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Put Fun into Sex

November 4th, 2009, 10:09 pm by Tara

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Couples that have been together for a while admit that the sex that was once hot and thrilling can become routine and even (dare I say) a little boring. No need to settle for ho-hum sex, or look outside of your relationship or marriage for the sparkle or excitement. Being in a safe, comfortable relationship can actually offer the best sex of your life. Take some steps to bring back the spark, and experience the best sex ever. Here’s some proven ways offered by ehow.com

  1. Be adventurous. The next time the two of you are making dinner together, hop up on the counter and reach for your partner. The idea of fooling around in broad daylight in the kitchen is sure to spice things up.
  2. Leave hot, naughty notes for your sweetie to find. Your notes can be flirty, suggestive, or downright crude. It’s up to you. Just make sure you get your point across. Great places to tuck notes include lunch packets, bathroom mirrors, pants pockets, money clip and car visors.
  3. Experiment together. Surprise your lover with a new toy. Bring some treats from the kitchen-think syrups, fruits, whipped cream-into the bedroom. Find some intriguing new positions in a book or online. Use your imagination.
  4. Play together. Throw around a Frisbee or have a water balloon fight. Having fun together makes you feel good about each other and yourself, which is a big turn on. And if the fun includes getting wet, soapy or muddy, that makes it even sexier.
  5. Switch roles. If your honey is the one to always initiate, take the reins. Make the first move, but don’t stop there. Tell him you are in charge tonight and that he is going to do what you tell him to. Chances are he will be thrilled-and so will you, since he will cater to your every whim.

Give one or all a try…you and your partner will love the results!

Hottest Halloween Costumes

November 2nd, 2009, 9:37 pm by Tara
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Group of friends hung out on South Padre Island Halloween night. We decked out with our sexy, scary or crazy costumes and went bar hopping. We dressed as…a sexy policeman (Laura handcuffed a lot of hot buffed guys), master baiter fisherman, sexy secret service agent, Michael Jackson, Octomon, Kate Goselin, Lady Gaga, a banana and a sexy construction worker. We heard there was a lady wearing a body suit with STDs images glued to it. Now that’s too weird. Guess she’s wasn’t planning on hooking up with a guy.

No one can party like the Island especially on Halloween night. We had a blast! Check out Island pics … GO2 theV247.com photo gallery - Halloween on the Island. It was one hellava night!

Win Third Eye Blind Tix

November 2nd, 2009, 8:59 pm by Tara
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Looking for a great night out with your lover or friend? Come hang with theV247 at the Third Eye Blind concert. Third Eye Blind, one of the most popular bands of the late ’90s will perform Sunday, November 8 at Metropolis, McAllen, Texas.

Third Eye Blind have always had a strong following in the Valley. The self-titled Third Eye Blind was released in the spring of 1997; by that summer, the introductory single “Semi-Charmed Life” had become a chart-topping modern rock hit. Spawning several more successful singles (including “How’s It Going to Be” and “Jumper”), the album broke into the Billboard Top 200 and remained there for over a year.

WIN TIX that money can’t buy. Register for a chance to win Third Eye Blind tix (one tix admits 2) right here at THEV247. You better hurry….entry deadline is Noon Friday, Nov. 6.

Playgirl Spread

October 28th, 2009, 8:19 pm by Tara
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Levi Johnston is going to let it all hang out.  The father of Sarah Palin’s grandson has agreed to a Playgirl shoot in Mid-November and he wants to bear it all. Yes, reports claim that he is “90 percent sure” the shoot will include full-frontal nudity. He vows to keep the photo spread “classy.” Classy?  He doesn’t give a damn about that.  It’s all about the money baby as he’s pulling in a reported six figures.

I have no problem with guys doing a Playgirl shoot. But Levi…not only is he just 19 years old, but his only name of fame is that he fathered Sarah Palin’s grandson. Who gives a sh** about him? He needs to be a daddy and a role model for his son. And by the way, get a real job. Instead he told told US magazine, “I just get naked. That’s what I do.”

I guess one day, when his son becomes older he can pull out the magazine and say,” look what I did son.  Aren’t you proud of your daddy.”

