gf about a month ago and ever since then I’ve realized I made a BIG mistake. I can’t stop thinking about her. I knew I cared for her a lot but since we’ve been apart I now know how much I really love her.
Two weeks after we broke up she started talking and hanging with this guy she used to like before we were together. We’ve talked a few times since the breakup and she swears that she and the guy are just friends. I told her how I feel about her but she says for now she just wants to be friends. That there might be a chance of us getting back together after she gets over the hurt of me dumping her.
I want to win her back but my friends say I should move on because she’s just playing a game with me. I want to call or text her all the time but I’m afraid she’ll get upset and think I’m bothering her. I don’t want to do anything to screw things up so I no longer go to the clubs, movies or hang with my party friends.
I doubt I’ll find another gf like her again. I want to win her back somehow and marry her some day but I’m waiting for her to make the next move. Should I try to talk with her or what should I do?
You don’t say why you dumped her, but I think if she really hurt she wouldn’t be hanging with the other guy so soon. If she’s made no effort to get back with you, no text, no calls, nothing…I would start hanging with friends to help get her off of your mind. Chances are you might meet someone else. Who knows…once she finds out that you’re hanging with someone else she might decide to get back with you. You’ll then have to decide if you want to continue seeing your new friend or go back with her.
Posted in: Break up • Dumped • Ex girlfriend • Other guy | Post a Comment »
