Why do men fear commitment? What does a man really mean when he says “I’m just not ready for a girlfriend?” What are men waiting for? Or do they use this an excuse instead of simply saying “I’m just not that interested in you” Why does commitment have to be a bad thing?
I don’t think it’s fair to say that only “men fear committment.” I think that anyone who’s not ready to settle down - whether it be a man or a woman - could be considered to have a “fear of committment.” I know plenty of young, single women who want to focus on careers or just aren’t ready to get married or be tied down to someone. If someone’s not ready, they’re not going to be ready for anyone until they make up their minds that they are - and that won’t change for anyone. However, i also think this can be used as an excuse if they’re not into you. Just depends on the person. Either way, though, not worth the wait - move on and find someone who won’t give you any excuses. - TARA
ALL FEAR COMMITTMENT IN THIS DAY AND AGE OF GARNERING YOUR ASSETS, WAGES FOR LIFE, EVEN RETIREMENT. NO WONDER PEOPLE ARE AFRAID. PRE-NUPS FOR ALL IS THE ONLY WAY TO GO.