Love Bytes

How do you know when it’s love? Is it when just at the thought of that special person you get a nice little nudge in your heart and literally feel weakness come over your entire body for a split second? Is it when a certain song or a certain smell takes you back to a special time you shared with your honey? Is it when thoughts of happiness fill your mind when you think of your future together? I think it’s love. How do you know if it’s love?

I think love is different for everyone. I can tell you that for me, I thought I fell in love once when I couldn’t get enough of the guy I was dating. I thought of him all of the time and did everything for him. BUT, he didn’t feel the same and was playing me for a fool. I always had my suspicions, but didn’t listen to my instincts.

I realized that it wasn’t love - but not until years later when I met a guy who I actually trusted, and had fun with and could be myself around. The main difference between the two was the trust issue. I think when you love someone who feels the same way about you - that’s true love. When you know that they’ll put you first above everything else and would never dream of hurting you or could even think of being with anyone else.

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