What happens when you begin to have feelings for a guy/girl that is your friend and you dont want to ruin your friendship? You cant just ignore them every time they meet a guy/girl and they talk about them. If you do ignore them they might think your rude when in reality your just hurt because you get a small jealous feeling. Do you let it go and try to be a friend to them? Or do you tell them your feelings and risk the friendship?
 What to do?May 27th, 2008, 3:47 pm · 3 Comments · posted by Dreamer3 CommentsLeave a Reply |
It’s hard to do…but let him or her know how you feel. Be somewhat casual in your comments. If the feelings are mutual, at least you let the person know. Maintain the friendship. could be the best friend you’ll ever have.
SORRY. THE FRIENDSHIP IS SHOT. MOVE ON.
Uhhh…been there done that. My advice is you’re already in the FRIENDSHIP(HER SHOULDER TO CRY ON) category. You might as well be gay(LIKE A SISTER) too. You can try to tell her how you feel, but I’m sure she’s already talked to you about all those guys that have hurt her…blah blah blah. And she’ll probably give you the “We’re such good friends…I don’t want to ruin that.” speech.
Dude, I suggest you grow some cajones and turn your attention to other women that probably are more interested in you. And you know they are.
Here are the three categories of how women see MEN
#1. The GAY GUY- shares all gossip,secrets,etc. Not cool for her.
#2. THE GUY- shares all her intimate moments with him…in bed.
#3. THE FRIEND- she shares all her sob stories. Not cool for you
Got it? get it? good!