November 16th, 2011, 9:02 am by Tara
 My husband spends more time on Facebook and Twitter than with me. We both have full-time jobs, working 9-10 hours a day. I’m in retail and he’s a physical therapist. We cook and have dinner almost every night. We never have the TV on; there’s usually not much that we really want to watch.
For the next couple of hours my husband is on Facebook and Twitter. He’s preoccupied with his “friends” and constantly tweeting. I’m also on social networks but my life does not revolve around them. I rarely get on when my husband is around. I’d rather spend the time with him.
At first I didn’t mind it; I could get things done in the evening instead of spending Saturdays cleaning the house. Our time together is short and precious; and his social media habits make for a lonely wife. When I told him this diversion is impacting our marriage he disagreed.
We have revisited the conversation of how much is too much or when is the right and wrong time to be on FB or Twitter. Finally my husband agreed that we should have weekly date nights without any technological devices.
Two months ago we went out to a nice restaurant, had some wine and a great dinner. Everything was going great. Then the sounds began; the ringing, the beeping and the vibrating.
He responded to the tweets and posted FB comments. I was so upset that he broke his promise! I left the restaurant while he was tweeting. Thirty minutes later he’s called me to ask where I was and if I am okay in the “bathroom.” Thirty minutes! I had taken a taxi home.
That was been the last time my husband has taken his iPhone or iPad on our “date nights”. He realizes how much time he ‘wastes’ online. Yes he still goes on the social networks but we also have quality time together every night. Our relationship is growing stronger every day. – Monica, McAllen
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November 7th, 2011, 9:49 pm by Tara
Many parents who have adapted to an empty nest, find their nest is no longer empty. Their grown children are moving back home.
According to the Census Report the proportion of young adults living with their parents has increased from 2005 to 2011. “The percentage of men age 25 to 34 living in the home of their parents rose from 14 percent in 2005 to 19 percent in 2011 and from 8 percent to 10 percent over the period for women,” the Census reports.
Over the past year, the percentage of men ages 25 to 34 who live with their parents jumped 2.2 percent. During this same time the percentage dropped 0.8 percent for women.
That’s a large number of young adults moving back in with Mom and Dad! It’s believed that the economy and unemployment are key reasons. And for the ladies, they’re becoming more educated and assuming high managment positions; so they are less likely to move back home.
But then you also have the slackers…looking for an easier life so they either never leave their parents’ home or come back after a year or so. I know. I have a neighbor whose son has moved out several times and invariably always moves back in with his parents. Not because of financial reasons or to help his parents, it’s only because he’s a mama’s boy (he’s in his late 30′s) and his mama has a difficult time when he’s not living at home. Rather strange to me; don’t you think?
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November 4th, 2011, 9:57 pm by Tara
We knew it was going to happen sooner or later. After only 72 days from their lavish wedding, Kim Kardashian has filed for divorce from Kris Humphries.
They claimed they wanted privacy, but the paparrazi was always around. Hey Kim, how do you think you’ve been making millions of dollars? Prior to the wedding when he was asked who was the most beautiful lady he knew; he said his Mom. What? A momma’s boy I indeed. Lastly he supposedly insisted that his two dogs sleep in their same bed. OMG..Kris you married one of the most sexiest ladies in the world. And you wanted to cuddle and sleep with dogs?
I doubt the breakup will not have a lasting impact on her popularity. She will continue to make loads of money with her brand and venture into new business opportinities. Wonder how much money she will be paid to give her story to People magazine or one of the other celeb mags?
What do you think? Are you still a Kim Kardashian fan? Do you think the breakup will ruin her image?
Posted 11/1/11
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September 29th, 2011, 6:54 am by Tara
 LMAO. A 65 year man who washed his pickup truck in the nude at a car wash has been sentenced to a year of probation. Robert E. Bailey, of Rhode Island pleaded guilty to open and gross conduct for being naked at a Massachusettes car wash. Apparently a woman vacuuming her vehicle called police after she saw Bailey in the nude. By the time police arrived Bailey was wearing shorts and denied doing anything wrong. A judge ordered Bailey to stay away from the car wash and the witness and to continue counseling. He will also be required to register as a sex offender. Yikes.
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September 15th, 2011, 7:19 am by Tara
While laying in bed, husband asked wife would you like to have sex. She responded “no”. Husband said “is that your final answer?” She said “yes.” Husband looks over at her and says “may I call a friend?”
And that’s when the fight started…
LYAO….
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September 9th, 2011, 3:31 pm by Tara
 There are many variables relating to attractiveness. What might be a highly attractive color to a woman may not be so to a guy. To some people the color red means hot and sexual, while others define it as power. Copper is perceived as passion while orange is playfulness.
Nevertheless, psychologists have developed a ranking of more or less sexually attractive colors. A list of colors and there supposed attributes follow.
Black: Sophistication, elegance, seduction, mystery, sex, banishment, binding, protection, evil
Blue: Trust, reliability, belonging, coolness, tranquility, peace, calm, wisdom, justice, depression, understanding, patience, loyalty, sincerity, honour
Brown: Earthy, conservative, protective, constructive, hard-working, solid
Copper/Bronze: Love, passion, friendship
Gold: Prestige, expensive, elite, authority
Green: Nature, fresh, cool, growth, abundance, rejuvenation, recovery, healing, harmony, balance, peace, hope, jealousy, envy
Grey: Neutrality, staleness, depression
Magenta: power, magnetism, spiritual power
Orange: Playfulness, warmth, vibrant, encouragement, luck, kindness, stimulation, optimism, abundance, success, independence, sensual
Pink: Soft, sweet, nurturance, security, tenderness, peace
Purple: Royal, spirituality, dignity, divination, inspiration, meditation, compassion
Red: Passion, energy, excitement, danger, speed, impulsive action, assertiveness, aggression, strength
Silver: Prestige, cold, scientific, stability
Turquoise: Intuitive, insightful, inventive, original, renewal, change
White: Pure, virginal, clean, youthful, mild, peace, truthfulness, enlightenment
Yellow: Warmth, cheer, happiness, vitality, change, progress, clarity, communicativeness, affirmation.
People associate colors with particular things in their lives. So any color could be attractive to a particular individual. But, given the above, red, black, and copper/bronze top the list.
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September 9th, 2011, 3:20 pm by Tara
 September has some strange celebrations. It’s National Chicken Month, National Hobbit Month, Ask a Stupid Day, National Good Neighbor Day, etc.
And then there’s Wonderful Weirdos Day. Yes, today we celebrate and show appreciation to all the wonderful weirdos or oddballs that are part of our lives now or in the past.
Today’s the day to have fun! Instead of being your normal, maybe boring or average self, make an effort to be weird by dressing weirdly, doing weird things, making weird sounds, walk weirdly and encourage weirdness with your friends and on your job. Let your weirdos know that you celebrate them with a hug.
An associate came to work this morning and hugged a fellow staffer. ”It’s Wonderful Weirdos Day, so I decided to hug you”, she said. We laughed so hard.
Wonderful Weirdos Day began in Austin and it’s catching on in other parts of the country. Apparently Austin officially recognized its “weirdness” when “Keep Austin Weird” caught on as the official slogan and graced bumper stickers and t-shirts.
Don’t know about you, but I’ve known and still know a few oddballs. At times they probably think I’m an oddball too. Whatever…just fun with it….give any oddball that you know - or yourself, if you’re the weirdo – a hug.
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September 2nd, 2011, 8:00 am by Tara
“They never call when they say they will; why didn’t he call me after the first date?; why do guys just disappear?” These are some of women’s biggest complaints about men.
We’ve all been there….”I’ll call you tonight” or “I’ll call you later.” We wait all night, rush to the phone when it rings, but it’s not him. No call, no text, no FB, no Tweet. And the term “later” means a much longer period of time (if he even calls) than we think.
Ladies, let’s cut right to the chase. If a guy doesn’t aggressively pursue a woman, whether by calling her or flaking on dates or whatever, probably 98% of the time he’s just not that interested. And the other 2% is because he is completely clueless, or he doesn’t know what to do with you. Or most likely he prefers hanging with the guys. If the guy seems like he has a clue, then you can safely assume that you’re just not one of his priorities.
There’s do doubt that men just don’t know how to communicate or share their feelings. Most men are not in touch with or are scared to show their emotions and tend to have less overall communication and social skills than women. If you’re dating a guy like this it’s really hard to change him. If he’s appears highly motivated to change himself, he’s likely unable to follow through with the change.
I think the biggest downside to all of this are the daytime TV shows. Don’t pay any attention to Oprah and the other Oprah-type show. They tend to portray men needing help but to be honest, the men could care less.
Face it, in many cases, the men may be withdrawing as a way to deal with their negative feelings towards a relationship. So they just don’t call or communicate. And ladies what do we usually do? We tend to demonstrate our discontent verbally by nagging or confronting.
Does it piss us off when he doesn’t call? Hell yes it does. It doesn’t matter if it’s after the first date or the 20th date, we still don’t like it. Men don’t understand why we get so upset about it. To them it’s a minor deal; to us it’s huge!
Ladies, let us know. What do you do when faced with these complaints? Does your guy tend to withdraw by stonewalling? If not, what does your guy do?
And guys, give us your take. We’d like to hear from you too.
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August 30th, 2011, 9:26 pm by Tara
Is it OK for a guy to use a coupon when he takes a lady out for dinner? We were eating at an Italian restaurant in Harlingen and the table next to us was a 30-something year old guy with a late 20-something year old lady. They seemed to be on their first date, or maybe had been dating for just a couple of weeks. They were very talkative and affectionate, always touching each other, while enjoying their dinner with a bottle of wine.
After about an hour, when the check arrived, the guy placed his credit card on the tray, along with a coupon. It was quite obvious that his date did not like the fact that he was using a coupon. As her voice became louder, she told him that she was surprised that he would use a coupon on a date. At first the guy started to take the coupon back, but then he asked her why he shouldn’t use it. “Not on a date! You’re embarassing me,” she said.
She got up and went to the restroom before the waiter came back. When she returned to the table, she rudely asked him if he used the coupon. When he said yes, she got up from the chair and said she was leaving.
By now all of the diners in the same room could hear her. Her date stayed at the table for a couple of minutes before leaving. Several diners told him, “you’re too good for her.” “Dump her…she’s not worth one night.” “Find a lady that will appreciate and accept you for the way you are.” He politely said thanks and then left.
The question is, should a guy use a coupon when he takes a lady out? Did this lady overreact? Would you be offended if your date used a coupon? If so, how would you handle it?
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June 28th, 2009, 7:31 pm by Tara
Summer. It’s hot and so much fun. No work. No school. Play hard.
Be fun and flirty on the beach. Guys will go wild with these sexy swimsuits.
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June 30th, 2009, 8:47 pm by Tara
 My best friend Lauren is turning 30. At first she was in denial. What do you mean I’m not 25 anymore? Then lots of fear. Fear of growing up. Fear that you’re running out of time. Fear of that ticking sound. And worst…fear of becoming your parents.
Look at it this way…10 best things about turning 30.
1. You’ll never have to go through turning 30 again.
2. Everyone over 30 still thinks you’re young.
3. Men are the frosting, you are the cake.
4. That physical trait that plagued you in high school or college has become your best feature. OMG
5. You really don’t give a damn what others think about you.
6. You’re old enough to know better, yet young enough to still do it anyway.
7. When a guy insists it’s over, it’s over.
8 Grown ups start taking you seriously.
9. You have a brand new decade, so enjoy!
AND NUMBER 10
10. Insert your own smart-ass reason here.
Happy Birthday 
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July 14th, 2009, 8:03 pm by Tara
I found out my fiance has 2 cell phones, one that I know about and a “secret” one. A phone rang while he was sleeping at my house but it had a different ring tone. I answered the call and immediately a girl hung up. I called the number back and got her voice mail. I called again, voice mail again. Then she sent a text asking who he was with? I was angry. I looked at his calls and texts and hell, he’s been using adult text services to text women, telling them what he’d do to them sexually.
I woke him up and confronted him. He said he was lonely and bored one night when I was out of town so he thought he would have some meaningless fun. I became loud and angry! Now I find out from a mutual friend that he had also posted on adult dating sites.
I thought we had been getting along real well, engaged to be married, and our sex life was great. He always said he was happy with me and couldn’t wait till we were married.
We’ve been separated for 2 months now. He’s begging me to go back with him saying he won’t do it again. Why do I want to trust him? How can I be sure he won’t do it again?
Why do I still love him? Am I just a fool? What would make you think he really was going to change and be a faithful husband?
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August 12th, 2009, 9:25 pm by Tara
 It’s not a pitty party…it’s a celebration! Why sit around mopping about a broken relationship, being depressed, hopeless and blaming yourself? Have a break up party. It may seem cold hearted at first, but break up parties are becoming quite popular.
And why not? It’s over, forget the past, forget about him or her, live life and have fun. You know your ex is doing it all, so why aren’t you?
I had a break up party, and to come to the party each guest was required to bring 1 or 2 single guys.I ended up with 25 people at my party.
At first my girlfriends thought I was crazy for having the party. But were they surprised. It was the best party ever. We met many new people and some really hot guys.
My bf hooked up with one of the guys, and they’ve been dating ever since. My social circle has expanded with new girlfriends and I still hang with some of the guys. We’ve formed great friendships. I never have to worry about going out anymore. Cuz at least one of my new friends, and long-time friends, are always wanting to go out and have fun!
If you’ve been dumped, starting planning your break up party. You’ll be surprised who you’ll meet!
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November 16th, 2009, 11:01 pm by Tara
 My girlfriend and I went to a couples shower. I’ll never do it again. It was totally boring. The bride works with my girlfriend, but I don’t know the couple. The only reason I went was because I got tired of hearing my girlfriend bitch about.
So what did the couples do? At first we were all together and slowly the guys moved away from the girls. The guys watched TV in another room, while the girls did their own thing. The groom was uncomfortable and hung with the guys. Thank God we were able to watch a football game.
When the bride starting opening gifts, she insisted that all the guys join in. She was pissed when none of us participated. Guys don’t give a sh** about opening presents. The groom was totally embarrassed as he watched his bride open gifts, like edible panties, sex toys, and how to please your man book.
