My girlfriend and I go to UT-Brownsville and we’ve been dating for 6 months. Brinny has a “best friend” who is male. She always talks about him and text him almost everyday. She tells me that they loved each other (before she met me) but never became lovers cuz he’s separated from his wife. Now she says they’re only “friends.” I don’t know if I believe her. I got pissed last night and told her to stop talking with him. She says it’s not fair since she’s known him longer than me, and that she loves me as a lover…not him. Am i right to get jealous with this guy? Am i not trusting her? Am i wrong to ask her to stop chatting with him? - DJ
I would be jealous too! Maybe Brinny wants you to be jealous. This may be her way to show her that you care and love her. It’s hard to say. Whether she’s just playing a jealous game with you or not, the problem is their friendship is longer than the time you’ve been hanging with her. If they are only friends then she should introduce you to him.
At this point, I would try to brush it off, and act as if it doesn’t bother you. If you really think it’s a jealous ploy, I wouldn’t play her game. You’ll have no problem finding other ladies on or off campus.
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