Playgirl is hoping to cash in as they rush to publish the spread before the holidays. Well, I have a suggestion for Playgirl. Ditch Levi and shoot Matthew McConeaugh, Keith Urban, Leonardo DiCaprio or Denzel Washington. Girls would rather see them hang it all out.

Ugliest Men

October 26th, 2009, 7:31 pm by Tara

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, right or not?  Totalbeauty.com says if you’re looking for a good-looking man then stay out of El Paso. El Paso ranked first in totalbeauty.com’s list of “Eight Cities with the Ugliest Guys.” Education and obesity statistics, smoking rates, exercise habits to contraceptive sales were factored in the survey.

According to the web site, “Nearly 15 percent of the men in El Paso have less than a 9th grade education. The city also suffers from a notably high rate of obesity, 32 percent are in below average health and 30 percent do not exercise regularly.”

El Paso wasn’t the only Texas city to make the list. Houstonians ranked no. 8 mainly for having the worst teeth, and more than 15 percent of men 25 and up have less than a 9th grade education.

Miami ranked No. 3 on the list for the city’s poor graduation rates and low score on a bad-teeth survey. Detroit made the list at No. 6 for its high obesity rates and low college and high school graduation rates.

So what cities made the cut for the ugliest dudes…here’s the top 8 cities…

1 - El Paso

2 - Hagerstown, Marlyland

3 - Miami

4 - Greensboro, North Carolina

5 - Mobile Alabama & Huntington, Virginia (tie)

6 - Detroit

7 - Philadelphia

8 - Houston

Boyfriend’s Jeans

October 25th, 2009, 7:53 pm by Tara

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questionMy girlfriend likes to wear my jeans with my long shirts. I think the jeans look terrible on her. She’s got a hot butt and I think she should show it off. But instead she likes to wear my jeans.

She’s real sexy in her skinny rip jeans. And she’s hot when she wears my long shirts as a dress. With a body that most girls would die for, why doesn’t she want to show off her sexy curves and hot butt? She looks sloppy in my jeans but she says it makes her feel sexy and turns her on. Sometimes she wears them with high heels but most of time with just flats. High heels are sexy but not like this. Am I the only guy that hates this style?  - Steve, McAllen

dreamerWhat’s your take? Do you like girls wearing guy jeans? Comment now.


Sexy Charades

October 22nd, 2009, 3:10 pm by Tara

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Went to a singles party last weekend. It was rather quiet until someone brought out the SEXY SLANG Board Game. If you haven’t heard of it, it’s an adult party game that mixes charades & drawings with a naughty twist. There are 500 naughty words or terms you can choose.

First the game started out as a way to get to know people we had not met. It soon became rowdy as everyone raced to draw or act out one of the hilarious terms. The room was filled with sexually-charged atmosphere, lots of laughs and OMGs. ”It means what?” was asked frequently by the ladies. Guys either knew the meanings or were too embarassed to admit not knowing.

Some of the words were banana hammock, beat the meat, double bagging, gum job, horizontal tango, and mile high club. To learn what these and other words mean GO2 http://sexyslang.com/glossary-terms.html Promise one thing…it will be a night you’ll may or may not want to remember.

Top Ten Lies Men and Women

September 16th, 2009, 12:57 pm by Tara

Males lie to their partner 6 times a day, while females only tell 3 fibs. According to a survey in Great Britian, conducted by 20th Century Fox Home Entertainment, men are deliberately untruthful twice as much as their ladies.

Men are not picky as to who they lie to. On average they tell 6 lies a day to their partner, boss and work colleagues. That’s 42 a week, 2,184 a year or a staggering 126,672 in a lifetime. Women come out with just 3 lies a day or 68,796 a lifetime.

Survey revealed that what men and women have in common is their favorite lie:  “Nothing’s wrong, I’m fine.” Women tend to misrepresent costs of clothing purchases, while men make up excuses as to why they didn’t answer their partner’s phone calls.  Males also cop to the classic fib, “No, your butt doesn’t look big in that.”  The other classic “I’ve got a headache” made the cut at number 8.

