I go to college and share an apartment with 3 girls. Last week one of my roommates had a blind date. She complained for days that she didn’t want to go out with him. Sara (not her real name) is never ready when a date arrives. She keeps them waiting, sometimes for 30 minutes or more.
That evening I answered the door and OMG. Kevin was gorgeous and hot! We stood there looking at each other…like love at first sight. He asked if I was ready to go and I quickly said YES. What the hell, Sara didn’t want to go…at least that’s what she told us.
We went out and had the best time of our lives. He’s called and text me a couple of time since our date and I want to see him again.
But, here are the problems. He thinks I’m Sara. I want to tell him the truth but I’m afraid he will not trust me and not want to see me again.
Sara is upset because she thinks her blind date stood her up. My other roommates tried to comfort her but she’s still upset. I’m caught in the middle. I know I should fess up…but I’m afraid Sara will want me to leave. My name is on the lease and I can’t afford to break the lease and my roommates need a 4th person to afford the rent.
What should I do? I want to see Kevin again and tell him what’s happened. Since we hit it off right away, I think he’ll be OK with it.
I worry how Sara will take it and I would hate to lose our friendship.
I met a girl recently at a bar and asked for her phone number. After talking on the phone a few times, I asked if I could take her out on a date. I’m not sure where to take her on a first date. I’m 25 and she’s 23. We both like to go out to bars, but I want to take her somewhere that we can have a conversation where I can get to know her better. What would be a good place to go to?
Personally, I would want to go to dinner or a cafe. Or a quiet bar where the music won’t drown out our conversation. Also, you can’t really talk at a movie, so if you do that, I would suggest going somewhere else afterward. Getting ice cream is always fun, too.