Why do men fear commitment? What does a man really mean when he says “I’m just not ready for a girlfriend?” What are men waiting for? Or do they use this an excuse instead of simply saying “I’m just not that interested in you” Why does commitment have to be a bad thing?
I don’t think it’s fair to say that only “men fear committment.” I think that anyone who’s not ready to settle down - whether it be a man or a woman - could be considered to have a “fear of committment.” I know plenty of young, single women who want to focus on careers or just aren’t ready to get married or be tied down to someone. If someone’s not ready, they’re not going to be ready for anyone until they make up their minds that they are - and that won’t change for anyone. However, i also think this can be used as an excuse if they’re not into you. Just depends on the person. Either way, though, not worth the wait - move on and find someone who won’t give you any excuses. - TARA
Of course relationships have their ups and downs, but when is it really time to let go? If you love someone it can be easy to forgive that person for their mistakes, but at the same time when do you put an end to just always accepting an apology and putting your foot down? Should you forgive someone if they cheat on you? Under what circumstances do people deserve a second, or third, of fourth, etc. chance? Under what circumstances would you be willing or not willing to forgive someone you love?- Mila
Long distance relationships can work out, but it takes two for it to work. If one puts more effort it the relationship and then it wont. Sounds familiar? It should, because you need two people to make it work. It doesnt matter if your living 30 seconds away or 30,000 miles away. Long distance relationships will take a hard hit on your pocket, but if you play your cards right you can always find deals for traveling or take turns on visiting. Again it will take two for this to work. Play it right by planning ahead of time and not waiting till the last minute. You can also split a plane or bus ticket to make it cheaper. Its not really easy to drop everything that you have and move with your significant other. You have to think about your life too. If your significant other is settled down with a good and stable job, then I suggest you take a chance, but if they are not and then dont risk it. Before thinking of moving you might want to stop and thinking how things are going between you two. Have a good talk and see where the relationship is going. Dont forget that taking a risk is part of life, but be wise and enjoy life to its greatest. Always have a friend to have your back in case everything fails. - Dreamer 