Archive for the 'Dating' Category
December 9th, 2008, 2:36 pm by Tara
 When you text your boyfriend ‘I Love You,” and he text back “Cool,” how are you suppose to feel? Does this mean I’m being too clingy or does this mean that he does not show affection enough?
 Clingy no. It’s a loving move on your part. Some guys have a hard time expressing their love to their lady. Maybe your guy thinks it’s too mushy for him to respond with a like message. Maybe he had friends or co-workers around him. He may not be the type of person that displays affection in public. Maybe he didn’t want to be teased or ridiculed by his friends. Does he show affection in other ways? If so, move on…don’t sweat the small stuff.
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December 8th, 2008, 9:51 pm by Tara
 I’m a very affectionate person. My boyfriend gets embarrassed by my touchy-feely ways in public. He comes from a family where they don’t even hug. Do you have any suggestions on how I can show him some love in public, without embarassing him? - Christina, Brownsville
 I’m a lot like you…I love being affectionate in private and in public. Try some of these sweet subtle moves. When hanging with a group of friends or just the two of you, gently play with his hair or scratch the back of his head. This makes him feel very relaxed and comfortable. Try rubbing his back when you’re standing or walking, softly moving up and down the spine. Give him a quick kiss on the cheek. It’s happens so fast that he won’t have time to be embarassed. Place your hand on his arm when he’s talking.
Tina needs more ideas…share your moves, whether they worked or not. Comment at the end of this posting.
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November 22nd, 2008, 6:03 pm by Tara
My friend and I were at a local club catching up on everything over a glass of wine. This handsome guy came to our table. He was so HOT. We engaged in a brief but flirtatious conversation and exchanged numbers. It’s been over one week and he hasn’t even called. I want to call him but I’m afraid to be rejected. I searched myspace and facebook…but no luck. He’s all I think about! What should I do? — Liz, still waiting in McAllen
Liz, I think you should call or text him. What have you got to lose? Maybe he’s lost your number. Maybe he’s not really interested. Better to know how he feels now than waiting precious time hoping he will call you. Do it today!
Love Bytes readers…Should Liz call him or just chalk it up to a night at the club and then move on? What would you do?
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November 19th, 2008, 7:02 pm by Tara
 Fed up writes that she always seems to get stuck in the “friend” mode. She has no problem meeting guys, talking to guys or becoming the guy’s best friend. But who wants that all the time. She just met a super cute and nice guy and is having trouble getting past the “friend” thing. They’ve gone out several times but nothing happens. Talk about frustration…always the friend and never the good stuff. What should she do? How do you get out of the “friend” mode?
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August 7th, 2008, 5:52 am by Dreamer
 Everytime my boyfriend moves he breaks upwith me.When he went to college and I was in high school, he ended the relationship. We resumed our relationship when I attended the same college. He has now been accepted into a prestigious medical school and is moving out of state. I want to move with him but he said no and broke up with me again. I am devastated. We dated for more than 4 years…and I really love him. Was this a relationship of convenience for him or what? What should I do?
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July 14th, 2008, 2:04 pm by Dreamer
 Why are women not crazy about short guys? I have a lot to offer a fine lady… good income, a home, sporty car and I love to cook romantic dinners. So what gives?
 Short guys are hot too! One of my friends is usually attracted to tall guys, but they all seem to be jerks. She’s now dating a shorter guy and he’s awesome and treats her like a queen. So I guess my theory about that is don’t be so concerned about height, be concerned with the way he treats you. Some say a man’s greatness is measured from his head to the sky not from his head to the ground, and if so, short guys win this one.
 Personally, I don’t automatically single out tall guys in a crowd or turn down short guys - height isn’t really a determining factor for me in what I find attractive in a guy. However, I know there are people out there shallow enough to turn down a guy based on his height. Every different person has different preferences as to what they find attractive in the opposite sex. And for every girl out there who may say, “He’s too short,” - I think there are just as many, if not more, women out there who would not even consider your height. I think any mature woman with a good head on her shoulders would look at a guy for what he has to offer - and you said you have a lot to offer a woman. It takes time to meet someone special. Don’t get discouraged. - TARA
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July 10th, 2008, 6:49 pm by Mila
Why do men fear commitment? What does a man really mean when he says “I’m just not ready for a girlfriend?” What are men waiting for? Or do they use this an excuse instead of simply saying “I’m just not that interested in you” Why does commitment have to be a bad thing?
I don’t think it’s fair to say that only “men fear committment.” I think that anyone who’s not ready to settle down - whether it be a man or a woman - could be considered to have a “fear of committment.” I know plenty of young, single women who want to focus on careers or just aren’t ready to get married or be tied down to someone. If someone’s not ready, they’re not going to be ready for anyone until they make up their minds that they are - and that won’t change for anyone. However, i also think this can be used as an excuse if they’re not into you. Just depends on the person. Either way, though, not worth the wait - move on and find someone who won’t give you any excuses. - TARA
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May 30th, 2008, 3:24 pm by Mila
How do you know when it’s love? Is it when just at the thought of that special person you get a nice little nudge in your heart and literally feel weakness come over your entire body for a split second? Is it when a certain song or a certain smell takes you back to a special time you shared with your honey? Is it when thoughts of happiness fill your mind when you think of your future together? I think it’s love. How do you know if it’s love?
I think love is different for everyone. I can tell you that for me, I thought I fell in love once when I couldn’t get enough of the guy I was dating. I thought of him all of the time and did everything for him. BUT, he didn’t feel the same and was playing me for a fool. I always had my suspicions, but didn’t listen to my instincts.
I realized that it wasn’t love - but not until years later when I met a guy who I actually trusted, and had fun with and could be myself around. The main difference between the two was the trust issue. I think when you love someone who feels the same way about you - that’s true love. When you know that they’ll put you first above everything else and would never dream of hurting you or could even think of being with anyone else.
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May 27th, 2008, 1:46 pm by Mila
How do you know when a guy/girl really, really likes you? I mean, what if you’re dating someone that tells you that they care about you so much and that you’re important to them, but yet for some reason, you’re still not convinced if they really mean that or not? What do you do? What are the signs that someone really, really likes you? How can you tell if they’re just dating you without them looking for the possibility of a commitment? How long should you wait after you’ve been dating someone before you make it a serious and exclusive relationship?
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