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Nothing but a SOB

May 6th, 2009, 11:14 pm by Tara

kitten1As a single new Valley resident, it is hard  meet people. I’ve met some very nice girls but where are the good guys. My girlfriends and I never seem to find any.

We go to popular hangouts throughout the Valley. It’s always the same people at each club. And when you meet a new guy you never know if he’s married or not.

I met this guy who is cute, hot and romantic. We went out for a month and everything was great. I thought I had finally found a nice single guy in the Valley.

As our relationship became very intimate, he told me he was legally married but getting a divorce and was living with his brother. Now, I find out that he’s still living with his “soon-to-be ex-wife” and that she’s pregnant.

Saturday we went out to dinner at the Island and after asking a couple of things, he finally admitted to everything. He said he didn’t tell me everything before because he didn’t want to lose me.

Hell..lose me…why the hell would I want to be with him? I grabbed my wine glass and the dozen of red roses and threw them right at his face. I walked away and never looked back. What I thought was a nice guy was nothing more than a lying deceitful SOB.

Blind Date

April 8th, 2009, 6:43 pm by Tara

tara-avatar1I go to college and share an apartment with 3 girls. Last week one of my roommates had a blind date. She complained for days that she didn’t want to go out with him. Sara (not her real name) is never ready when a date arrives. She keeps them waiting, sometimes for 30 minutes or more.

That evening I answered the door and OMG. Kevin was gorgeous and hot! We stood there looking at each other…like love at first sight. He asked if I was ready to go and I quickly said YES. What the hell, Sara didn’t want to go…at least that’s what she told us.

We went out and had the best time of our lives. He’s called and text me a couple of time since our date and I want to see him again.

But, here are the problems.  He thinks I’m Sara. I want to tell him the truth but I’m afraid he will not trust me and not want to see me again.

Sara is upset because she thinks her blind date stood her up. My other roommates tried to comfort her but she’s still upset. I’m caught in the middle. I know I should fess up…but I’m afraid Sara will want me to leave. My name is on the lease and I can’t afford to break the lease and my roommates need a 4th person to afford the rent.

What should I do? I want to see  Kevin again and tell him what’s happened. Since we hit it off right away, I think he’ll be OK with it.

I worry how Sara will take it and I would hate to lose our friendship.

Fiancee Text Other Guy

January 22nd, 2009, 8:34 pm by Tara

A friend of mine has been dating a guy for 14 months and became engaged Thanksgiving weekend. The next week she met a guy on myspace. They exchanged numbers and text for more than a month. They even met a couple of times at Starbucks. Now, she feels guilty and fears that if her fiance found out, he would think that she cheated on him. She wants to tell him but she’s afraid he won’t trust her anymore and not marry her. Should she be truthful or forget about it?

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