Couples Shower….hell no you’ll never see me at one again. Ladies, have your own Bridal shower. Leave bachelor parties for the guys. — David, Alamo
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August 17th, 2009, 7:59 pm by Tara
One of my coworkers is gay. I don’t agree with his lifestyle but hey it’s his life. It’s uncomfortable when he talks about his “life partner.” I listen to him out of respect but sometimes I want to tell him to keep his personal life to himself. I don’t think he really knows how I feel.
Last week he gave all of us at the office an invitation to a party. He gave me the envelope and said “I really would like you to come”. I told him sure I’ll go.
When I got back to my office and opened up the envelope, the only thing I could say was “no way in hell am I going.” He and his “life partner” are having a “gay shower.” The next day I told him I would not attend. Just the thought of hanging with a roomful of gay guys, that’s not what I call a party.
Mike is now pissed that I won’t go. He says that gay couples should be able to have “gay couple parties” just like a traditional bride and groom party. He’s now retaliating against me…bad mouthing me to other associates and even went to our boss about it. My boss is also gay so you know what side he agreed with.
Now Mike has decided to have the party at the office during our lunch hour. My boss approved it and even put up the “gay shower invitation” on our communication board, basically urging all associates to attend. He even suggested that we all bring a some food, letting us know what he plans on bringing.
Now I feel like I HAVE to go. Half of the associates feel the same way. We all fear what our boss might say or do if we don’t attend and bring food and a gift.
Some of the other guys are saying they plan on calling in sick the day of the party. I’d rather go to work and not attend the party.
What would you do?
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August 25th, 2009, 8:46 pm by Tara
Another hot topic at happy hour today – what do you do or crave before, during and after sex? Most of the girls said the key to spicing up their sex life is in the kitchen. The smell, taste, and appearance of certain foods acts as potent aphrodisiacs that not only gets them in the mood for love, but makes them a better flirt and lover.
So what types of “sex” foods do girls crave? Sweets, salty and spicy foods are favs. Dark chocolate is top on the list followed by frozen snickers bar, hot chilis, wine, bananas, ice cream with whipped cream, grapes, strawberries, olives, carrots, and chips.
Most agreed that when you’re with someone, the best thing is to feed each other with the most seductive foods you can find. Asparagus and shrimp are the best.
And the guys…well they had no cravings after sex. While the girls are dashing for the frig, the guys mostly roll over and go to sleep.
Tell us what you and your lover do? What are your favorite “sex” foods?
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September 5th, 2009, 2:03 pm by Tara
I’m so mad. I broke up with my boyfriend because he was too controlling. Everything had to be his way.
My sis called me and said that he set up a twitter account to trash me out. He’s tweeting malicious comments about our relationship. Most of the sh** he’s writing is NOT true. To bear personal and private matters is one thing…but when it’s not true….that’s all wrong.
I am totally humiliated by his childish behavior. I called him and told him to stop the lies, stop putting lies about our personal relationship. He blamed me since I was the one who broke up with him.
He said he has the right to freedom of speech. Freedom of speech is important but not when it’s a violation of one’s character. We live in a TMI society. What he’s saying can be detrimental to me and my future relationships. Not to mention what could happen to my career advancements. He’s bullying me. I’m so pissed off.
To air personal details is not right. It’s malicious and vindictive to expose all this untrue crap.
I wonder if there is anything legally I can do. He can’t keep doing this. It’s wrong and my rights are being violated. - E. S., South Texas
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September 7th, 2009, 9:53 pm by Tara
My best friend broke up with her boyfriend because he was cheating on her. For weeks she cried on my shoulder, every day at all times of the day and night. Some of the calls were after midnight, so I was tired the next morning when I went to work. I work 12 hours a day 7 a.m. to 7 p.m. As a friend I listened to her and tried my best to help her through it.
They dated for 6 months, and she thought he was the “one.” Another friend told her about his affairs and they ended up breaking up on Facebook. “He’s no good for me,” she would tell me over and over again. The more she talked about it the more she said she never wanted to see him again.
I decided to have a party to help cheer her up. It was a singles party where each guest had to bring another single person. She seemed OK with the party and we both thought it would be nice if she met some new guy friends.
The night of the party, she came barging through the door with none other than her ex-boyfriend. I was so pissed. All that he had put her through and there she was hanging all over him. They got back together again and within the month he cheated on her again.
She wants to cry on my shoulder again. I want to be a friend, but I really don’t want to hear it or be around her. She’s pissed off at me saying I’m a bad and selfish friend. At this point I don’t care. You can be a fool once, but the laughs on you if you’re a fool twice.
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October 25th, 2009, 7:53 pm by Tara
 My girlfriend likes to wear my jeans with my long shirts. I think the jeans look terrible on her. She’s got a hot butt and I think she should show it off. But instead she likes to wear my jeans.
She’s real sexy in her skinny rip jeans. And she’s hot when she wears my long shirts as a dress. With a body that most girls would die for, why doesn’t she want to show off her sexy curves and hot butt? She looks sloppy in my jeans but she says it makes her feel sexy and turns her on. Sometimes she wears them with high heels but most of time with just flats. High heels are sexy but not like this. Am I the only guy that hates this style? – Steve, McAllen
 What’s your take? Do you like girls wearing guy jeans? Comment now.
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September 16th, 2009, 12:57 pm by Tara
Males lie to their partner 6 times a day, while females only tell 3 fibs. According to a survey in Great Britian, conducted by 20th Century Fox Home Entertainment, men are deliberately untruthful twice as much as their ladies.
Men are not picky as to who they lie to. On average they tell 6 lies a day to their partner, boss and work colleagues. That’s 42 a week, 2,184 a year or a staggering 126,672 in a lifetime. Women come out with just 3 lies a day or 68,796 a lifetime.
Survey revealed that what men and women have in common is their favorite lie: “Nothing’s wrong, I’m fine.” Women tend to misrepresent costs of clothing purchases, while men make up excuses as to why they didn’t answer their partner’s phone calls. Males also cop to the classic fib, “No, your butt doesn’t look big in that.” The other classic “I’ve got a headache” made the cut at number 8.
TOP TEN LIES MEN TELL
1. Nothing’s wrong, I’m fine
2. This will by my last drink
3. No, your bum doesn’t look big in that
4. I had no signal (phone)
5. My battery died
6. Sorry, I missed your call
7. I didn’t have that much to drink
8. I’m on my way
9. It wasn’t that expensive
10. I’m stuck in traffic
TOP TEN LIES WOMEN TELL
1. Nothing’s wrong, I’m fine
2. Oh, this isn’t new. I’ve had it for ages.
3. It wasn’t that expensive
4. It was on sale
5. I’m on my way
6. I don’t know where it is, I haven’t touched it
7. I didn’t have that much to drink
8. I’ve got a headache
9. No, I didn’t throw it away
10. Sorry, I missed your call
IDK but I wonder if any of the respondents lied on the survey…ummmmm What say you?
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October 22nd, 2009, 3:10 pm by Tara
Went to a singles party last weekend. It was rather quiet until someone brought out the SEXY SLANG Board Game. If you haven’t heard of it, it’s an adult party game that mixes charades & drawings with a naughty twist. There are 500 naughty words or terms you can choose.
First the game started out as a way to get to know people we had not met. It soon became rowdy as everyone raced to draw or act out one of the hilarious terms. The room was filled with sexually-charged atmosphere, lots of laughs and OMGs. ”It means what?” was asked frequently by the ladies. Guys either knew the meanings or were too embarassed to admit not knowing.
Some of the words were banana hammock, beat the meat, double bagging, gum job, horizontal tango, and mile high club. To learn what these and other words mean GO2 http://sexyslang.com/glossary-terms.html Promise one thing…it will be a night you’ll may or may not want to remember.
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October 26th, 2009, 7:31 pm by Tara
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, right or not? Totalbeauty.com says if you’re looking for a good-looking man then stay out of El Paso. El Paso ranked first in totalbeauty.com’s list of “Eight Cities with the Ugliest Guys.” Education and obesity statistics, smoking rates, exercise habits to contraceptive sales were factored in the survey.
According to the web site, “Nearly 15 percent of the men in El Paso have less than a 9th grade education. The city also suffers from a notably high rate of obesity, 32 percent are in below average health and 30 percent do not exercise regularly.”
El Paso wasn’t the only Texas city to make the list. Houstonians ranked no. 8 mainly for having the worst teeth, and more than 15 percent of men 25 and up have less than a 9th grade education.
Miami ranked No. 3 on the list for the city’s poor graduation rates and low score on a bad-teeth survey. Detroit made the list at No. 6 for its high obesity rates and low college and high school graduation rates.
So what cities made the cut for the ugliest dudes…here’s the top 8 cities…
1 – El Paso
2 – Hagerstown, Marlyland
3 – Miami
4 – Greensboro, North Carolina
5 – Mobile Alabama & Huntington, Virginia (tie)
6 – Detroit
7 – Philadelphia
8 – Houston
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October 28th, 2009, 8:19 pm by Tara
Levi Johnston is going to let it all hang out. The father of Sarah Palin’s grandson has agreed to a Playgirl shoot in Mid-November and he wants to bear it all. Yes, reports claim that he is “90 percent sure” the shoot will include full-frontal nudity. He vows to keep the photo spread “classy.” Classy? He doesn’t give a damn about that. It’s all about the money baby as he’s pulling in a reported six figures.
I have no problem with guys doing a Playgirl shoot. But Levi…not only is he just 19 years old, but his only name of fame is that he fathered Sarah Palin’s grandson. Who gives a sh** about him? He needs to be a daddy and a role model for his son. And by the way, get a real job. Instead he told told US magazine, “I just get naked. That’s what I do.”
I guess one day, when his son becomes older he can pull out the magazine and say,” look what I did son. Aren’t you proud of your daddy.”
Playgirl is hoping to cash in as they rush to publish the spread before the holidays. Well, I have a suggestion for Playgirl. Ditch Levi and shoot Matthew McConeaugh, Keith Urban, Leonardo DiCaprio or Denzel Washington. Girls would rather see them hang it all out.
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November 2nd, 2009, 9:37 pm by Tara
Group of friends hung out on South Padre Island Halloween night. We decked out with our sexy, scary or crazy costumes and went bar hopping. We dressed as…a sexy policeman (Laura handcuffed a lot of hot buffed guys), master baiter fisherman, sexy secret service agent, Michael Jackson, Octomon, Kate Goselin, Lady Gaga, a banana and a sexy construction worker. We heard there was a lady wearing a body suit with STDs images glued to it. Now that’s too weird. Guess she’s wasn’t planning on hooking up with a guy.
No one can party like the Island especially on Halloween night. We had a blast! Check out Island pics … GO2 theV247.com photo gallery – Halloween on the Island. It was one hellava night!
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November 2nd, 2009, 8:59 pm by Tara
Looking for a great night out with your lover or friend? Come hang with theV247 at the Third Eye Blind concert. Third Eye Blind, one of the most popular bands of the late ’90s will perform Sunday, November 8 at Metropolis, McAllen, Texas.
Third Eye Blind have always had a strong following in the Valley. The self-titled Third Eye Blind was released in the spring of 1997; by that summer, the introductory single “Semi-Charmed Life” had become a chart-topping modern rock hit. Spawning several more successful singles (including “How’s It Going to Be” and “Jumper”), the album broke into the Billboard Top 200 and remained there for over a year.
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November 8th, 2009, 7:39 am by Tara
 My brother-in-law had an affair with a married woman. They cheated on their spouses for more than 6 months. In the beginning they thought it was fun and highly sexual. He was mesmerized in his fantasies while she wanted an unattached sexual relationship. Neither one thought the affair would impact their marriage or kids. When their spouses found out, they both filed for divorce.
Trust is the foundation of successful relationships. Many affair relationships fail because it’s difficult to trust someone who has started the relationship by being unfaithful and deceitful. They betrayed their vows, spouses and kids. Most likely they will do the same thing to each other. When the initial blissful stage subsides and the stresses of real everyday life kicks in, things can be different and much less secure.
Today the “lovers” are still together and my ex-brother-in-law says that he never imagined that it would end this way. What a scum bag…Get real Jack. The more I think about it they deserve each other. If one cheats on their spouse, they have no values or ideals. If he or she cheated once, you know one or both will cheat again.
Posted in: Affair • Cheating • Cheating Spouse • Dating • Lovers • Marriage • married man • Sex • Trust | Post a Comment »
November 4th, 2009, 10:09 pm by Tara
 Couples that have been together for a while admit that the sex that was once hot and thrilling can become routine and even (dare I say) a little boring. No need to settle for ho-hum sex, or look outside of your relationship or marriage for the sparkle or excitement. Being in a safe, comfortable relationship can actually offer the best sex of your life. Take some steps to bring back the spark, and experience the best sex ever. Here’s some proven ways offered by ehow.com
- Be adventurous. The next time the two of you are making dinner together, hop up on the counter and reach for your partner. The idea of fooling around in broad daylight in the kitchen is sure to spice things up.
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Leave hot, naughty notes for your sweetie to find. Your notes can be flirty, suggestive, or downright crude. It’s up to you. Just make sure you get your point across. Great places to tuck notes include lunch packets, bathroom mirrors, pants pockets, money clip and car visors.
- Experiment together. Surprise your lover with a new toy. Bring some treats from the kitchen-think syrups, fruits, whipped cream-into the bedroom. Find some intriguing new positions in a book or online. Use your imagination.
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Play together. Throw around a Frisbee or have a water balloon fight. Having fun together makes you feel good about each other and yourself, which is a big turn on. And if the fun includes getting wet, soapy or muddy, that makes it even sexier.
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Switch roles. If your honey is the one to always initiate, take the reins. Make the first move, but don’t stop there. Tell him you are in charge tonight and that he is going to do what you tell him to. Chances are he will be thrilled-and so will you, since he will cater to your every whim.
Give one or all a try…you and your partner will love the results!
Posted in: Affair • Arousal • Fun • Naughty • Romantic • seductive • Sex | Post a Comment »
November 10th, 2009, 10:10 pm by Tara
Did you hear about the beauty brawl between Miss England 2009, Rachel Christie and the reigning Miss Manchester. Rachel reportedly assaulted Sara Beverly Jones in a London nightclub. Rachel reportedly punched her in the face several times after Sara showed her a steamy e-mail message that she claimed had been sent by Christie’s boyfriend, David McIntosh. David is Jones’ ex-boyfriend. Rachel has resigned her position and is awaiting a court date.
