Taking a Chance
June 9th, 2008, 5:04 pm · 2 Comments · posted by Dreamer
I’m a single male and I recently went to a party that one of my friends had. Of course that means talking to friends, having a good time and meeting new people. One of my friends introduced me to a friend she brought over to hangout. I think she is very attractive, smart and nice person. Although we chatted little during the party, I would like to meet her again and get to know her a little more and possibly go out to dinner or just hangout. I would like to step out of my shell and actually take a chance. How do I do this? What if she lives in a different town? Can something like myspace work, since we did meet in person?
I don’t want to knock online communication, that does work for some people. Personally, I know I’d rather hang out with someone in person and get to know them in person. How far away does this girl live? If it’s close enough for a drive on the weekend, maybe you two can have dinner on a Saturday or Sunday or whenever you’re both off work. Maybe you can use MySpace as a way to break the ice, then move toward chatting on the phone, then eventually over dinner. Feel it out and see if you want to pursue a relationship with her once the communication increases. - TARA
June 10th, 2008 at 7:26 pm
Well you basically said true. Sometime It just comes down to taking a chance. I guess you got to pick up those little hints that she put outs out there, such a eye contact, flirty behavior, basically feeling chemistry between yourselves. Then I would sound like you got a good chance of having a good friendship. I know that friendship is a great foundation of having a great relationship. Being in a different town really doesn’t have that much to do with it, unless she’s really far away, but if you really want to find out what might happen, well then, take that chance. What do you got to lose.
July 9th, 2008 at 4:07 pm
Well, man. The advice I’d give you is to keep her interested by showing confidence(not arrogance), complimenting her, and do show interest in who she is. But, at the same be your own person. If the girl or woman digs you she’s gonna be into you until you prove that you’re not the guy. Catch where I’m going with this??
Take a chance, but above all else be yourself. Turns out people are more attracted to someone that is real…rather than someone pretending. Let me know how it goes.