I’ve been married 4 years and I just learned that my wife has been chatting online. She even has a private myspace that I didn’t know about. When I confronted her she denied it. I checked her computer and found that she’s been chatting with several guys, sharing our intimate sexual experiences, desires and her photos. We both work but she travels a lot on business. While I’m home working and taking care of our 3 kids, I bet she’s hookin up with some of those guys. She says she’s not cheating on me, cause it’s all online. She promises me that it’s all “fun and games”, and she would never take it any further. That it even helps our love life. To me online sex chat is infidelity. She’s says I’m overreacting. I want a divorce, but I love my kids and don’t want to live apart. I love her but how can I trust her?