What a mess. GROW UP GIRLS. Women should not be fighting over a guy, NO guy is worth that. In fact no person is worth that, men shouldn’t be fighting over women either. If the person you love loves you back there is no need to fight for him/her. If someone else is interested they will be rejected, without you getting involved.
If you end up in a situation where you think you have to fight for it, just walk away. Fighting is a form of insecurity. Stand up for your principles…we are worth far more than losing something that we have strive for. Rachel’s insecurity got the best of her. Wouldn’t be surprised if she ends up on some reality TV show.
Posted in: Affair • Brawl • e-mail • ex-boyfriend • Insecurity • Reality TV | Post a Comment »
November 10th, 2009, 10:31 pm by Tara
There’s a lot of talk about Gossip Girl featuring a sordid sexual tryst with 3 of the actors. Threesomes is not a new topic, its been happening for a long time. I personally wouldn’t participate in a threesome, but there’s a large segment in our society that do. While at UT-Austin threesomes were more common that I care to admit. The threesome groups were never shy in describing their relationships. What they do in their private lives is their business. Sharing their trysts experiences was a way of expressing their sexual satisfaction and securing bragging rights.
It’s no wonder that Gossip Girl would entertain the idea of featuring threesomes on the show, especially with the age demographics of the CW viewer. But to flaunt it to increase ratings is going too far.
Parent groups protested the show. Some media hyped it up. And why?
Parents should be speaking with their children, reminding them of the values and morals instilled. Mind your own matters. Those involved in threesomes are taking their own risks. It’s a choice they make.
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November 11th, 2009, 8:07 pm by Tara
 If you think women don’t sit around fantasizing about naughty things, you better think again. Women are experts when it comes to dreaming up the sauciest of fantasies. The other night I was hanging with a group of girlfriends. We had a great time watching a movie, talking and laughing a lot. One of the girls started talking about her sexual fantasies. Some of the fantasies I won’t write about here.
She sometimes fantasies about a celebrity when making out with her partner. She wasn’t alone. Most of the girls said if the sexy time wasn’t electrifying they fantasize about someone else. Brad Pitt, George Clooney and Matthew McConaughy were top on the list. Some even fantasized over a past lover or a friend. But one thing they all agreed on….if there partner was real hot….there was no need to think about anybody else.
Who’s your fantasy celebrity?
Posted in: Brad Pitt • Fantasies • Hot • lover • Naughty • Uncategorized | Post a Comment »
November 14th, 2009, 7:55 pm by Tara
 Jessica Simpson may have been dumped by Tony Romo — but she’s still his biggest fan. The singer, 29, has been cheering on her ex-beau’s Dallas Cowboys. WHY? Does she not remember how and when they broke up. Maybe this is her payback for all the bitterness she has towards him.
Whatever the case, she needs to remember how she felt when Tony dumped her the night before her 29th birthday. If I were her I sure as hell wouldn’t be supporting him or the team.
Posted in: Cowboys • Dallas • Dumped • ex-boyfriend • Football • Tony Romo | Post a Comment »
November 18th, 2009, 8:32 pm by Tara
Blondes have always had a reputation for having more fun…but do they really? According to a British online survey, blondes are more likely to have a crushed heart on their first date than brunettes or red-heads. A third of first dates in Britain end in “disaster” and blondes are a quarter more likely to have their dreams of true loved nipped in the bud.
Twenty-eight percent of the blondes tried to seduce their date with stories about their ex and previous sexual experiences while 14% admitted getting too drunk. Some even can’t remember the name of their date. 30% of men and 20% of women admitted to going home with their date, with one in four men and one in five women saying they had later bedded them.
A total of 1,300 people were surveyed to discover why so many first dates ended with both parties vowing never to cross paths again. Of the 18 million first dates “enjoyed” by Britons every year, as many as 6 million never progress to a second date. Wonder how that compares to Americans?
Posted in: Blondes • Brunettes • Date • drunk • Red Heads • seduce • Sexual • Uncategorized | Post a Comment »
November 22nd, 2009, 8:04 pm by Tara
Read the article in Sundays Parade Magazine about Hugh Grant yearning for long-term love. Hugh is charming, cute and a good actor, no doubt. I enjoy his movies but his personal life that’s another story. Who can’t forget the prostitute scandal in the 90′s. While dating one of the most beautiful ladies, Elizabeth Hurley, made the biggest mistake in his life. A dashing romantic onscreen, he did the ultimate insane act of having sex with a prostitute. Now he says he ready for a long-term love? Kinda hard to believe.
My girlfriends and I had different opinions on it. Some are still mesmerized by the British accent and sex appeal, and would love to be his lover. Most of us were appalled. How can one trust a guy who so openly cheated on his lady. Some said they would do it for the wealth. I hate it when women succumb for the greed of money. Give me a dashing romantic who treats his lady like a lady, knows how to court his lady and share his life and love in the relationship. Now that’s a guy I would have a long-term relationship with.
Posted in: British • Greed • Hugh Grant • money • Prostitute • Romantic • Scandal | Post a Comment »
November 23rd, 2009, 10:26 pm by Tara
Living next door to swingers has been an experience to say the least. When we moved into our new home, one of my neighbors (Barb) came by and brought a welcome gift. She mentioned during her brief stay that she and her husband Carl had parties in their home at least twice a month. Couple of weeks later, she invited my husband and I to a party. At first everything seemed like a typical party. As the evening progressed, we were blown away with the scene.
My neighbors and their “friends” are swingers. Ten couples were at the party. All were very open about their sexual feelings and being very adventurous about it. They wanted my husband and I to be part of their social community for sexually adventurous couples. Bull sh**…we left the party and made a mad dash to our home. As we sat in our front yard, we looked at each other and just shook our heads. Why would our neighbor invite us to a swingers party, not knowing what type of lifestyles we live? What type of neighborhood did we move in to?
Later in the evening Barb came outside with another guy and before they were getting it on. A while later Carl came out of their home, hugging and kissing a very young girl. They all went back inside the home laughing and talking loud about their experiences.
Barb thinks we were rude leaving the party early. She doesn’t speak or wave to us anymore? I really don’t give a damn. She told a neighbor that we should apologize. Apologize…hell no. She should apologize to us. We are not a couple that engages freely in promiscuous sex. And for her to think that new neighbors would join in the exchange of sexual partners is appalling. They can have their lifestyle but don’t try to force it on others.
Posted in: Adventurous • Party • Sexual • social community • Swingers | 1 Comment »
November 26th, 2009, 5:12 pm by Tara
Sharing one’s relationships, love turmoils, breakups and torrid experiences..LOVE BYTES has addressed many topics for more than a year. You’ve shared your issues by emailing your personal matters to lovebytes@theV247.com and/or commenting on the posts.
Because of you, Love Bytes is being read by more and more people everyday. Month after month, Love Bytes ranks in the top 5 for highest read content on this site. So on this Thanksgiving Day, I say THANKS to all of you for your ongoing readership. Without you, Love Bytes is nothing. Help spread the word about Love Bytes by telling your friends and family to log on. And feel free to include a plug for Love Bytes on your Facebook or Myspace.
Happy Thanksgiving….and good luck as you make a mad rush to the 5 a.m. early bird specials on Black Friday.
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November 28th, 2009, 5:12 pm by Tara
Sexy is a state of mind. Ladies, don’t envy another person because you think she has it all. Think about sexy actresses…Brigitte Bardot, Ali MacGraw, Scarlett Johansson, Jennifer Aniston, Shakira and Kate Moss. You too can have the quirky-cute face and smokin’-hot bod. The right hair and makeup can turn up the heat with your man. Create doe eyes with a few fake lashes at the outer corners and smudged black liner along the upper and lower lids. Heavy eye makeup alludes a dramatic and sensual look. Twist the hair with a brush and blow-dryer to bend the ends. But keep it loose.
The stronger the eye shadow, the better. Use cobalt, turquoise or emerald green over the lids to the crease. Smudge a little black shadow above that. Then put on heavy eyeliner and mascara for a more rebellious look. Have fun and rough up your hair. Finish it with erotic red lips and fingernails.
If you want the good girl next door look, keep your makeup to a minimum. No red….go with pinks, fuchsia, hot pink and strawberry shades. Add some volumizer to your hair for a bouncy and shiny look.
Men are visually focused…attracted to big eyes, small nose, full sultry lips, hot bod and high heels. Try one of these beauty weapons on your next date and experience the joy of sexy. You’ll definitely turn on the heat.
Posted in: Arousal • Date • Erotic • Hot bods • Lust • Make up • seductive • Sexual • Sultry | Post a Comment »
December 2nd, 2009, 8:09 pm by Tara
My fiance and I have been dating for 2 years. During the last several months his sexual desires have decreased. We have talked many times about our sexual relationship but nothing has changed. We’ve talked about frequency, satisfaction, types of sexual activity and the role of intimacy in our relationship. We both love each other and he insists there’s nothing wrong with our relationship. He says I’m more needy than he.
Mando is not the best communicator but he says I’m more needy than he. He believes one’s sex life changes over the course of a relationship, the urgent longing in relationships lessen as time passes.. He claims that his love and sexual desire for me is still strong and that I shouldn’t be concerned. I understand the the passion that we had during our first year of dating was stronger but I don’t think there should be a drastic change within one year.
Talking about it arouses my desires most of the time. We’ve discussed our fantasies and tried new things but none have helped much. I’ve suggested he go to a doctor to make sure everything is okay, but he won’t go.
I wonder how life will be with him after we’re married. Will the issues of sex escalate? —- Sandra, Rio Grande Valley
Posted in: Arousal • bedside talk • Desires • Fantasies • Fiance • Libido • Romance • Sex Drive • Sexual | Post a Comment »
December 4th, 2009, 11:05 pm by Tara
As the headlines continue to tell the saga of TIger Woods trangressions, I have one thing to say….Tiger you did it to yourself. Temptations are everywhere…but to take the bite and keep the lies going on and on…text messages, phones, sexual escapades….you’re a married man with very young kids. As a golfer you’re the best….as a daddy and husband you suck.
Instead of trying to make amends with his beautiful and faithful wife, there’s more concern about the prenup and paying off all parties involved. Money should be the least of TIger’s concerns right now. If he loses some endorsements, they will probably be replaced. But who knows, as affairs become more acceptable in our society, endorsements may remain the same.
The hardest thing to repair is the trust of his wife and two little kids. How can he look his kids in the eye? How can he repair the relationship with his wife and kids? This is something that his image crisis professionals can’t help. Elin and the kids deserve trust. How does he explain to his kids as they become older why he disgraced his family? All the money in the world won’t mend their hearts and trust.
Tiger had it all…world’s greatest golfer, beautiful wife and young kids. The embarrassment and shame that he has brought to his family is irreparable. Why would he take the risk? To risk it all for the love and adventure of sex? Did he really think that his mistresses would never speak up? What a fool. You got caught and you need to face the all the consequences.
Posted in: Affair • Cheating • Lies • lover • Tiger Woods • Transgressions | Post a Comment »
December 5th, 2009, 9:57 pm by Tara
Infidelity…more men and women cheat on their spouses than you care to believe. But why? And are the reasons different between genders? Women basically cheat mostly for emotional reasons while men cheat largely for physical or sexual gratification with no emotional tie. Read on…
Top reasons women cheat:
• Lack of emotional intimacy
• Marital or relationship unhappiness
• Reaffirm her desirability
• To re-experience feelings of romance
• Loneliness.
Top reasons men cheat:
• Just want to have sex or sexual variety
• Presented with an opportunity to have sex, without getting immediately caught
• Satisfy sexual curiosity about having sex with a particular person
• The “thrill of the chase”
• The desire to feel important or special (an ego boost).
Men who are perceived as powerful or influential (executives, professionals, politicians, etc.), the justifications amplify, and the reasons are (according to them) “justifiable,” as they would set their own limits (or not, as it were).
Posted in: Affair • Cheating • Infidelity • Intimacy • Loneliness • Lonely • Lovers • Sexual | Post a Comment »
December 7th, 2009, 10:46 pm by Tara
Have you heard or read what Hugh Hefner has to say about Tiger Woods alleged affairs? Would you really expect anything different from him? His only interest is to capitalize on the affairs. Mistress photo shoots, magazine cover. What a scant….
FROM SPLASH NEWS:
Hugh Hefner has revealed that he was not surprised when he heard about Tiger Woods allegedly cheating on his wife Elin Nordegren. The Playboy founder confessed that he was only surprised that other people were left surprised by the allegations that the golfing ace had cheated with at least three other women.
Hefner said: “I think the only surprise in it, quite frankly, is that anybody would be surprised. “If you’re a good-looking guy and young and healthy, the notion that there would be something else going on, well, marriage is just a convenience.” He added: “It’s very nice for raising kids, but the notion that monogamy lasts forever is a wish!”
Hefner also revealed that he may consider using the golf pro’s alleged mistresses for a Playboy shoot and cover. He said: “We’re not looking for scandal, but I don’t know. We’ll see.”
Posted in: Affair • Hugh Hefner • Infidelity • Intimacy • Mistress • Scandal • Tiger Woods • Transgressions | Post a Comment »
December 15th, 2009, 2:35 pm by Tara
We spent the holiday at my boyfriend’s family’s house and are headed to my parents home for Christmas. The big question is where do we sleep? Do we share a bed or does one retreat to a lumpy couch and spend your nights alone? My boyfriend Tim and I face this every time we visit our parents. Each set of parents live in different states so it’s not just a day trip. For me it’s a respect issue but to Tim it depends on which parents we visit.
We visited his parents Thanksgiving weekend. His parents know that we’ve been dating for almost a year, but every time we visit I don’t know if we should sleep together in the same room. Tim says I’m crazy…that his parents know that we sleep together so what’s the problem with doing it at their home. Yet if it’s my parents home, he doesn’t feel as comfortable with sleeping together.
If we sleep together in their home(s) does that show lack of respect to his parents? Does it matter if there’s one or two beds in the bedroom? Each of our parents have two spare bedrooms so availability is not an issue. What if a parent takes a lead and says it’s OK? Should we accept their offer? Would they pass judgment on us if we said yes? We would feel compelled to keep quiet in the bedroom….think about it parents are just a room or wall away.
Does sleeping together offend parents? Do they view it as a moralistic stance? We’ve given hints in the past like, where do I find sheets for the couch but they never really address our issue. We’re both in our 30′s…why do we feel this way?
What do you do?
