As a single new Valley resident, it is hard meet people. I’ve met some very nice girls but where are the good guys. My girlfriends and I never seem to find any.
We go to popular hangouts throughout the Valley. It’s always the same people at each club. And when you meet a new guy you never know if he’s married or not.
I met this guy who is cute, hot and romantic. We went out for a month and everything was great. I thought I had finally found a nice single guy in the Valley.
As our relationship became very intimate, he told me he was legally married but getting a divorce and was living with his brother. Now, I find out that he’s still living with his “soon-to-be ex-wife” and that she’s pregnant.
Saturday we went out to dinner at the Island and after asking a couple of things, he finally admitted to everything. He said he didn’t tell me everything before because he didn’t want to lose me.
Hell..lose me…why the hell would I want to be with him? I grabbed my wine glass and the dozen of red roses and threw them right at his face. I walked away and never looked back. What I thought was a nice guy was nothing more than a lying deceitful SOB.
I think you did the right thing in regards to the guy. If you really want to meet someone, bars/clubs are a bit of a crapshoot. Try a free dating site like Yahoo!/MSN personals or possibly Craig’s List(the latter tends to have more spam). If the net is not your thing, dating through friends is good at times. If things go wrong, you can hurt your relationships amongst your peers. The best piece of advice I have is always be prepared to meet anyone, anywhere, and hope for the best.
If you go to a junkyard………..all you’re going to find is junk. Need I say more?