TOP TEN LIES MEN TELL

1. Nothing’s wrong, I’m fine

2. This will by my last drink

3. No, your bum doesn’t look big in that

4. I had no signal (phone)

5. My battery died

6. Sorry, I missed your call

7. I didn’t have that much to drink

8. I’m on my way

9. It wasn’t that expensive

10. I’m stuck in traffic

TOP TEN LIES WOMEN TELL

1. Nothing’s wrong, I’m fine

2. Oh, this isn’t new.  I’ve had it for ages.

3. It wasn’t that expensive

4. It was on sale

5. I’m on my way

6. I don’t know where it is, I haven’t touched it

7. I didn’t have that much to drink

8. I’ve got a headache

9. No, I didn’t throw it away

10. Sorry, I missed your call

IDK  but I wonder if any of the respondents lied on the survey…ummmmm  What say you?

Facebook breakup

September 7th, 2009, 9:53 pm by Tara

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My best friend broke up with her boyfriend because he was cheating on her. For weeks she cried on my shoulder, every day at all times of the day and night. Some of the calls were after midnight, so I was tired the next morning when I went to work. I work 12 hours a day 7 a.m. to 7 p.m. As a friend I listened to her and tried my best to help her through it.

They dated for 6 months, and she thought he was the “one.” Another friend told her about his affairs and they ended up breaking up on Facebook. “He’s no good for me,” she would tell me over and over again. The more she talked about it the more she said she never wanted to see him again.

I decided to have a party to help cheer her up. It was a singles party where each guest had to bring another single person.  She seemed OK with the party and we both thought it would be nice if she met some new guy friends.

The night of the party, she came barging through the door with none other than her ex-boyfriend. I was so pissed. All that he had put her through and there she was hanging all over him. They got back together again and within the month he cheated on her again.

She wants to cry on my shoulder again. I want to be a friend, but I really don’t want to hear it or be around her. She’s pissed off at me saying I’m a bad and selfish friend. At this point I don’t care. You can be a fool once, but the  laughs on you if you’re a fool twice.

Malicious Tweets

September 5th, 2009, 2:03 pm by Tara

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I’m so mad. I broke up with my boyfriend because he was too controlling. Everything had to be his way.

My sis called me and said that he set up a twitter account to trash me out. He’s tweeting malicious comments about our relationship. Most of the sh** he’s writing is NOT true. To bear personal and private matters is one thing…but when it’s not true….that’s all wrong.

I am totally humiliated by his childish behavior. I called him and told him to stop the lies, stop putting lies about our personal relationship. He blamed me since I was the one who broke up with him.

He said he has the right to freedom of speech. Freedom of speech is important but not when it’s a violation of one’s character.  We live in a TMI society. What he’s saying can be detrimental to me and my  future relationships. Not to mention what could happen to my career advancements. He’s bullying me. I’m so pissed off.

To air personal details is not right. It’s malicious and vindictive to expose all this untrue crap.

I wonder if there is anything legally I can do. He can’t keep doing this. It’s wrong and my rights are being violated.  -  E. S., South Texas

Summer Swimsuits

June 28th, 2009, 7:31 pm by Tara

Summer. It’s hot and so much fun. No work. No school. Play hard.

Be fun and flirty on the beach. Guys will go wild with these sexy swimsuits.


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OMG Turning 30

June 30th, 2009, 8:47 pm by Tara

mila-avatar1My best friend Lauren is turning 30. At first she was in denial. What do you mean I’m not 25 anymore? Then lots of fear. Fear of growing up. Fear that you’re running out of time. Fear of that ticking sound. And worst…fear of becoming your parents.

Look at it this way…10 best things about turning 30.

1. You’ll never have to go through turning 30 again.

2. Everyone over 30 still thinks you’re young.

3. Men are the frosting, you are the cake.

4. That physical trait that plagued you in high school or college has become your best feature. OMG

5. You really don’t give a damn what others think about you.

6. You’re old enough to know better, yet young enough to still do it anyway.

7.  When a guy insists it’s over, it’s over.

8  Grown ups start taking you seriously.

9. You have a brand new decade, so enjoy!

AND NUMBER 10

10. Insert your own smart-ass reason here.

Happy Birthday :)

Fiance texts dating services

July 14th, 2009, 8:03 pm by Tara

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I found out my fiance has 2 cell phones, one that I know about and a “secret” one. A phone rang while he was sleeping at my house but it had a different ring tone.  I answered the call and immediately a girl hung up. I called the number back and got her voice mail. I called again, voice mail again. Then she sent a text asking who he was with? I was angry. I looked at his calls and texts and hell, he’s been using adult text services to text  women, telling them what he’d do to them sexually.