Posted in: Bed • Bedroom • Couch • Holiday • Parents • Respect • Sleeping arrangements | Post a Comment »
December 22nd, 2009, 7:28 am by Tara
People are losing their virginity at earlier ages than in the past. It appears that people who tend to be chunky may lose their virginity earlier and without any protection. Some apparently don’t worry about risks involved. WHAT! That’s a really bad choice. Girls as young as 12 are going all the way. OMG. Why?
Hollywood celebrities haven’t helped at all. In fact they like to flaunt themselves. Sean Conney claims he lost his virginity at the age of 8. Johnny Depp…he was only 13. Read on for more.
Angelina Jolie says that she has been a horn dog for a long time, and even recalls making out with boys in nursery school.(Oh really Angelina?) She says she lost her virginity at 14 to her first BF. Her lover must not have been very satisfying because after making out, she began cutting him with a knife. Yikes….Brad better keep her satisfied.
In Kate Moss: Model of Imperfection, an unauthorized biography, author Katherine Kendall dishes on Kate Moss’ sexcapades. Kendall claims that Moss got hot n’ heavy for the first time in the Bahamas when she was just 14. Kate supposedly went over the book carefully and planned to sue if any details weren’t true, but this little factoid stayed.
When he was 26, nasty pants Randy Spelling (he’s Tori’s loser brother) took 15-year-old Paris Hilton’s virginity. 15 years…Dude, she wasn’t even legal.
Sienna Miller gave it up to her first “serious” BF when she was 16. Her mom insisted that they get it on in the house because she apparently she didn’t want little Sienna doing it outside. Ooookay, we hope her mom at least left the house while the couple had their, er, moment.
Daniel Radcliffe began working his magic in the bedroom at 16. So who was the lady? He won’t say. But she was quite a bit older than him. Daniel said the age difference “wasn’t ridiculous but it would freak some people out.”
Matthew McConaughey admits that he lost his virginity when he was 15, but he won’t dish on the details. When US Weekly asked him about his first bedroom adventure he said, “None of your business.” Now that’s the way to handle the question.
Badass sexpot Johnny Depp used to play guitar in a rock band called The Flame. Well, things got hot as a flame when, at 13, Depp lost his virginity to a groupie in the back of the band’s van. 13…that’s too young….and in the van….
In a book called Where Do Nudists Keep Their Hankies? the author claims that Sean Connery began getting it on at the ridiculously young age of 8. Sean says, “I was 8, but I can’t recall with whom.” Can’t remember? I don’t think so. Who forgets their first time?
Britney Spears’ virginity has been hotly debated but in her mom’s book, Through the Storm, Lynn Spears capitalizes on her daughter’s fame and dishes all the dirt. She says her daughter did NOT lose her v-card to Justin Timberlake, like everyone thought. Instead, she gave it up to a high school football jock when she was 14.
Ozzy Osbourne may be crazy and old now, but he was hot stuff when he was younger. He was doing it by the time he was 14. Kelly lost it at 16. Their v-cards aren’t the only thing the Osbournes have trouble holding on to. Their sanity seems to be slipping away too.
Do you remember your first time, who and where it happened? Share your experiences (no names please) by posting a comment on this posting or email thev247@valleystar.com.
source: Early Bird Celebrities Who Lost Their V-Card Young
Posted in: Angelina Jolie • Brittney Spears • Johnny Depp • Matthew McConaughey • Sex • Virginity | Post a Comment »
December 9th, 2009, 9:54 pm by Tara
Jaimee Grubbs, LA-based cocktail waitress and Tiger Woods alleged mistress #2, says she sorry that she slept with a married man and hopes that Tiger’s wife, Elin, will accept her apology. During an interview with EXTRA, she tried to play the remorse card.
Remorse? Bullsh**. Come on Jaimee…so remorseful that you say you repeatedly slept with another woman’s husband for THREE years and claim that you slept with him as recently as Oct. 18th? She rationalizes her behavior saying “If it wasn’t me, it was going to be other girls. I did care about him – I didn’t do it for superficial reasons. I didn’t do it to purposely hurt her (Elin).”
So why the hell did she do it? She knew what she was doing. She knew that her actions would destroy a family. These alleged mistresses are not victims as they’re claiming. They are who they are…single women on the chase to steal a husband.
Jaime say it’s “devastating” and “it hurts” as news continues to break that Tiger had alleged affairs with multiple women. When one cheats they’re most likely to cheat again and again. As the saying goes….what goes around, comes around. You caused whatever shame and hurt that you may now feel. Your hurt is only an ounce compared to what Elin is going through. Save your tears…what you have done is enabled a high profile person to destroy his personal and professional. One simple word (NO) and you would not be in the predicament that you have placed yourself in.
Quit making excuses and thinking about yourself. The public has no empathy for you. Our heart and prayers are with Elin and the children. They need all the support they can get.
Posted in: Affair • Cheating Spouse • Elin • Jaimee Grubbs • married man • Mistress • Other woman • Tiger Woods • Transgressions | Post a Comment »
December 10th, 2009, 8:05 pm by Tara
Tiger Woods is not the only guy to cheat on a beautiful wife. His high profile “transgressions” have blemished his once perfect brand and image. Many guys give warning signs that go unnoticed. Some ladies notice some of the changes but don’t want to face the situation.
So ladies, take a look at some of these warning signs published in Cosmopolitan..they may indicate that your guy is being unfaithful or going a stray.
1. He’s superprotective of his gadgets. You can discover a lot of incriminating evidence through e-mails, IM chats, cell phone texts or bills. If he gets upset when you touch his phone or computer, this could be a red flag.
2. He steps up the grooming. If he’s spending more time at the gym, starting to groom better he may be trying to appeal to another lady.
3. He smells different. He comes home with a different scent. The old saying “the nose knows” might be true.
4. Nothing fazes him anymore. If your guy is suddenly going around very happy all the time, whistling and doing things that he never has done before you may want to investigate what’s going on. Also, if things just don’t faze him anymore, but they did before, could be a sign that someone else is helping to make him relaxed.
5. He becomes suspicious of you. He begins to question your whereabouts all the time. If his responses to usual questions become too detailed could be a means of not being caught.
6. It’s not always sexual related. Many affairs are not just sexual, he may just be unhappy in other parts of the relationship.
AND GUYS….a lot of women have joined the cheating game too.
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December 14th, 2009, 11:51 pm by Tara
Cougars are taking to the high seas on a special cruise suited for their lifestyles. No we’re not talking about animals. “Cougars” are older women who prey upon young, virile men.
Today, older women dating younger men is more than just acceptable, it’s hot. Carnival Cruise Lines is all over the sexy new trend, offering its first-ever International Cougar Cruise. Yes “cougars” are on the hunt for the “cubs” ( younger men).
The term cougar has risen from relative obscurity at the turn of the century to become an accepted lifestyle choice for many. Urbandictionary.com describes a cougar as: “An older woman, typically early thirties to mid-forties, who has abandoned traditional rules of romantic engagement and taken as her mission the seduction of as many game young men as she can possibly handle.”
Cougar women tend to look and feel younger and have higher energy than most women their own age. They say they can’t date men their own age because the men can’t keep up with them and they prefer to just sit and watch TV.
The entire cougar cruise experience happens over just a quick weekend, similar to a May-December romance. Each night their are coordinated cougar-cub singles events, dancing and plenty of drinks to go around. With no bosses, friends or family around, the “cougar” cruise becomes a true “Love Boat” experience.
Some of my friends say there’s nothing wrong with being a “cougar.” That these women know exactly what they do and don’t want. Unconditional sex. No children, cohabitation, or commitment.They’re experienced, capable women teaching men the joy of sex. It’s consensual, and yes both parties might win, but you’ll never see me on the “cougar cruise.”
Would you (cougars or cubs) set sail on the cruise?
Posted in: Cougar • Cruise • Love Boat • Romantic • Seduction | 2 Comments »
December 29th, 2009, 9:58 pm by Tara
My boyfriend Brandon and I went out and had a very romantic evening. When he left my apartment I told him “I Love You.” He looked at me, smiled and said, “I’ll call you later.” No “I love you too,” just a mere mention that he’ll call me later….it upset me terribly.
We’ve been dating for 6 months and I feel we know each other very well. We see each other 4-5 times a week and are socially and sexually very compatible. He’s always tells me he cares a lot for me. So why didn’t he say he loves me?
We discussed it and he thinks it’s too early in our relationship to fall in love. He doesn’t understand that girls are more needier than guys, we fall in love sooner and we love to hear the words “I Love You.” He’s afraid that I’ll have higher expectations in the relationship if we both verbally go to the next level. He thinks guys that say it early in the relationship are immature and are only saying it to make the lady feel better.
Why is it that girls are usually the first to profuse their love? Do women think they’re in love when it’s really lust? Do men know what love is early in a relationship? At what point do men think it’s OK to confess their love? How many guys say it just to make their ladies feel better? Do men fear love? How long should a lady wait for her lover to confess his love for her?
Posted in: Love • Lovers • Lust • Relationships • Romantic • Sexual | Post a Comment »
December 30th, 2009, 10:13 pm by Tara
Another year, another year of the oh so boring New Years Resolutions. Many people promise to stop annoying habits or start new work-out regimes, eat healthy, lose weight, budget better, work less, etc. Most ditch their high hopes within a short period of time (sometimes only one week).
The hell with that. Make 2010 the year of love with a few romantic resolutions.
- Date Night.
Set a ‘date night’ at least once a month. Even if it’s just dinner and a movie, make time for each other and get out and about. Or be creative and pay attention to romantic details. Romance doesn’t end during football season. Even dedicated football fans can be creative during the season. Spark romance during the football season by playing flag football together, go to a football game, nibble and cuddle on the couch during the game, sneak a kiss for every first down. Or better yet, take a piece of clothing off for every point scored.
- I Love You
We always think that we say “I Love You” enough, but in reality, you can never say it enough. Tell your partner several times a day that you love them. Come up with different ways of saying “I Love You.”
- Words of Love.
Nothing sparks the warm fuzzies of love than seeing it written out on paper. Try leaving your partner a love note in the morning to find when he or she wakes up. Vow to write a passionate letter or love poem once a month. If you’re not a poet, you can still leave love notes to your sweetie.
- Surprises.
Spontaneity is the key here. Try sending her flowers “just because”. Buy him 2 tickets to his favorite sport or movie. — and go with him. Vow to surprise your partner at least once a month.
- Weekend Get-a-way.
Take a romantic weekend away for no reason (no anniversary, no holiday) just do it. Head to a cabin in the mountains, a local bed and breakfast, or a relaxing spa. It doesn’t really matter where you go, just bring along a few essentials. Check out romantic love games…you’ll love what happens.
- Show Your Love.
Give your partner compliments, hold hands, open doors, and engage in public displays of affection. It’s the little things you do to show your love that always mean the most.
- Be creative.
Shake up your romantic life with a little creativity. Think outside of the box. Romance can become boring if you never add some spice to it.
- Have Fun.
Take up a hobby together this year. Join a softball team together, take dancing or golf lessons. You’ll not only learn something new, but you’ll have fun with your partner at the same time!
- Do Something.
Make him lunch. Paint her toenails. Wash and wax his car. Do her weekly chores. You’ve always heard that it’s the little things that really matter when it comes to showing how much you care. So vow to show how much you care by doing something nice for your partner frequently. It’s the practical (and much appreciated) way to show your love!
- Learn More About Each Other.
There is always more to learn about your partner and you can have a lot of fun doing it. Spend quality time together to get to know each other better than you thought possible.
Everyone needs a little more love and romance in their life in 2010. So ditch the usual ho hum ideas and vow to include some of these romantic resolutions in your relationship(s).
Here’s to a new year filled with romance, love and hot nights.
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January 4th, 2010, 8:25 pm by Tara
 Is Facebook having an effect on your marriage? Face it. Facebook is the hottest social networking site where users always post their best looking and sexy pics. Many create their profiles to entice or solicit an affair or explicit sexual behavior. They invite new “Friends” and seek out old friends. They brag about how sexy or buff they are compared to their high school days.
According to UK lawyers, Facebook is being blamed for an increasing number of marital splits with the site being cited in almost one in five of online divorces. Why? Spouses are connecting with old friends and making new ones and the popularity of Facebook is apparently tempting to people to cheat on their spouses or partners.
Suspicious spouses have also used the websites to find evidence of flirting and even affairs which have led to divorce. One lawyer states that 20% of all divorce petitions contain references to Facebook. The most common reasons appears to be people having inappropriate sexual chats and flirty emails and messages with their “friends.”
One 35-year-old woman discovered her husband was divorcing her via Facebook. He updated his status on the site to read: “Neil has ended his marriage to Emma.” Last year a 28-year-old woman ended her marriage after discovering her husband had been having a virtual affair with someone he had never met. Another Britton split with her partner after finding out that he was sleeping with an escort in the game Second Life, a virtual world where people reinvent themselves.
Around 14 million Britons are believed to regularly use social networking sites to communicate with old friends or make new ones. With two in five UK marriages failing, I wonder how this compares to US
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January 5th, 2010, 9:47 pm by Tara
 I’m royally pissed off at a male associate. He will not leave me alone. He is married and so am I. For the past several months he continually asks me out for happy hour, dinner, movies, etc. I have told him over and over that I’m not interested. I’m happily married and he knows it. But he is persistence and says he’ll never give up on me.
I’m tired of dealing with him. He obviously has problems in his marriage, but cheating on his spouse is not the answer. And I don’t want any part of it.
If this continues I’ll need to do something to call him on it. — KLH
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January 7th, 2010, 9:33 pm by Tara
 BeautifulPeople.com, self branded as the sexiest website in the world today, is dealing with some bad but deserving public relations. The online dating site has reportedly kicked out more than 5,000 “festive fatties” who gained some weight during the holidays. These shallow and superficial people obviously equate weight gain as a loss of beauty. How self-centered can one be?
Apparently applicants are voted on by current members and a slight weight gain is unacceptable. Prior to kicking the users off the company gave suggestions for boot camps and workout facilities to get themselves back in shape and to see if they’d be allowed back on the site. Allowed back on the site? That’s bullsh**.
Looks matter when it comes to selecting a partner. But a small weight gain during the holidays doesn’t make a person unattractive and unsexy. Obviously the site considered these people sexy and attractive prior to the holidays.
