Everytime my boyfriend moves he breaks upwith me.When he went to college and I was in high school, he ended the relationship. We resumed our relationship when I attended the same college. He has now been accepted into a prestigious medical school and is moving out of state. I want to move with him but he said no and broke up with me again. I am devastated. We dated for more than 4 years…and I really love him. Was this a relationship of convenience for him or what? What should I do?
 On and Off RelationshipAugust 7th, 2008, 5:52 am · 3 Comments · posted by Dreamer3 CommentsLeave a Reply |
FORGET THE JERK AND MOVE ON!
Do u want to wait until 7 years until u realize that he doesn’t deserve u? I, myself, had been in on-and-off relationship for past 7 years. He was always the one who request the break-up over small issues, ..and when I just about to get over him and move on, he was always the one who apologized and cried begging me to patch back. This went on-and-off for years and repeat all the times. It’s confusing ..It’s always hard to believe when we suddenly broke up and the next few days I forgave and patched back with him.
My family and close friends who knew about my issue, begged me to be firm, be strong, and not to pick up any of his calls or rejected him firmly when he wanted to meet me. I felt embarassed to let them know I patched back after my promise that I will be firm this time but I ended up starting all over again..with the same guy.
And my only regret when finally had a clean break up w my ex last year is why i didn’t leave him earlier. When I was in the 3rd,4th,5th,6th yr of relationship, I felt hard to let go bcoz of the comfort zone, the effort I put and the time I spent to work on relationship. A little share to you..So don’t waste your happiness and ur youth worrying abt him. When a man found it’s easy to leave u and to take u back, it will become his pattern and it’s possible that he will always do it again and again.
There is so many beautiful thing in life u can explore. Relationship is not something that u must work hard on, but is something that make u happier and bring smile to ur lips..
U still can meet hundreds even millions of guys tmr and days after.. Ur true love will come when u less expect it. Be comfortable with urself and grow as a person. U will realize that u r worth more than everything else. And when u gain back ur self-esteem, u will definitely have ur happy relationship and find the man who respect and dotes u so much! Cheers!!!!:-)
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While you do love him, he doesn’t, remember actions speak louder than words, so be strong, mend your broken heart and start a new facet in your life, you will be ok, and will meet someone who will cater to you and not the opposite. take care and be happy, its out there