I have a guy friend who recently started a new relationship with a girl he knows. I met her through him, and we always hang out together as a group. I’ve known him longer, and I’m also close friends with his family. Recently, she told me that they got into a bad argument, and she’s not sure if he’s going to forgive her. He also mentioned to me that they were having some problems. I have a feeling that she’s talking to her ex-boyfriend again, but I’m not sure if I should tell him or not. What if I’m wrong, and what if he believes her over me and I loose two friends…..She mentioned to me that her ex has been calling, and I’m 99 percent sure that they’ve talked. She also told me that my friend would be very upset at her if he knew. I don’t know what to do! I just want to stay out of it, but I don’t want my guy friend to get hurt, either.
 Stuck in the middleAugust 19th, 2008, 6:32 pm · 5 Comments · posted by Tara5 CommentsLeave a Reply |
Back off. Don’t get stuck in the middle. Truth always prevails.
STAY AWAY AND RESIST THE TEMPTATION TO PLAY GOD. IT IS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS. YOU WILL SURELY LOSE 2 FRIENDS IF YOU METTLE.
even though you really like this guy, remember he chose your friend over you and its always better to let him find out for himself, and remember that there are never any friends in love and war.
ps. you will find someone that really cares for you and will focus on you only, take care
well it’s simple, just don’t get involved. they need to work out there own problems.
I had two really good married friends. They experienced severe problems and divorced. Throughout the divorce process they confided in me with their problems. I chose to remain neutral. I listened to them and shared their discomfort. They eventually remarried and I remain their good friend. Another one of their friends sided with the husband. The wife found out and now that guy is no longer a friend of hers.