“We responded to complaints by moving the newly chubby members back to the rating stage. This is the same as having them re-apply,” said Greg Hodge, the managing director. Mr Hodge said the “festive fatties” had become an annual problem. “Every year we see that some of our members from western cultures eat and drink to excess over the holidays and clearly their looks suffer,” he said.
Robert Hintze, founder of BeautifulPeople.com, said: “As a business, we mourn the loss of any member, but the fact remains that our members demand the high standard of beauty be upheld. Letting fatties roam the site is a direct threat to our business model and the very concept for which BeautifulPeople.com was founded.”
Well Mr. Hintze, you reap what you sow. And the actual users, they need to take responsibility as well. The site explicitly asks the question, “Too ugly to sign up? and then encourages viewers to browse the site to see what type of people are accepted.
These people knew the guidelines of the site, so they shouldn’t whine about being nixed. They knew what they were getting themselves into. So I don’t feel sorry for them one bit.
Love Bytes viewers: Would you be angry if you got kicked off the site? Do you think this is fair? Do you think the site does this merely as a publicity stunt? Post your comments and let us know.
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January 7th, 2010, 9:47 pm by Tara
This is KLH and my fellow associate is still trying to get me to go out with him. Earlier you posted my problem (GO2 Married Man Pursuits posting) and I was hoping he would read it and leave me alone. If he read it, he hasn’t changed. I’ve had it. If he bothers me one more time, I’m going to call him on it. Thanks Love Bytes for hearing me out. — KLH
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January 12th, 2010, 10:52 pm by Tara
Either today or Thursday is the day. I’m finalizing my plans to call him on it. I’m a little nervous and will probably be real nervous and stressed out when we meet. But I gotta do it. More to come. — KLH
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January 14th, 2010, 8:20 pm by Tara
If you’re a “Cougar” and want to take a Carnival cruise for social lifestyle, you are out of luck. Carnival Cruise Lines is pulling the plug on “Cougar” Cruises. Appears the company won’t be sailing anymore with a boatload of “cougars” and their younger guys. Associated Press is reporting that the Miami-based company has turned down a request from a singles travel group to book another cruise with the cougar theme.
The singles group said the ban is unfounded. They point to their first cruise on Carnival’s Elation in December that drew about 300 women and the men they call “cubs. Carnival said there were no problems with last month’s trip, it’s just a business decision. They have no room for groups with that “theme.”
Analysts said it’s meant to protect Carnival’s focus on family fun. Word on the street, or on the waters, is that the cruise was indeed a success and that demand spiked for more such trips. In fact Singles Travel Company had to hire two more people part-time to answer the phones.” Party planners said they’ve had no trouble booking with rivals Norwegian and Royal Caribbean.
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January 13th, 2010, 10:02 pm by Tara
I can’t believe I finally did it. Recall my fellow associate that kept pursuing me to go out with him. He’s married and so am I. Well tonight I finally did it…I called him on it. And I feel damn good but I’m still shaking inside and probably won’t get any sleep tonight.
We met for happy hour at a busy place. I was so nervous, I was sick to my stomach. But I didn’t show my feelings at all. We talked and laughed as if we had just met each other at the bar. I really put on a good show and it was hard to do it. He bought me 3 drinks but I only drank one. He talked about how he fell in love with me the first time he meet me at work. How his life would be complete if I dated him. How he looks forward to coming to work so he can see me. How he can’t live without me.
When he started talking like this I didn’t say much. He tried to touch my hand and body while he spoke but I kept pulling away. He never brought up his marriage, wife or children. (What an a**hole)
He wanted me to feel the same way for him. That’s when I began to let him have it. I told him to never ever talk with me again. That hell no I wouldn’t go out with him and that I despised him. I reminded him that I’m happily married to my husband and I would never have an affair. He kept saying…”I can make your life complete…I love you like nobody ever will.” What a scumbag. It was sickening. I felt like throwing up on him.
It was time to really call him on it. My husband (yes this was planned) had been waiting in the bar for my cue to come to our table. After tapping my nose 3 times in a row, he quickly came to our table and let him have it. My husband had very stern words with him. He basically told him if he didn’t leave me alone he would talk with his wife and his boss about what’s been going on. A verbal fight pursued with such strong words (words that I’d rather not say here) were ranted for a couple of minutes. It seemed like forever. Things got really bad. When my husband took out his phone to call for help, he got up out of his chair, looked at me with cold eyes, and left. I was shaking so bad. When he walked out of the bar, people sitting next to our table immediately came over and said they were ready to help. One of the guys went outside to make sure he had driven away. Now I wonder what tomorrow brings.
My husband and I plan on talking with my boss tomorrow morning and let him know what’s happened. I’m worried what he might do when he comes to work in the morning and when he finds out that I’ve talked with our boss. I just want this ordeal to end…..I want him to leave me alone. — KLH
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January 14th, 2010, 8:32 pm by Tara
I really didn’t want to go to work today after what happened last night at happy hour. I was afraid what”he” (the married man/associate) would say or do. My husband and I had planned to go and talk with my boss but we decided to see what “he” would do.
I quietly entered my workplace and stayed in my office. I did not go the the break room for coffee. He always went to the break room every morning for a cup of coffee. Later in the day I figured our paths would cross but no, never happened.
By late morning I learned that “he” had called in sick. Let’s see if he comes to work on Friday. — KLH
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January 20th, 2010, 9:29 pm by Tara
Did you hear about Jennifer Love Hewitt’s appearance on Lopez Tonight? It got a little wide. I love George Lopez. I’ve seen him in person and I love his shows. George can handle just about anything, but on Tuesday’s broadcast Jennifer shocked him with a very personal revelation.
When Jennifer stated that she has vadazzled her vajayjay, George was stunned. George was speechless, if you can image that.
What’s a “vadazzled vajayjay” you ask? Jennifer got a “brazilian cut” and then put sparkly crystals on her private parts. Jennifer said that “after a break-up, a friend Swarovski-crystalled my ‘precious lady’.” She said she was feeling awful and had been through a horrible break up and needed something to make her feel better.
Jennifer had a lot to say about her new “look.” “It’s great. It’s cute, it’s cute. It really helped me. It looks like a little disco ball down there it’s great. Really.” REALLY JENNIFER did you have to tell everyone that you have a vadge like a disco ball. How you deck your vadge is your business…to go on national TV seems like a publicity stunt.
Vadazzling one’s vjayjay is becoming the latest trend. And it’s not just the ladies doing it, men are also dazzling up their private parts.
Is this another form of art? Is it cheesy? Is it sexy? Would your lover like being vadazzled? Would you want your lover to be vadazzled or bedazzled? Tell us by leaving comments. No pics please.
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January 27th, 2010, 8:26 pm by Tara
Did you hear that a Manhattan woman filed a lawsuit against her hubby? She alleges her soon to be ex-husband gave her STD that’s ruined her life. She claims her hubby engaged in unprotected sex with hookers and because of his transgressions she now has HPV.
In papers filed in state Supreme Court, Stephanie Lerner said she was infected with “several severe incurable strains of the human papilloma virus” as a result of the affairs conducted by her husband. She said her condition got so bad, she had to undergo several operations. The suit accuses Lerner of failing to warn his wife of 16 years that he’d had “numerous encounters of unprotected sexual relations with commercial sex workers in China and Japan, as well as an ongoing affair with Jane Doe in New York.
Why do some guys repeatedly cheat on their wives? What type of life and legacy do they think they will eventually have? Look at Tiger Woods. A husband that cheats and infects his wife with a STD is a skank. Does he have remorse? Bullshit. A cheater has no remorse. A man like Stephanie’s husband will continue to spread the virus. He’ll never fess up with his one-night stands or short term relationships.
Should Stephanie sue her husband? Hell yes. She’ll be dealing with her disease till she dies. He’s responsible for her health issues, so he needs to financially support her to cover medical costs, plus. Women have won many lawsuits against their husbands with sizeable payouts. Some have been awarded $1.5 million and more. But $25 Million?
What say you? What would you do if you were Stephanie or her husband? What is a fair payout?
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January 20th, 2010, 8:29 pm by Tara
That’s right. The guy who was pursuing me at work resigned. He called in sick for 3 consecutive days and when he came back he gave our boss 2 weeks notice.
Earlier in the week, my husband and I met with my boss and told him everything that happened. At first my boss seemed not to believe me. But when I showed him the text and voice messages he became very concerned. He even had pictures of me on his Facebook. I was pissed when I found out about this. My boss asked me why I didn’t tell him sooner and I told him I was afraid I would lose my job. I had to meet with human resources to explain what happened.
Now, my job is getting back to normal again. I’m glad because I like my job and the people I work with. The guy is not allowed in our building or anywhere on our property. I hope I never see or hear from him again. — KLH
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February 3rd, 2010, 8:51 pm by Tara
A McAllen 20-something emailed saying she loves to vadazzle her vajayjay. She changes her look frequently. Fireworks for new years. Hearts for Valentine’s. She says it’s the best thing she’s done for her sex life. She even offered to post pics on Love Bytes. Share ladies….r u now vadazzling your vajayjay?
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February 4th, 2010, 2:34 pm by Tara
Grab your Hottie and Pucker up. Who’s got the hottest kiss in the Rio Grande Valley?
Enter the HOT KISSES PHOTO Contest to win Dinner & Movie for 2. Prizes for 2nd & 3rd places too! Have fun with this!
GO2 www.theV247.com – click on Hot Kisses rotating flash and enter ur pics. Then share the contest info with your friends and family. Complete rules on theV247.com.
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February 5th, 2010, 7:47 pm by Tara
Ladies aren’t the only ones vadazzling their privates. The men are too. Just ask Mario of San Benito. Mario says he’s been vadazzling his “jewels” since last year. He says both he and his wife vadazzle each other and their love making has never been better.
Mario…TMI?
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February 8th, 2010, 10:00 pm by Tara
Enter the Hot Kisses Contest and you could win dinner for 2 at Texas Roadhouse and movie passes. Submit your kissing pics to www.theV247.com.
You could be one of the top three winners. Do it now….
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February 13th, 2010, 7:10 pm by Tara
Received this from a good friend…just have to share it with you….ENJOY … HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY
#1: Smurf Sex
This kind of sex happens when you first meet someone, and you both have sex until you are blue in the face.
# 2: Kitchen Sex
This is when you have been with your partner for a short time, and you are so needy you
will have sex anywhere, even in the kitchen.
# 3: Bedroom Sex
This is when you have been with your partner for a long time. Your sex has gotten routine, and you usually have sex only in your bedroom.
# 4: Hallway Sex
This is when you have been with your partner for too long. When you pass each other in the hallway you both say ‘screw you,” and make the woo woo sound.
# 5: Religious Sex
Which means you get Nun in the morning, Nun in the afternoon and Nun at night. (Very Popular)
# 6: Courtroom Sex
This is when you cannot stand your wife any more. She takes you to court and screws you in front of everyone.
And; Last, but not least, # 7 Social Security Sex
You get a little each month. But not enough to enjoy yourself.
SPREAD THE LOVE!!
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February 18th, 2010, 7:34 pm by Tara
WIN DINNER for TWO at TEXAS ROADHOUSE AND MOVIE PASSES….
Take a pic of you and your sweetie kissing on Valentine’s Day or any other day, and submit it in the Hot Kisses Contest.
SUBMIT PICS at www.theV247.com – click on Hot Kisses Flash
Pics must be respectful….
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February 16th, 2010, 10:29 pm by Tara
Maxim.com has finally published their 2009 picks for the top 100. As the website reports…”The eyeball-searing, fantasy-fulfilling, brain-exploding return of the Hot 100!”
I don’t agree with some of their top picks….but check them out. Then tell us who’s the hottest and why. GO2 www.maxim.com/girls/hot-100
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February 18th, 2010, 8:25 pm by Tara
Most men love morning sex mainly because the wake up with an erection. Why waste it? The problem, women don’t feel the same.
Women prefer to keep sex reserved for the night. That’s when it’s more enjoyable.
Who’s got time for morning sex? Mornings are hectic. Many things are on their mind when the alarm goes off, especially if there are children in the home. Get the kids out of bed, prepare breakfast, eat,cleaning up, trying to get dressed and finally flying out the door to try to get everyone to their place on time.
Guys don’t understand. They snuggle up to you in hopes of having a morning romp. Bad breath, plus. Men and women need to think differently and add some spunk to their morning sex routine.
Ladies, prepare the previous night. Have fresh breath mints and condoms on your night table. Try going to bed earlier so you can wake up earlier. This will help you get ready and still be at work on time.
Guys..don’t just dive into morning sex; you need to be more romantic. Wake up your lady with warm kisses and sensuous caressing. You may be ready but your lady may take a while to get warmed up, so be prepared for a long foreplay
Be sensuous; most women like a gentle approach in the morning, so control your hormones. Touch her softly and slowly. Kiss her all over her face and body. Play with her hair. She wants to feel loved and nurtured when she opens her eyes. This way she will be all the more ready to please you during sex. Make her feel desirable.
Morning sex could mean the difference between a good day and a great day. I promise, if you do some if not all of these things, you’ll be getting some early lovin’. And guys, we usually know when you’ve made love in the morning. You arrive to work smiling and happy to begin the day, and you continue to revel in it throught the day. Ladies, on the other hand, rarely show their morning romp. Once they get to work, they just work.
So what type of day will you have? Good or Great?
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February 22nd, 2010, 10:18 pm by Tara
Tiger Woods news conference seemed very rehearsed and planned with well-thought intentions. Some say he was putting on a show. Whatever the case it had to have been the most difficult thing he has ever done. Was he nervous? Hell yes and he should have been. Wouldn’t you be? Was he sincere? I think he was.
I can’t blame him for staying secluded up to now. The media would have torn him to pieces…and what about Elin and the kids. He hopefully put his family first and not the media, papparazzi and fans. He needed and still needs his privacy as he tries to rebuild his life, marriage and kids together.
And for the women he had affairs with, they didn’t love him. They loved the chase, his popularity and more importantly his money. The mistresses need to realize that they were just bootie calls and nothing else. They’ve had their 15 minutes and it’s now time for them to get off the stage. But no…they’re just sluts waiting for the big payoff.
To the network TV station that aired an interview with one of the alleged mistresses the same day as Tiger’s conference… where are your news ethics? Your news judgment lends no credibility to you and all network news broadcasts. There’s far greater important REAL news to report on. Sensationalism is not news. Thank God for newspapers and cable news!
