Fed up writes that she always seems to get stuck in the “friend” mode. She has no problem meeting guys, talking to guys or becoming the guy’s best friend. But who wants that all the time. She just met a super cute and nice guy and is having trouble getting past the “friend” thing. They’ve gone out several times but nothing happens. Talk about frustration…always the friend and never the good stuff. What should she do? How do you get out of the “friend” mode?
 Fed up with “friend” modeNovember 19th, 2008, 7:02 pm · 3 Comments · posted by Tara3 CommentsLeave a Reply |
GIVE HIM A BIG HUG, KISS, AND WHISPER IN HIS EAR “I WANT YOU”. IT IS EITHER THAT OR GO LESBIAN, I GUESS.
Some guys have the notion that girls want to be friends first, but sometimes you have to be direct….they definitely aren’t mind readers. Start by establishing that your “going outs” are dates by setting an exact time and having him pick you up or ….leaning on his shoulder while the two of you are watching a movie. Good Luck!!
First of all there has to be the right chemistry between a man and woman. If they enjoy each other’s company, they are on the right path. I look for subtle hints. Listen to what she says about you, the evening out; if she enjoyed it. Be especially sensitive to if and how she touches you. If the hints are not there, move on. I recently went out on a first date with a nice lady. I tried and tried, but couldn’t get a two way discussion going. She was not communicating. I’m not faulting her. She was telling me that I was not the guy for her. And I felt the same.