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Break Up Parties

August 12th, 2009, 9:25 pm by Tara

heart-its-overIt’s not a pitty party…it’s a celebration! Why sit around mopping about a broken relationship, being depressed, hopeless and blaming yourself? Have a break up party. It may seem cold hearted at first, but break up parties are becoming quite popular.

And why not? It’s over, forget the past, forget about him or her, live life and have fun. You know your ex is doing it all, so why aren’t you?

I had a break up party, and to come to the party each guest was required to bring 1 or 2 single guys.I ended up with 25 people at my party.

At first my girlfriends thought I was crazy for having the party.  But were they surprised. It was the best party ever. We met many new people and some really hot guys.

My bf hooked up with one of the guys, and they’ve been dating ever since. My social circle has expanded with new girlfriends and I still hang with some of the guys. We’ve formed great friendships. I never have to worry about going out anymore. Cuz at least one of my new friends, and long-time friends, are always wanting to go out and have fun!

If you’ve been dumped, starting planning your break up party. You’ll be surprised who you’ll meet!

Posted in: Break up • Dumped • Hot Guys • It's Over • Party • Pitty Party | Post a Comment »

Tony Romo grow up

August 3rd, 2009, 7:46 pm by Tara

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I went to a party Saturday night where the Jessica Simpson/Tony Romo “boat” topic was talked about. Cowboy fans at the party had some strong words about the couple’s relationship and more importantly the boat.

Most felt that Tony should give the $100,000 boat back to her even though it was a gift. Reports indicate that Jessica won’t take it back but Tony hasn’t offered to return it.

Relationships splits happen all the time. A man doesn’t fall out of love overnight. Men know way before when they want to break up. Why did he callously dump her the night before her 29th birthday. How cruel can he be? And why does he feel like he needs to dis her publicly?

Come on Tony, a real gentlemen doesn’t act this way. Has your brain been wrangled with by too many sacks on the field? His talk and actions are showing his real colors.

I’ve never been a fan of Simpson, but I will say she’s handling the breakup aftermath much more mature than Tony. And for the boat, Cowboy fans at the party questioned why he would want to keep it? Majority stated the he should auction it off and donate all the money to Jessica’s favorite charity.

What r ur thoughts?

Posted in: 29 and counting • Birthday • Boat • Break up • Cowboys • Dis • Jessica Simpson • Tony Romo | 2 Comments »

Wants Ex Girlfriend Back

April 20th, 2009, 8:55 pm by Tara

question4After dating for over a year, I broke up with my gf about a month ago and ever since then I’ve realized I made a BIG mistake. I can’t stop thinking about her. I knew I cared for her a lot but since we’ve been apart I now know how much I really love her.

Two weeks after we broke up she started talking and hanging with this guy she used to like before we were together. We’ve talked a few times since the breakup and she swears that she and the guy are just friends. I told her how I feel about her but she says for now she just wants to be friends. That there might be a chance of us getting back together after she gets over the hurt of me dumping her.

I want to win her back but my friends say I should move on because she’s just playing a game with me. I want to call or text her all the time but I’m afraid she’ll get upset and think I’m bothering her. I don’t want to do anything to screw things up so I no longer go to the clubs, movies or hang with my party friends.

I doubt I’ll find another gf like her again. I want to win her back somehow and marry her some day but I’m waiting for her to make the next move. Should I try to talk with her or what should I do?

dreamer2You don’t say why you dumped her, but I think if she really hurt she wouldn’t be hanging with the other guy so soon. If she’s made no effort to get back with you, no text, no calls, nothing…I would start hanging with friends to help get her off of your mind. Chances are you might meet someone else. Who knows…once she finds out that you’re hanging with someone else she might decide to get back with you. You’ll then have to decide if you want to continue seeing your new friend or go back with her.

Posted in: Break up • Dumped • Ex girlfriend • Other guy | Post a Comment »

Email Slipup

April 15th, 2009, 7:18 pm by Tara

kitten4Mike and I had been dating for 9 months when he freaked me out one day and said he didn’t want to be in a serious relationship anymore. We had a very romantic relationship so I couldn’t understand why.

One day I logged on to his email account (he had previously given me his password) to see if I could find out why he dumped me so suddenly. For months I checked his email but there was nothing about us or a new girlfriend. He did have emails about his new promotion at work.

Yesterday we ran into each other and spoke briefly. Talk about weird. I asked him about his new job and he questioned how I knew about it.

OMG!  Why did I slipup? I had read about it on his email account and by the strange look on his face, I could tell that I was busted.

Couple days later I logged on to his account but the password had been changed.  I logged on his facebook and he was dissing me, telling everyone what I had done. Now some of our mutual friends don’t want to have anything to do with me.

If he had told me why he was dumping me I wouldn’t have accessed his email. If he didn’t want me getting in his email he never should have given me his password.

Posted in: Break up • Dis • Dumped • Facebook • Romantic • dissed • email | 1 Comment »

Blogging Breakups

December 25th, 2008, 8:18 pm by Tara

My girlfriend and I mutually decided to split last week.  I looked at her myspace today and she posted our split!  It’s like…News Flash: I’m single again!  I can’t believe she did this.  Blogging our breakup…what is she trying to prove? - Hector, Weslaco, Texas

Hector, you write that the split was mutual so I don’t understand why you appear upset about the posting. Maybe your ex-girlfriend feels that posting the split is better than having to explain to everyone what happened and why. Maybe she’s ready to move on and posting the split is her way of saying she’s ready to meet someone new.  Whatever the reason, don’t delve on it. The relationship is over and you too are single again. Go out, meet new people and have fun!

Posted in: Break up • Ex girlfriend • blogging split • confused • myspace | Post a Comment »
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