My girlfriend and I mutually decided to split last week.  I looked at her myspace today and she posted our split!  It’s like…News Flash: I’m single again!  I can’t believe she did this.  Blogging our breakup…what is she trying to prove? - Hector, Weslaco, Texas

Hector, you write that the split was mutual so I don’t understand why you appear upset about the posting. Maybe your ex-girlfriend feels that posting the split is better than having to explain to everyone what happened and why. Maybe she’s ready to move on and posting the split is her way of saying she’s ready to meet someone new.  Whatever the reason, don’t delve on it. The relationship is over and you too are single again. Go out, meet new people and have fun!