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Beauty Brawl

November 10th, 2009, 10:10 pm by Tara
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Did you hear about the beauty brawl between Miss England 2009, Rachel Christie and the reigning Miss Manchester.  Rachel reportedly assaulted Sara Beverly Jones in a London nightclub. Rachel reportedly punched her in the face several times after Sara showed her a steamy e-mail message that she claimed had been sent by Christie’s boyfriend, David McIntosh. David is Jones’ ex-boyfriend.  Rachel has resigned her position and is awaiting a court date.

What a mess. GROW UP GIRLS. Women should not be fighting over a guy, NO guy is worth that. In fact no person is worth that, men shouldn’t be fighting over women either. If the person you love loves you back there is no need to fight for him/her. If someone else is interested they will be rejected, without you getting involved.

If you end up in a situation where you think you have to fight for it, just walk away. Fighting is a form of insecurity. Stand up for your principles…we are worth far more than losing something that we have strive for. Rachel’s insecurity got the best of her. Wouldn’t be surprised if she ends up on some reality TV show.

Posted in: Affair • Brawl • Insecurity • Reality TV • e-mail • ex-boyfriend | Post a Comment »

Affair Breaks Up Marriages

November 8th, 2009, 7:39 am by Tara

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mila-avatarMy brother-in-law had an affair with a married woman. They cheated on their spouses for more than 6 months. In the beginning they thought it was fun and highly sexual. He was mesmerized in his fantasies while she wanted an unattached sexual relationship. Neither one thought the affair would impact their marriage or kids. When their spouses found out, they both filed for divorce.

Trust is the foundation of successful relationships. Many affair relationships fail because it’s difficult to trust someone who has started the relationship by being unfaithful and deceitful. They betrayed their vows, spouses and kids. Most likely they will do the same thing to each other. When the initial blissful stage subsides and the stresses of real everyday life kicks in, things can be different and much less secure.

Today the “lovers” are still together and my ex-brother-in-law says that he never imagined that it would end this way. What a scum bag…Get real Jack. The more I think about it they deserve each other.  If one cheats on their spouse, they have no values or ideals. If he or she cheated once, you know one or both will cheat again.

Posted in: Affair • Cheating • Cheating Spouse • Dating • Lovers • Marriage • Sex • Trust • married man | Post a Comment »

Put Fun into Sex

November 4th, 2009, 10:09 pm by Tara

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dreamerCouples that have been together for a while admit that the sex that was once hot and thrilling can become routine and even (dare I say) a little boring. No need to settle for ho-hum sex, or look outside of your relationship or marriage for the sparkle or excitement. Being in a safe, comfortable relationship can actually offer the best sex of your life. Take some steps to bring back the spark, and experience the best sex ever. Here’s some proven ways offered by ehow.com

  1. Be adventurous. The next time the two of you are making dinner together, hop up on the counter and reach for your partner. The idea of fooling around in broad daylight in the kitchen is sure to spice things up.
  2. Leave hot, naughty notes for your sweetie to find. Your notes can be flirty, suggestive, or downright crude. It’s up to you. Just make sure you get your point across. Great places to tuck notes include lunch packets, bathroom mirrors, pants pockets, money clip and car visors.
  3. Experiment together. Surprise your lover with a new toy. Bring some treats from the kitchen-think syrups, fruits, whipped cream-into the bedroom. Find some intriguing new positions in a book or online. Use your imagination.
  4. Play together. Throw around a Frisbee or have a water balloon fight. Having fun together makes you feel good about each other and yourself, which is a big turn on. And if the fun includes getting wet, soapy or muddy, that makes it even sexier.
  5. Switch roles. If your honey is the one to always initiate, take the reins. Make the first move, but don’t stop there. Tell him you are in charge tonight and that he is going to do what you tell him to. Chances are he will be thrilled-and so will you, since he will cater to your every whim.

Give one or all a try…you and your partner will love the results!

Posted in: Affair • Arousal • Fun • Naughty • Romantic • Sex • seductive | Post a Comment »

Fiance texts dating services

July 14th, 2009, 8:03 pm by Tara

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I found out my fiance has 2 cell phones, one that I know about and a “secret” one. A phone rang while he was sleeping at my house but it had a different ring tone.  I answered the call and immediately a girl hung up. I called the number back and got her voice mail. I called again, voice mail again. Then she sent a text asking who he was with? I was angry. I looked at his calls and texts and hell, he’s been using adult text services to text  women, telling them what he’d do to them sexually.

I woke him up and confronted him. He said he was lonely and bored one night when I was out of town so he thought he would have some meaningless fun. I became loud and angry! Now I find out from a mutual friend that he had also posted on adult dating sites.

I thought we had been getting along real well, engaged to be married, and  our sex life was great. He always said he was happy with me and couldn’t wait till we were married.

We’ve been separated for 2 months now. He’s begging me to go back with him saying he won’t do it again.  Why do I want to trust him? How can I be sure he won’t do it again?

Why do I still love him? Am I just a fool? What would make you think he really was going to change and be a faithful husband?

Posted in: Affair • Cheated • Engaged • Infidelity • Online sex • Sex Chat • Sexual • Text Message • texting | Post a Comment »

Nothing but a SOB

May 6th, 2009, 11:14 pm by Tara

kitten1As a single new Valley resident, it is hard  meet people. I’ve met some very nice girls but where are the good guys. My girlfriends and I never seem to find any.

We go to popular hangouts throughout the Valley. It’s always the same people at each club. And when you meet a new guy you never know if he’s married or not.

I met this guy who is cute, hot and romantic. We went out for a month and everything was great. I thought I had finally found a nice single guy in the Valley.

As our relationship became very intimate, he told me he was legally married but getting a divorce and was living with his brother. Now, I find out that he’s still living with his “soon-to-be ex-wife” and that she’s pregnant.

Saturday we went out to dinner at the Island and after asking a couple of things, he finally admitted to everything. He said he didn’t tell me everything before because he didn’t want to lose me.

Hell..lose me…why the hell would I want to be with him? I grabbed my wine glass and the dozen of red roses and threw them right at his face. I walked away and never looked back. What I thought was a nice guy was nothing more than a lying deceitful SOB.

Posted in: Affair • Cheating • Dating • Ex wife • Hot • Infidelity • Island • Pregnant • Romantic • SOB • married man | 2 Comments »
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