Why are women not crazy about short guys? I have a lot to offer a fine lady… good income, a home, sporty car and I love to cook romantic dinners. So what gives?
Short guys are hot too! One of my friends is usually attracted to tall guys, but they all seem to be jerks. She’s now dating a shorter guy and he’s awesome and treats her like a queen. So I guess my theory about that is don’t be so concerned about height, be concerned with the way he treats you. Some say a man’s greatness is measured from his head to the sky not from his head to the ground, and if so, short guys win this one.
Personally, I don’t automatically single out tall guys in a crowd or turn down short guys - height isn’t really a determining factor for me in what I find attractive in a guy. However, I know there are people out there shallow enough to turn down a guy based on his height. Every different person has different preferences as to what they find attractive in the opposite sex. And for every girl out there who may say, “He’s too short,” - I think there are just as many, if not more, women out there who would not even consider your height. I think any mature woman with a good head on her shoulders would look at a guy for what he has to offer - and you said you have a lot to offer a woman. It takes time to meet someone special. Don’t get discouraged. - TARA
I’m going to be very frank and stragiht with you brother. I stand about 5′ 4″. I have always dated women who were taller than me. The only exception to that was my ex wife. Women always go on about that tall guys offer protection and stability. This is psycho bullshit. Most women I know have serious daddy issues. Thus they like tall guys. Like say a girl is 5′1″, she dates guys 5′11″ and up. So what she is saying is that she doesn’t want to be a mans equal. She doesn’t want to have any say, or to be taken seriously. You must run away from these types of women. In the caveman days, no one stood over 5′5″. So what’s the deal, right? You have to go out and get you a women who knows who she is, and is confident in what she wants. Tall, short, skinny or fat, Black, White, Brown or Yellow, this is what is most important. I always read how short guys never have girlfriends. That’s crazy to me, I have more experience with women then everyone I know. Maybe it’s because I am confident, and know that what I have on the inside is second to none. In the love department there is no one better. I don’t give a shit if you’re Brad Pitt. You can’t and don’t love like me. So get yourself together my man. Don’t believe what you read from the so called experts, who don’t know shit. Start thinking positively and being confident. I always tell the women when they get an attitude, that we are all the same height laying down. If they don’t want to take a chance on a good guy, who just happens to be short, then move on to the next one. Women do the same thing. They leave a guy if there friends don’t like him. So there are many things out there that are juvenile and immature. Women are beautiful and wonderful creatures. I love them very much and without hesitation. Once you can prove that to one, then others will want you to love them too, regardless of your height. Money, looks, material things, none of that matters. Only what you are and how you are. A good women knows this. I for one can prove to any women in the world that they won’t ever find a guy like me. That’s how you need to think about yourself. And then prove it. Good luck. Stephen.
I will take time i struggled with my height till i became 15 i was always lagging behing all the boys in my year.From starting high school till i left school i was the shortest one right through.I left school and my height was 4′10 over the next 4 years i grew 2 inches and managed to reach 5′0.My mum is 4′10 and my dad is 5′5.I have a brother who is 2 years younger and he is 5′6 and my older sister is 5′8.Even to this day has i walk along the street i try to walk tall and stand straight, most of the people i come in contact with that are either shorter than me or near to my height are school kids and just a few women.I have a cousin who is 11 years old and he is a little taller than me.When his family come to visit he always takes time to take pleasure in showing how much taller he is getting.I am most happiest when i get a chance to talk to shorter people i am more comfortable.My job is a teacher in a high school and whereas alot of the children in my classes are taller than me they do try to riddicule me and i try not to show it bothers me.I am now called upon when there are children at the school who are lacking somewhat in height like i did and i help them grow more confident.The girls are no problem has they always say that girls are expected to be shorter than boys.I just explain that it isnt always true has i have an older sister and she is like 8 ins taller than me.I have meetings and help the kids to overcome their height problems and tell them that they will grow taller over time.There are a couple of boys as well and there is a set of twins 1 is a girl and 1 is a boy.Now the boy is very uptight has he sees his twin sister who is 3 inches taller than him but she is still short.He tries non stop to bully his sister saying how he is gonna grow much taller than her.I cant see it has his legs are quite short and her legs are longer.He then gets nasty and says that has long has he grows taller than me he would be happy.In class some of the taller kids are forever saying to me what do i want to be when i grow up i just reply and say that i am doing what i want to.The equiptment at school isnt really set for a person of short stature.Take the chair i have to use it is either too low or too high.I have a white board that has to be pulled up and down has i cant reach the standard ones in the other classes when i have to substitute.It is just little things like that,.
I have never let height bother me i am always the shortest guy in our group and coming from a short family i didnt expect anything else.My mum is 4′10 and my dad is 5′6.I have a sister who is 5′5 and i come in at 4′10 bang on mum’s height.I get all the sado jokes like i am a security guard at toys r us for a laugh.I aint really, but my nickname is small paul so what do you expect.I am married to Kirsty and at first she didnt know if she was happy having a guy shorter than her but then she changed.So now having a couple of kids of our own they know that their dad is quite short.The 2 boys are average height well they outgrew me by a good foot.Our daughter who is 19 and she is like me quite short only she is 5′0 and laughs when we stand together.She still brings up what her brothers used to say when we were the same height we were always called a pair of bookends as we were equal in height.Going back to dating Kirsty i remember meeting her parents and her dad was built like a man mountain he was over a foot taller than me and his hands were massive.I went to greet her mum and when she stood up she was also taller than me.We had a meal at her parents and Kirsty decidec to make the coffee i said i would help her.She asked me to pass the coffee out of the cupboard and and i opened the cupboard and couldn see it.Kirsty said it is on the top shelf i looked higher and saw it.I tried everything i got on tiptoes to reach it i tried jumping.It was only when i said could you pass me something to knock the jar down with.She looked at me and said i wondered what you was doing.I said that i could reach the top shelf.So has she siddled up to me the reality hit me how if we got this on it may be awkward.Kirsty just reached up and got it.I said for a laugh that maybe you could help me around my place has i have lots of top shelves not being used has i cant reach them.I didnt realise how tall she was and asked her height she said she was 5′8 or 5′9.So to this day things havent changed much Kirsty forgets that when she puts things away she keeps them high and only realises when she sees me on the worktop in the kitchen.She generally shouts out if i need any help.It doesnt only affect me but our daughter as well if she cant reach things.No problem as we would all look silly if we were exactly all the same shape and sizes hey i always say to people…