I’ve been married 4 years and I just learned that my wife has been chatting online. She even has a private myspace that I didn’t know about. When I confronted her she denied it. I checked her computer and found that she’s been chatting with several guys, sharing our intimate sexual experiences, desires and her photos. We both work but she travels a lot on business. While I’m home working and taking care of our 3 kids, I bet she’s hookin up with some of those guys. She says she’s not cheating on me, cause it’s all online. She promises me that it’s all “fun and games”, and she would never take it any further. That it even helps our love life. To me online sex chat is infidelity. She’s says I’m overreacting. I want a divorce, but I love my kids and don’t want to live apart. I love her but how can I trust her?
Regarding ur wife cheating online and speaking as someone whos been there before, just explain to the wife of what this is doing to you. It is not healthy to be stressing over something that could be nothing at all. So remind your wife of the love and life the 2 of you have with you 3 kids and where your marriage is going. Sometimes its better to have one’s head brought out of the clouds and back to reality. Good luck.
I wouldn’t believe a word this woman is saying. Internet sex is addicting and it sounds like your wife is having lots of it. Showing her pics ( is she fully dresed in them? )on-line and talking about your sex life and her desires is a way getting her men horny. She is also a big fat liar, as you have already found out, hiding her affairs and denying them when you confronted her. Yes…it is infidelity.. You should also check to see if she has those pre-paid long distance cards as this is the way most talk to each other ( on-line sex) so theres no paper trail on phone bils. I’d say…give her the boot… she’ll come crawling back when the fun is over.