Tiger now needs to be a man of his words. Media need to stay away. Let the private man get the continuing help he so desperately needs and stop breathing on his and his family’s back. The media including the tabloids need to move on. Quit hurting Elin and the family … find another reason to increase falling viewership. Get a life and move on! Tiger and his family owe you and us nothing.
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April 20th, 2010, 7:09 pm by Tara
My best friend called me and she was very upset. She has been dating a guy for one month and she wondered why he would never make out with her. They would do some heavy petting, but she couldn’t respond. He would tell her that he wanted to wait for the right time. Well, last Saturday, they both had to much to drink and ended up in bed. She saw the shock of her lifetime!
Her boyfriend has “elephantitis.” What is elephantitis? It’s a gross enlargement of one’s body, so large that genitals can become the size of a basketball. His genitals were so huge that she was totally turned off. As she dressed to leave, he kept telling her “I’m sorry, but I didn’t think you would be with me if I told you.” What a jerk!
She is so pissed because she thinks he should have been upfront with her instead of telling her that he was waiting for the right time. He continues to call her, leaving messages apologizing for what happened and wants to see her again. She has no desire to see him and will not call him back.
What do you think she should do? Did he lie to her? At what point in the relationship should he had told her? Leave a comment now. Leslie wants your opinion.
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June 1st, 2010, 9:05 pm by Tara
I was shocked recently when I heard what professions top the list as the most guilty of infidelity. Trustworthy and law abiding citizens? Where did this info come from? A dating site for married people! As least what the respondents claim. AshleyMadison.com, the dating site for married people surveyed all of their new members last year. Of the 1.9 million folks who signed up to cheat these were the top professions:
For Women:
1. Teachers
2. Stay-at-home Moms
3. Nurses
4. Administrative Assistants
5. Real Estate Agents
For Men:
1. Physicians
2. Police Officers
3. Lawyers
4. Real Estate Agents
5. Engineers
These top professions are often high stress and require many to work long hours. Women cheat mostly for emotional reasons. Men admitted to cheating largely for physical or sexual gratification with no emotional tie. And the men who perceived themselves as “powerful” or “influential” (like doctors, cops and lawyers), say their cheating was “justifiable.”
Justifiable? Hell no. You skanks….you spout values and morals but obviously you don’t walk your talk. Some of their lives must be like a big hump-a-thon.
It’s been alleged that the more boring a woman’s job the more she screws around. And the more interesting and well paid a man’s job, the more he screws around. What’s missing from this list is the entertainment industry – actors, musicians, directors, producers. Why? They don’t have to go to a website to find opportunities to cheat on their spouses – the opportunities come to them.
Men and women around the world are doing the same thing, right now, as you read this, AND most won’t ever get caught. SHOCKING isn’t it?
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June 21st, 2010, 7:29 pm by Tara
Have you heard about the new female condom?   South African Dr. Sonnett Ehlers has invented a female anti-rape condom.
The woman inserts the latex cond om. Jagged rows of teeth-like hooks line its inside and attach on a man’s penis during penetration, Ehlers said. Once it lodges, only a doctor can remove it. “It hurts, he cannot pee and walk when it’s on,” she said. “If he tries to remove it, it will clasp even tighter… however, it doesn’t break the skin, and there’s no danger of fluid exposure.”
Duh…I bet it hurts.
Women take drastic measures to prevent rape in South Africa, Ehlers said, with some wearing extra tight biker shorts and others inserting razor blades wrapped in sponges in their private parts. She is distributing the female condoms in the several South African cities where the World Cup games are being held.
The female condom may sound like a medieval device but maybe (we hope) some men will think twice before they rape a woman.
What do you think about this condom? Love to hear your thoughts…
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June 28th, 2010, 8:44 pm by Tara
My friends and I were talking about how women are showing off their cleavage and boobs no matter where they are, even at work. Obviously businesses don’t have that strict of a dress code anymore. Couple of my friends always show so much cleavage that they leave little to the imagination.
Gina stated she does it (whether at work or going out) because it looks good and she likes to show her sexuality and impress the guys. Rebecca says she wears what’s in style and if that means showing off her breasts, she will. But she gets pissed when guys look at her cleavage. “Guys tend to look at my breasts when we speak, and not my face,” she said. She said her boss is the worst at doing this. (She called him on it one time, but he quickly moved his eye balls to her eyes.)
Before long a guy came to our table. He stated that the “Boobquake” helps make his days and gets him more dates. “Boobquake”? That’s a term we hadn’t heard.
His friend Dave came over (bought us a round of beers…thanks) and said he loves to admire a woman’s body. He loves to look at a woman’s breast but when he’s looking for a date, he’d rather not go out with that type of lady! Dave thinks the ladies showing their sexuality by exposing their breasts have probably been around and he’d rather not be part of her love life.
Lori, married with 3 kids, says she has cleavage but can’t help it. If she likes the style of a shirt, she’s going to wear it because she feels good in it. She claims it’s not for any one person’s enjoyment but hers. Her husband has not problem with this..in fact we think it makes him feel good to know other men lust what he has every day.
“Boobquake” or not, single and married women are showing off their breasts like never before. Ladies, why do or don’t you show off your cleavage? And guys does this arouse your interest to want to get to know and date a lady? Or do you think of this lady as a one or two date.
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June 28th, 2010, 9:00 pm by Tara
Does this apply to Americans as well?
LONDON – British women take four times as long to get ready for work on Mondays than on Fridays, while men also put less effort into their appearance as the week goes on, according to research by retail chain Debenhams.
On average, women spend 76 minutes getting ready on Mondays — with almost a third of that spent on their hair — 18 minutes on make-up, 16 minutes trying on clothes and the rest taken up by showering and washing.
This is reduced to 40 minutes on Tuesdays and continues to decline as the week goes on, falling to 19 minutes on Fridays.
“Make the most of looking at your work colleagues on a Monday morning, because that’s as good as they’re going to get,” said Ed Watson, a Debenhams spokesman.
But men too let their standards suffer with each passing day, the survey of 1,000 customers by Debenhams’ personal shopper network found. They take 28 minutes on Monday, half that on Tuesday and 11 for the rest of the week.
“It’s clear that most men can only pay attention to their appearance for a maximum of two days before opting for an acceptable level of dishevelment,” said Watson. “Women try to keep their dress standards higher for longer, but by the time Friday comes, they too have gone down a line of least resistance.”
So…I guess the best day to ask a co-worker out is Monday…when she or he looks and feels their best! Wish me luck…I’m going to try it.
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July 7th, 2010, 8:12 pm by Tara
 Yes, female beer drinkers are “sexy, confident, fun, and independent.” A recent UK survey of 2,000 men found that, when out on a date, guys are more attracted to women who order a beer instead of “girlier” drinks.
According to the study, only one in 10 women typically orders a beer on a date. Only one in 10…that’s seems like a low number to me.
Those Britons need to come to America to get a taste of the real life.
The survey claims that women who drink more beer are seen as “fun and independent.” Female beer drinkers are perceived as “sexy, confident, fun, and independent.”
But the “girlie” girls. OMG they said that ordering beer would make them appear “masculine and unattractive.”
A plus for the ladies…the guys say it’s a turn-on when women enjoy a cold, frosty beer instead of sipping wine or a cocktail. Bring on the beer….
You may take this survey with a grain of salt, as well as a slice of lemon, but I agree with the finding. Many female beer drinkers I know are sexy, confident, fun and great lovers. Even though some of the guys I know say that girls that don’t drink beer are sexier and are more fun in bed. Guess it depends what type of fun you’re wanting. Give me another cold beer…life is good!
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July 12th, 2010, 7:37 am by Tara
 Some people say there is no moment in sports more romantic than the beginning of a tennis game, when the score is “love-love” and anything is possible.
Love, what is it? And in the sport why is it called tennis “love”?
You probably know that “love” is the equivalent of having a score of zero or nil. When both sides have no score, the game is “love-love.” Then the scoring goes from odd to batty. One point brings a player to “15,” two to “30”; and three to “40.” The next point wins the game, unless a tirade of tie-breakers are involved. It can get confusing.
There’s no consensus, however, about the origin of the tennis term “love.”
So what does it all mean? The Oxford English Dictionary surmises the term is rooted in the colloquial phrase “for love,” meaning “without stakes being wagered.” This theory may not quite apply with the sport’s long history of etiquette and sportsmanship. Let’s be real…Money is King. Wimbleton champs Serena Williams and Rafael Nadal each took home more than $1.5 million.
Some theorize that “love” arose from the French word “l’oeuf,” meaning egg — a “zero” on the scoreboard. This is rather clever, but appears to remain unsubstantiated.
The word “tennis” comes from the French word “tenetz” — meaning “hold!”
Walter Wingfield, who laid down the rules for modern tennis, originally had another name for tennis. He called it “sphairistike,” based on the Greek phrase “skill in playing at ball.” Try to say that ten times. And talk about laying an egg. Wingfield most certainly laid an egg with that name.
Source: dictionary.com
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July 21st, 2010, 10:02 pm by Tara
 What is it with grown men who love to wrestle with guy friends. I understand when they are young (6-10 years old) but a 30 or 40 year old man. To see a grown man pressed down on the other man’s back, cradling him in his arms is crazy. My friend Joel loves to wrestle and I hate it. I’m uncomfortable when I see him wrestling or even when he talks about it.
Joel says it’s fun, shows domination and makes the other guy to submit. Make no sense to me. Some people think that if a guy wrestles he must be gay. Not true….JOEL is not gay and a lot of other men aren’t.
But many gay guys wrestle. Did you know that there are Gay Wrestling Clubs? OMG can you imagine men rolling around the floor with another guy pitting their strength against each other, mano a mano? Strained on the mat, sweat running down into his singlet. Just picture it. Is that something you would want to watch? People actually go to Gay Wrestling bars to watch it!
I have a gay friend (Shawn) who wrestles and wishes the Rio Grande Valley had a Gay Wrestling Club. He claims wrestling has helped him get over any physical hang-ups he has. Shawn first started wrestling as a kid. “It was tied up with my sexuality, ” he said. “There was an attraction there, but I didn’t know what it was.” Now that he’s 32 years old he says he understands what it’s all about…it’s all about a sexual thing.
Whatever the case, men need to act like grown men. You’re not a kid anymore so move on to other things. And, gay wrestlers, keep it private. I for one don’t care to see or hear about it. And I don’t think many people do either.
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July 16th, 2010, 7:27 am by Tara
 My BF is getting married in 4 weeks, after a 2 year engagement. During the past 6 months she has become the biggest BEAUTCH I’ve ever known. I hate being around her. She’s behaving as an ALMOST HITCHED BITCH. If she wasn’t my BF for 12 years, and if I wasn’t her bridesmaid, I would have ditched her by now. She rants, verbally she’s vulgar and crude. She’s mad at everybody and everything.
Nobody wants to be around. Her other friends are staying away, they plan to go to the wedding and hope she changes after she married. Her fiancee thinks she will be herself again, once they’re married.
WTH. She better go back to being herself because if not, she’ll end up being the AFTER HITCHED DIVORCED BITCH. And if that happens, she’s on her own. I don’t want to have anything to do with her.
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October 23rd, 2010, 2:27 pm by Tara
What? Bigger men make better lovers?
Researchers from Erciyes University in Turkey conducted a year-long study on how a man’s BMI impacts his sexual performance. They find that heavier set guys actually last longer during sex – six-and-a-half minutes longer.
The lighter men lasted an average of one minute and 48 seconds while the heavier men averaged seven minutes.
What attributes the difference in finish times is the fact that fat men have higher levels of female hormones than skinny men. And the higher the level of female hormones, the slower it is for a man to reach an orgasm.
Then why do most ladies look for buffed guys…some even like gym addicted jocks.
So ladies what is your experience with bigger gys? If a heavier guy can do it for longer, does that automatically make him better in bed? Post a comments…
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October 26th, 2010, 9:04 am by Tara
A long-term relationship doesn’t mean you’re doomed to lackluster lovemaking – here are tips for transforming a snooze-worthy sex life into one that sizzles. Click on the link and get ready to strip down and hit the sheets. It will be more tantalizing than tiring.
http://valleystar.ctwfeatures.com/body/health_20101020_homefires.html
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October 30th, 2010, 5:12 pm by Tara
If you’ve ever looked over at your boyfriend and wished he were Brad Pitt or Keith Urban, you’re not alone. A new survey revealed that 83 percent of women prefer the looks of celebrities over those of their boyfriends. In fact, one in 10 said she’s embarrassed by the way her guy looks. That’s absurd!
According to the research by the Good Surgeon Guide another 39 percent actively “style” their boyfriend after a celebrity, and 48 percent said they care more about their boyfriend’s appearance than their own.
Don’t you think that men also wish their girlfriends looked better? What guy wouldn’t want to have a lady like Megan Fox in their life and under the sheets. There’s not many ladies that look like Megan Fox in the Rio Grande Valley
So ladies, f you don’t like their looks, then don’t date them.
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January 27th, 2011, 8:35 pm by Tara
If you think you had a whack year, take a look at the following crazy headlines. You won’t believe some of them; you’ll either be saying WTH or LYAO.
1. Man chopped off his own penis with a knife
2. Guy has a doll replica of his ex made for $18,000. Yes that’s 18 grand!
3. Mom gave up son for adoption, 33 years later hooks up with him and they have consensual sex for 18 months. Mom charged with incest and is now registered as a sex offender. Son dealing with emotional trauma.
4. Man goes blind every time he orgasms
5. Hotel in Stockholm has a Bible in the bedside drawer and next to the Bible are some sex toys, keeper uppers, and handcuffs
6. First adult toy store drive-thru in the world opened in Alabama
7. United Kingdom man used government welfare to travel to Amsterdam to pay for prostitution
8. Italian Prime Minister ordered $95,000 restoration of the broken-off penis on a Roman marble statue of Mars.
9 Hotel owner and wife like to get naught with guests and employees. Hotelier allowed guests and associates to play a ring toss game on his penis.
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January 27th, 2011, 8:52 pm by Tara
I’m 32 years old and most of my friends are married with kids. They are still friends but not friends I hang with anymore. As I get older it’s harder to find other single people that are around the same age of me. It gets really lonely many days and nights.
I have a lot of Facebook friends, but they’re just online social friends. I know a lot of ladies who are in my predicament. I rarely meet a good man to date. Yes, I meet men, but most of them I would never want to date or hook up with.