I woke him up and confronted him. He said he was lonely and bored one night when I was out of town so he thought he would have some meaningless fun. I became loud and angry! Now I find out from a mutual friend that he had also posted on adult dating sites.

I thought we had been getting along real well, engaged to be married, and  our sex life was great. He always said he was happy with me and couldn’t wait till we were married.

We’ve been separated for 2 months now. He’s begging me to go back with him saying he won’t do it again.  Why do I want to trust him? How can I be sure he won’t do it again?

Why do I still love him? Am I just a fool? What would make you think he really was going to change and be a faithful husband?

Break Up Parties

August 12th, 2009, 9:25 pm by Tara

heart-its-overIt’s not a pitty party…it’s a celebration! Why sit around mopping about a broken relationship, being depressed, hopeless and blaming yourself? Have a break up party. It may seem cold hearted at first, but break up parties are becoming quite popular.

And why not? It’s over, forget the past, forget about him or her, live life and have fun. You know your ex is doing it all, so why aren’t you?

I had a break up party, and to come to the party each guest was required to bring 1 or 2 single guys.I ended up with 25 people at my party.

At first my girlfriends thought I was crazy for having the party.  But were they surprised. It was the best party ever. We met many new people and some really hot guys.

My bf hooked up with one of the guys, and they’ve been dating ever since. My social circle has expanded with new girlfriends and I still hang with some of the guys. We’ve formed great friendships. I never have to worry about going out anymore. Cuz at least one of my new friends, and long-time friends, are always wanting to go out and have fun!

If you’ve been dumped, starting planning your break up party. You’ll be surprised who you’ll meet!

Gay Shower at the Office

August 17th, 2009, 7:59 pm by Tara

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One of my coworkers is gay. I don’t agree with his lifestyle but hey it’s his life. It’s uncomfortable when he talks about his “life partner.” I listen to him out of respect but sometimes I want to tell him to keep his personal life to himself. I don’t think he really knows how I feel.

Last week he gave all of us at the office an invitation to a party. He gave me the envelope and said “I really would like you to come”. I told him sure I’ll go.

When I got back to my office and opened up the envelope, the only thing I could say was “no way in hell am I going.” He and his “life partner” are having a “gay shower.” The next day I told him I would not attend. Just the thought of hanging with a roomful of gay guys, that’s not what I call a party.

Mike is now pissed that I won’t go. He says that gay couples should be able to have “gay couple parties” just like a traditional bride and groom party. He’s now retaliating against me…bad mouthing me to other associates and even went to our boss about it. My boss is also gay so you know what side he agreed with.

Now Mike has decided to have the party at the office during our lunch hour. My boss approved it and even put up the “gay shower invitation” on our communication board, basically urging all associates to attend. He even suggested that we all bring a some food, letting us know what he plans on bringing.

Now I feel like I HAVE to go. Half of the associates feel the same way. We all fear what our boss might say or do if we don’t attend and bring food and a gift.

Some of the other guys are saying they plan on calling in sick the day of the party. I’d rather go to work and not attend the party.

What would you do?

Sex Foods

August 25th, 2009, 8:46 pm by Tara

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Another hot topic at happy hour today - what do you do or crave before, during and after sex? Most of the girls said the key to spicing up their sex life is in the kitchen. The smell, taste, and appearance of certain foods acts as potent aphrodisiacs that not only gets them in the mood for love, but makes them a better flirt and lover.

So what types of  “sex” foods do girls crave? Sweets, salty and spicy foods are favs. Dark chocolate is top on the list followed by frozen snickers bar, hot chilis, wine, bananas, ice cream with whipped cream, grapes, strawberries, olives, carrots, and chips.

Most agreed that when you’re with someone, the best thing is to feed each other with the most seductive foods you can find. Asparagus and shrimp are the best.

And the guys…well they had no cravings after sex. While the girls are dashing for the frig, the guys mostly roll over and go to sleep.

Tell us what you and your lover do? What are your favorite “sex” foods?

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