Some of the girls I know always go to the bars but they have no success finding a guy. I’ve never tried online dating, like harmony.com, but I’m thinking I should. Should I? Or am I going to be lonely and disappointed again? - Tina, San Benito, Texas
Posted in: bars • Date • Facebook • Friends • Lonely • married • single | Post a Comment »
April 10th, 2011, 7:42 pm by Tara
Love Bytes scribe has been on hiatus for some time….but now I’m back! Thanks for your continuous support of Love Bytes. Check our the blog frequently cause there will be frequent posts. And as in the past, if you have something to share, to bitch about, or to offer guidance please do. Love Bytes is for you…and it’s all about love, relationships, dating, marriage, etc. As a good friend says….bring it on!
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April 10th, 2011, 8:06 pm by Tara
We’ve all been there. Wanting to say “I Love You” but not sure if we should be the first to say it. Or is it the right time and place? We also question how the person may respond.
Who’s most likely to take the first step to say ”I Love You.” It’s been stated for years that women are the first to say it. But not any more! New research by a psychologist at MIT finds that men are more likely than women to first say “I love you” in a new relationship. The data, published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, shows that of 205 straight men and women who were asked about their current and past relationships, guys were more often the ones to take the plunge.
So I guess men are now giving up their hearts easily and not afraid to say the phrase first. Hey guys…a little words of caution. Don’t rush to say it. Saying “I Love You” can never come on too slow with a lady, only too fast. Saying it too fast may make your lady asking for some space. Give it time…or get ready for some lonely nights.
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April 12th, 2011, 8:53 pm by Tara
I have longed to be with my old high school sweetheart but we both were married and had a family. It’s been 20 plus years since I dated Greg in high school. He was the love of my life and I always thought we would get married. My parents didn’t approve of him but to us that didn’t matter too much. We were in love!
Our lives went different paths, he stayed in the St. Louis area and I met a man during a South Padre Island Spring Break 18 years ago. I married my SPI guy and after a few years we divorced. The divorce was amicable and we share parental rights with our son.
Couple of years later I met a man from McAllen, we dated several years and eventually moved in with him. We were engaged but I ended this 9-year relationship about a year ago. It was not a healthy relationship and things had become pretty bad.
One evening I was talking to my girlfriend in St. Louis about the breakup and she excitedly told me that Greg had recently divorced his wife, and he had custody of this 3 sons. Later my friend called Greg (they had maintained their friendship since high school) and mentioned that I was no longer engaged.
Greg called me several days later, and since then we’ve been talking on the phone several times a day. It’s like old times, that we never were apart.
Greg has asked me to come to St. Louis and visit him and his family. His mom has always been like a mom to me and she is so excited that Greg and I are together again.
I really want to go visit him but I worry how things may be. Will we be reliving our high school days? Is it really true love, or the excitement from love in the past? I would stay at my parents house, so if things don’t work out at least I’ve visited with my parents.
What should I do? I’m so confused. – Stacey, Brownsville
Posted in: Boyfriend • Divorced • Flame • High School • Love • married | 1 Comment »
April 25th, 2011, 8:14 pm by Tara
Did you hear that NBC scaled back its coverage of the Royal wedding because executives think that Prince William and Kate Middleton are ‘too boring’. They don’t believe that America cares that much about the event so they cut their pre-taped packages in half to avoid ‘viewer fatigue’.
NBC is bad ass wrong. People all over America are anxiously waiting to watch the wedding of Prince William and Kate Middleton. Why? Maybe because of the royalty stigma. BUT the real reason is because Prince William does not act like the Royal Family. Thank God his monther, the late Princess Diana, reared her son with as normal of a lifestyle as possible. And the comments made by Prince William when he announced their engagement are evidence that the person he holds closest to his heart is his mother.
Americans are proud that William has taken on his own stance and we are excited to watch the wedding. I know of people who plan on calling in sick to work so they can stay home, get up really early and watch the event, and all the after-event shows describing in detail every bit of the wedding. Others are planning “wedding parties” to celebrate the blessed event. I’m one who has been invited to a party!
So, NBC you think you know what’s best for American TV viewers? You are bad ass wrong on this one. But, that’s okay…most people will be watching the Royal Wedding on FOX News or other channels or even online.
It’s a fairytale romance that Americans dream of but rarely ever experience. Thanks Prince William and Kate for keeping the fairy tale romance alive. Friday can’t come soon enough.
Posted in: fairy tale • Kate Middleton • Prince William • Princess Diana • Royalty | 1 Comment »
April 25th, 2011, 8:24 pm by Tara
As I previously posted, Greg, my old high school flame, and I have reunited and have been talking on the phone everyday, several times a day. I have decided that I’m going to visit him in St. Louis. flying out this Saturday.
I’m nervous but very excited. Greg has told his mom and all of his friends that I’m coming to St. Louis and they are all excited as well. In fact his best friend asked if he should arrange for a civil wedding. OMG I hope he is kidding. I’m not ready for that…at least I don’t think so. Wish us luck. I pray all goes well. – Stacey
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April 25th, 2011, 8:34 pm by Tara
My husband and I have been married for only one year. For the last 4 months all he wants to do is play video games. He comes home from work, we cook and eat dinner and off he goes to play video games in the entertainment room. At first I would go sit with his, but after a point I became angry and decided to not be with him. Instead of spending time with me, he plays video games with people from all over the world. When I mention to him how I feel, he says “well at least I’m home and not out with the guys”.
Every evening is the same and by now I’m lonely. I’ve suggested that he play the games only 3 days a week, so we can have time together. He says we are together so he doesn’t understand why I’m “whinning.”
Many nights I go to bed and fall asleep before he even comes to bed. My husband is addicted to these video games and I worry that eventually our marriage will fail. How can I get my husband, who I passionately love, to spend more time with me? We dated for 3 years, we were inseparable. Now that we’re married the sizzle is fading … all because of those damn video games. – Stella
Posted in: addicted • dated • inseparable • Love • married • passionately • video games | 1 Comment »
April 26th, 2011, 7:37 pm by Tara
You don’t see it too often in the U.S., but in Great Britian a growing trend is men wearing engagement rings. Most men don’t wear engagement rings, but the trend is becoming much more popular. Most of the time, the Brits wear the ring on the right hand or another finger (rarely the ring finger). The ring symbolizes their intent to share their life with their amazing wife-to-be!
American have been slow in adapting this new trend. Some guys think that wearing an engagement ring is a little to feminine for them. Joe, a friend at happy hour, said that men wearing an engagement ring would make other men envy, wishing they had the same type of relationship in their life. Another friend, Matt asked what do women do when they propose to a guy? Do they give him a ring? How does the man feel when his lady pops the question?
I can tell you, one thing for sure….my guy won’t be wearing an engagement ring. But he does want to wear a wedding ring.
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May 10th, 2011, 8:35 pm by Tara
Well, I did it. I flew out to St. Louis to visit Greg, my high school sweetheart. Even though it’s been 20 plus years since we had been together, it seemed like it was just yesterday. For two weeks, we hung out with friends, his family and had a lot of time together, just the two of us.
We both had a great time. We talked out old times, our broken marriages, our children and what the future may hold for both of us. It was the best time for both of us in a long time!
It was very hard getting on the plane to come back home. Both Greg and I were crying. It was lonely entering my home, but within a couple of minutes Greg called me and we spoke for over 2 hours.
Greg plans on visiting me later this month. I’m counting the days. – Stacey
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May 10th, 2011, 8:50 pm by Tara
We’ve all seen it. Women driving down the road, putting their makeup on or talking on the phone. But I bet you’ve never seen this one….
A woman was arrested for crashing her car. The cause of the accident….she was SHAVING her PRIVATE PARTS. Yes she was shaving her vagina area. She told the officer that she was on the way to meet her date and she needed to trim her bikini line.
And the other crazy part of this is that the woman was shaving her hoo-ha in the car with her ex-husband, who was driving her to a date with a new man. But he wasn’t driving, he was just there. Why was he there…to watch the shaving? Or did he think he still had a chance with his ex-wife?
Rather bizarre…you think?
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May 10th, 2011, 9:11 pm by Tara
Ooh, Workplace Romance.. Participating? Considering? Throwing out some serious body language to get one going? One of my friends did just that and now she is dating her boss, has been for almost 8 months now. The relationship is going really well, but I don’t think her boss’ boss knows that they’re hooking up.
During the last couple of months my friend has slacked off on her job. She posts negative things on Facebook about her job and how she hates dealing with the public. She’s taking advantage of her situation and proudly tells her friends…”I’m lucky…I get to sleep with my boss.”
My friend is not alone when it comes to dating a boss. Recent surveys show that the more people work, the more they find their mates at the work place, since they have less time for bars, social events, etc.
That might be the case….but….I wonder what will happen when one of them decides to split. What if she sues her employer for sexual harrassment? Her boss may lose his job. I love my friend but I worry what may happen in the long run.
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May 17th, 2011, 7:33 pm by Tara
You couldn’t help but wonder when you heard the news that the “Terminator” and Maria Shriver were separating. Then the bombshell became public. Arnold had cheated on his wife and fathered a love child. It seemed like Arnold had it all…a beautiful and supportive wife of 25 years, 4 children, a lot of money, a movie, political career, etc. What more could a guy ask for?
But no, he screws around with one of the household staff member and fathers a child ten years ago. He covers it up for all this time, and now that he’s not in public office, he confesses to his family. In announcing his affair, he asked that the “media respect my wife and children through this extremely difficult time.” Respect Arnold. Where was your respect during the last 10 years? Why didn’t you put your family first, instead of your infidelity? There is no excuse for infidelity.
Why do you think? Do you think Maria Shriver should have left her hubby? Do you think that they should try to save their marriage? Would you still go to a movie that Arnold starred in?
Who
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June 25th, 2011, 9:21 pm by Tara
Six months ago, I took the plunge and I met Mel, the man of my dreams, online. Our friendship began one night when he popped in looking for conversation. We clicked instantly. We’re both in our early 30′s, have many things in common, and we both know what we want out of life and love. Before long, we were in love.
We finally got to meet each other 3 weeks ago and we spent 2 glorious weeks together. We instantly felt comfortable with each other. We both knew very quickly that he was the one, and I was the one for him. Common sense came to play but we listened to our heart and we shared intense love.
My mother and dad are very cautious about my relationship. I try to tell them that love on the internet can be real, if both parties are honest about each other from the initial conversation. Mel and I put honesty ahead of anything else, but my parents are too skeptical. They say that Mel and I should only be friends, because they think I’m going to get hurt. I disagree with them.
My relationship with Mel has created a lot of problems with my parents. It’s getting to the point that I can’t stand talking or spending any time with them. Mel and I have discussed the issue, and he wants to meet them, fly in on Friday afternoon and spend the weekend with my parents and me. I’m not sure if he should do this. I’m afraid my parents will say and do things that would ruin my relationship with Mel. I love Mel too much for this to happen.
OMG…why does this have to be an issue? We’re both in our 30′s..shouldn’t we be able to live our own lives? Why can’t my parents be happy for us, like Mel’s are?
Posted in: Dating • heart • Honest • Love • relationship | Post a Comment »
June 29th, 2011, 6:05 pm by Tara
Why do people think that a girlfriend with few close friends is an issue? The lady I’ve been dating for 6 months doesn’t have a lot of friends. She has more guy friends than girl friends. Some people say “there must be something wrong with her,” or “is she a loner” or “she must be a jealous girl.” That’s BS.
She would rather have a few close friends than a bunch of ”friends”. Her close friends have always been there for her through good and bad times. Her other “friends” are party friends..they think about themselves first.
I like it that she has guy friends. We hang with her and my friends and have a good time. It doesn’t matter what we’re doing, watching sports or whatever, she fits right in with all of us. I like that and I have a better relationship because of it.
To all you guys who won’t date a girl because you think she has “close friends issues”, you’re making a big mistake. Put aside your macho ego. That girl could be the best relationship you’ll ever have.
Posted in: Date • Friends • girlfriend • issues • Jealous • macho • Party • relationship • sports | Post a Comment »
July 7th, 2011, 6:56 pm by Tara
A recent study, published in Evolutionary Psychology, states that as a woman’s bank account grows, so does her desire for a hunk with maturity. As women become more financially independent they look to date hotter, older guys. Before women use to look for a man’s ability to provide for her and a family and looks were not as important.
The study also found that greater financial independence gives women greater confidence in choosing their partner, and instinctive preferences for material stability and security become less important.
Some people defy the survey and say that women should put aside their wealth and not demand characteristics from their male partner. But as women gain more wealth why can’t they set different perimeters. Why can’t women in general set certain characteristics in their pursuit of a man? More power to them for wanting a strong older guy with some real life experiences. Money may never buy long term happiness and women understand this more than ever before. The old saying that women marry for love (first marriage) but then marry for money (second marriage) may apply to some but it sure doesn’t apply to financially stable women. I guess you can say that these women are not looking for Boy Toys…that want a real man with experience.
Posted in: Date • hunk • independence • stability • wealth | Post a Comment »
July 7th, 2011, 7:28 pm by Tara
You’re in a relationship or you’re married. You think that you really know your partner? According to the Journal of Sex Research 40% of young couples whether married or dating, disagreed on how exclusive their relationship was. 30% reported having cheated on their partner.
While it seems to be more common for men to cheat, many women also stray and it’s on the rise. According to the Associated Press, 14% of women admitted to cheating on their partners, as opposed to 22-to-37% of men. However, The Journal of Couples and Relationships says about half of all married men and women will have extramarital sex during their lifetime.
Emotional cheating without actual sexual involvement is common in the workplace. Online relationships have greatly increased and couples find this means of cheating to be the easiest to hide from their partners. Physical cheating generally involves some form of intimacy, which can range from flirty touching to sex.
Why make the committment with a partner and then cheat on them? Women say they cheat because they feel lonely or bored in their relatioship. Others want to increase their self esteem or crave that “new relationship feel” and cheat on their husbands just for the rush of new romance. Others cheat in retaliation to their partner doing the same. Men cheat mainly for self-satisfaction, knowing that they got something they shouldn’t have. The thrill and excitement is their main quest.
Whatever the reason cheating is not right. There are too many negative effects…divorce or the ending of an relationship. Reportedly only 31% of marriages survive an affair.
And trust…how do you ever gain trust or how can your new partner ever trust you. If a spouse or partner cheats, don’t think it will be his or her last time. Once they conquered their first quest, that crave for more “new relationship feel” and that desire will always be there. Rarely will a spouse or partner cheat once and only once.
What if your spouse or partner admitted to cheating on you? Would you trust the person after knowing that? I wouldn’t.
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July 7th, 2011, 7:43 pm by Tara
Love Bytes readers we have an update about Stacey and her old flame Greg getting together after 20 years apart. Stacey reports that Greg, who lives in St. Louis, never came to visit her like he promised. Recall that Stacey lives in the Valley, and she spent two weeks in St. Louis with him 8 months ago. Greg had promised to visit her in April, but that never happened.
Greg calls her 2-3 times a day and they have great conversations. But Stacey is upset that he promised to visit her but never did. Stacey is becoming a bit skeptical of the relationship. She flew to St. Louis yesterday to visit family, and yes to spend some time with Greg. On this trip she plans on “just having fun” and not getting too emotionally involved with Greg.
Stacey is wondering if she should continue this relationship and or just let the chips fall where they fall.
Stacey reads Love Bytes, so Stacey if you have a chance during your vacation, email and let us know how it’s going.
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July 13th, 2011, 8:06 pm by Tara
He’s hot. He’s funny. He’s romantic. He’s financially secure. He treats me like a special lady. That was the main conversation during last night’s Girl Night Out. Yes it was another girls night out and we all had a great time. The conversation centered around my bf and her new boyfriend Derek. They’ve been dating for 3 weeks.
Derek is the man of her dreams. But there is a problem. He’s a bad kisser. Derek is 27 years old. He hasn’t mastered kissing and fails to see its sensual possibilities.
My bf hasn’t mentioned anything about this to Derek. She’s been open-minded, thinking she can train him through practice. She takes the lead while kissing, in hopes of showing him how to kiss affectionately. But the kissing isn’t getting any better. And what does he say…he says she’s a passionate kisser.
Even though she loves all of his other qualities, she starting to lose heart because he’s such a bad kisser. She hasn’t gone beyond kissing, because she fears further intimacy will be disappointing. She wonders if she’ll ever enjoy passionate kisses with him. She never thought she would find the “man of her dreams” and now that she’s found him she’s can’t believe what’s going on. He’s had several long term relationships so she wonders if the other girlfriends just put up with it or were lousy kissers too.
What would you do if you were dating a guy who’s a lousy kisser?
Posted in: girlfriends • Intimacy • kisser • Passionate • Relationships • sensual | Post a Comment »
July 14th, 2011, 6:33 pm by Tara
I have always considered my husband to be a strong man in mind, body and spirit. But, as my husband ages he’s becoming more emotional. He use to cry about sad family situations, but during the past year he’s filled with emotions and will cry during conversations, movies, etc. It was weird at first but now it’s become a part of our lives.
For many years boys have been told that “big boys don’t cry.” When boys get hurt, they feel real pain but they are told not to cry. Its the “conditioning” boys have been subjected to from one generation to another that crying is a sign of weakness.
I respect and admire a man who is man enough to let his emotions flow with a few tears. In fact, I find it very refreshing to see a man in touch with his emotions, it’s good to see we all can be touched by certain events or situations.
Crying doesn’t mean that you are not strong, it means you are human and have a heart. That you care. It is a strength of character to be real and who they are. We are all human and we all have emotions. There should be no shame.
Times are changing, it is no longer a “stigma” for men to cry. Crying is like other things, everything in moderation for both women and men. I hate it when crying is used as an emotional ploy. I lose respect for a man or woman who turns on the tears for sympathy in day to day life. If you’re going to cry, let it be real.
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July 18th, 2011, 7:13 pm by Tara
This is too strange. A 37 year old guy has convinced his parents to sell their home. The son and parents live 250 miles apart. Mama’s boy has moved out of his parents home several times, but for short periods of time. The son now lives in a larger city and wants mama to be with him.
During the past year the Mom and son convinced the dad (husband) to build a home in the son’s city. He got fed up with the wife’s constant nagging and bitching, because he now agrees to the move.
Well, the new 2-story house is being built in the son’s city, and a for-sale sign hangs in the parent’s yard. The son plans on living on the top floor (sharing kitchen, laundry, etc. on the first floor) and the parents will live on the first floor. They’ll split the mortgage and all household expenses, except for food. Mama wants to buy all the food. And when the parents sell their home, all the money will be applied to the loan principal.
The parents are in their early 60′s, work, and are in good health. Mama’s boy just can’t stand being away from mama.
When asked what happens if their son ever gets married (we think it’s highly unlikely, girlfriends, when he has one, come and go quickly…DUH!) the parents say they will move out of the house; son will buy them out and they will move into a smaller home. No chance in hell of this happening, they’re living in a dream world.
This is a very bizarre and unhealthy situation. What would a psychologist or psychiatrist say? Most parents want their children to be independent, strong, successful individuals, and live happily ever after.
There is a big difference between helping and enabling adult children and if the parents don’t figure it out now and put an immediate stop to the enabling, it will never end. But then again, what mama says, goes.
Am I being a little too tough? I don’t think so. There is no way in hell, if in the similar situation, I would ever agree to such a ludicrous arrangement. No parent should prevent their children from the realities of the real world.
The parents and son need a lot of real counseling. Nobody wins in continuing this unhealthy behavior.
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July 21st, 2011, 9:12 pm by Tara
Why is it that men always want the TV remote control in their hand? My boyfriend is the worst remote hogger in the world. He uses the device obsessively, channel-flicking across programs even when I or any of his friends are trying to watch something. It doesn’t matter if it’s a sports game, a regular show, or any type of show, he constantly flicks the clicker up and down the channel guide.
When I ask for the remote, he acts like it’s the end of the world. He struggles in the very core of his being over giving it up. When I go to bed I like to watch a couple of channels. As soon as he enters the room he changes the channel, with no regard to what I was watching, When I ask him to turn back to my channel he says, “I want to watch this.” It’s a constant battle. His ego supercedes, believing the dominance of the remote device shows power and control. He’ll even hide the remote, and the funny thing is I always know where to find it. What’s really funny is when he can’t remember where he hid it. Naturally he says he doesn’t hide it, don’t believe that one.
OMG you should see how he tries to figure out a way to keep from handing me the remote. It’s unbelievable.
I don’t watch much TV, no more than an hour a day. And usually I’m doing something while listening or watching it. I’m at the point that I’m looking at buying a decoy remote control. I’ll be LMAO watching him find batteries because this remote doesn’t work.
And what’s up with the PIP (picture in picture), that’s even worst. My boyfriend goes back and forth with the PIP, constantly changing the channels and moving the smaller screen in all directions.
Guys, I just don’t understand why men have this burning need to have their remote control in their hand. It’s such a small and insignificant way to feel powerful and in control. Can someone tell me why this is the case?
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July 23rd, 2011, 9:35 pm by Tara
It seems harmless, a click of a cell phone camera and the push of a send button.
Sexting, sending suggestive and sometimes erotic text messages has become a major part of modern life. Is sexting largely done by males? Not at all. Women are far more likely to send sexts than men.
Teenage sexting is also on the rise. A high school student that I know was caught sexting seminude images of herself to a guy she wanted to date. The guy then forwarded the images to a bunch of his friends. Before long the images were seen by almost all of the students.
You may ask why would a young lady do such a stupid thing. This teen is not the exception.
The recent survey reveals that 36% of young adult women send or post nude or seminude images of themselves. 56% are sending or posting sexually suggestive text messages and 83% of women that have sent sexually suggestive content say they have sent/posted such material to a boyfriend.
Sexting is like “being in one’s face and saying you can have this if you want.” Where’s the chase, the courtship, the excitement when someone asks you out? Trying to seduce someone through sexting just to go out with him is pathetic.
Once photos are sent, they don’t go away. They may end up anywhere and can easily be found. Imagine the consequences when applying for a college scholarship or a job?
Where’s the desire to see relationships turn into a more intimate, human one? It’s not through sexting.
Sexting is no fun and games. Look at the “Weinergate” incident. Is it worth the thrill?
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August 16th, 2011, 9:46 pm by Tara
My friend Charles has been dating Lydia, a young lady who’s hot and sexy. They’ve been together for 4 months. They agreed that they would not talk about previous relationships. Charles has always had long relationships but Lydia’s have been short. They get along really well, and Charles now wants to introduce Lydia to his parents.
I’m faced with a predicament and I don’t know what to do. Charles doesn’t know that Lydia is a dancer, a gentlemen’s club dancer. It’s a very nice club about 30 miles away, but it is what it is.
I was at the club one night and Lydia was dancing, that’s how I found out she works there part-time. Charles works evenings so he only sees Lydia mid-day or evenings on Monday and Tuesday. If Charles knew, he would be very upset. He doesn’t believe in going to places like that and has told me that I shouldn’t either.
Lydia has begged me not to tell Charles. I don’t know if it’s my business to tell Charles, but I feel like he should know. Especially since he wants to take her to meet his parents out of state. Lydia says once she becomes more financially secure (she got a divorce two years ago) she plans to quit dancing and get a regular day time job. She makes very good money, and she’s wanting to pay off her car, house and other debts (debts her husband incurred while married). Her ex doesn’t work; she’s taking on the burden, so not to hurt her credit rating.
What do you think? Should I tell Charles? When should gentlemen’s club dancers tell new dates about their past or present dacing profession? —Marcos, Rio Grande Valley
Posted in: dancer • Dating • gentlemen's cliub • Hot • Relationships • Sexy | 1 Comment »
August 8th, 2011, 9:17 pm by Tara
Do you spray cologne on your boxers? That’s one of the things we talked about at happy hour. James said he puts cologne on his boxers to be fresh; he never knows who he may hook up with. Matt said putting cologne on his underwear makes him feel good knowing he smells good. He thinks it builds his confidence and is more lucky in getting a date. None of us believed that one.
James finally admitted that he has not been lucky, but Mando says he is because he puts it on 30 minutes before the date. He sprays behind the ears, on his boxers and on the neckline of his shirt.
Most of the girls thought it was gross. If they smelled cologne on somebody’s boxers they would wonder what the guy is trying to cover up. But Jenna said she sprays her panties and her bf sprays his boxers. It’s a turn on for them.
If you want to put cologne on your boxers or panties, that’s your thing. But be careful where you put it. Colognes can burn or irritate sensitive areas, and if that happens you’re out of luck. Ask James; he learned the hard way.
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July 31st, 2011, 3:35 pm by Tara
 My brother met a lady through a relationship ad on Craigs List. They emailed each other for about two weeks and after insisting, my brother gave her his cell number. She was calling him 3-5 times a day and night.
A month ago they flew to Dallas to meet. They live is different states. My brother paid for two hotel rooms. They dined at expensive restaurants, danced, drank fine wine, etc. Everything was good. The final night they stayed in the same room.
They had a few drinks at the airport before their planes departed. They departed with a long kiss and promised to call each other when they arrived home.
At his first layover, he discovered $600 missing from his wallet. He called the lady…no answer. He texted her…no answer. When he got home he called, emailed and texted her for days…no answer. He never mentioned the missing money on the messages. She has never called or texted him back.
She obviously took the money either during the final night or right before they left for the airport. He was so pissed off! Swore he would never do online dating again.
Now, he’s talking with another lady he met on Craigs List. WTH.
Posted in: Craigs List • Dallas • Date • hooked up • kiss • online dating | 1 Comment »
August 5th, 2011, 7:55 am by Tara
 I woke up this morning thinking WTH. I had a sexual type dream about a college age student. I am shocked, it is too weird. Why would I, a lady in her 40′s, have a dream like this? I could have been his mother!
I know we live in a sexually “open” age society, and that people have dreams with a sexual content. Sex is one of the most powerful of all human drives, so it’s not surprising that dreams are about sex. If we have deep urges to do certain things, sometimes they come out in our dreams. But I have no urge to do this. Why would my subconscious mind work this way?
But for me to have such a dream is totally shocking in my real life. I’m happily married, have several kids and I live a chaste and respectable life. Some people in today’s society might think my life is boring, but to each it’s own.
I called my BF and she laughed so hard that I thought she was going to wet her pants. She told me I should “enjoy it for what it was.”
This dream was so uncharacteristic of who I am; I’m still in shock. I hope it doesn’t happen again. - C.R.B., Pharr, Texas
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August 22nd, 2011, 8:41 pm by Tara
How can a person with a lot of money be so cheap when it comes to tipping people? A recent article listed the top 10 cheap celebrity tippers and you would be surprised on who’s on the list! Or maybe not.
The biggest tight wad is Tiger Woods. Worth more than $500 million, he doesn’t tip because he says he never carries any cash. Most rich people don’t carry cash for obvious reasons, but hey Tiger, that’s a lame excuse. How many credit cards do you have?
Madonna, estimated to be worth hundred of millions, is second on the cheapster list. She left an $18 tip on a $400 tab. Wonder what she would have done if the role was reversed?
Barbra Streisand ranked third on the list; she once left a $10 tip for a $457 tab. Not only was Babs cheap, but she was rude and demanding.
LeBron James tipped only $10 on an $800 at a Cleveland Steakhouse. Cheapskate Sean Penn left absolutely nothing on a $450 bill in New Orleans.
And Usher…well he apparently tries to get other people to pick up the bill and tip. Can you believe that?
Jeremy Piven apparently showed up at a restaurant in Aspen with a party of 12 – without a reservation. After being seated and served, Piven reportedly told the manager: ‘Thanks for nothing,’ and left a signed Entourage DVD. A restaurant staffer reportedly threw the DVD box at Piven when he left, and he’s not longer welcome at the restaurant. I think I would have told him to put the DVD where the sun doesn’t shine.
Other cheap celebs rounding out the list are Mariah Carey, Bill Cosby and Racheal Ray. Hey Mariah, you’re not showing any love by not tipping. Maybe we shouldn’t watch Rachael’s show anymore or buy her books. Hey Bill…come on, it’s not a joke.
These celebs make their money from all of us. There is no excuse for not tipping a waiter or waitress. Majority of the wait staff earn below minimum wage. If you don’t like the service you’re getting just ask for another waiter. The whole point of going out is to enjoy your dinner, hang with family and friends and show appreciation for great service by tipping at least 20%.
Posted in: celebrity • cheap • Jeremy Piven • LeBron James • Madonna • Tiger Woods • tippers • Usher | 1 Comment »
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