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Break Up Parties

August 12th, 2009, 9:25 pm by Tara

heart-its-overIt’s not a pitty party…it’s a celebration! Why sit around mopping about a broken relationship, being depressed, hopeless and blaming yourself? Have a break up party. It may seem cold hearted at first, but break up parties are becoming quite popular.

And why not? It’s over, forget the past, forget about him or her, live life and have fun. You know your ex is doing it all, so why aren’t you?

I had a break up party, and to come to the party each guest was required to bring 1 or 2 single guys.I ended up with 25 people at my party.

At first my girlfriends thought I was crazy for having the party.  But were they surprised. It was the best party ever. We met many new people and some really hot guys.

My bf hooked up with one of the guys, and they’ve been dating ever since. My social circle has expanded with new girlfriends and I still hang with some of the guys. We’ve formed great friendships. I never have to worry about going out anymore. Cuz at least one of my new friends, and long-time friends, are always wanting to go out and have fun!

If you’ve been dumped, starting planning your break up party. You’ll be surprised who you’ll meet!

Posted in: Break up • Dumped • Hot Guys • It's Over • Party • Pitty Party | Post a Comment »

Wants Ex Girlfriend Back

April 20th, 2009, 8:55 pm by Tara

question4After dating for over a year, I broke up with my gf about a month ago and ever since then I’ve realized I made a BIG mistake. I can’t stop thinking about her. I knew I cared for her a lot but since we’ve been apart I now know how much I really love her.

Two weeks after we broke up she started talking and hanging with this guy she used to like before we were together. We’ve talked a few times since the breakup and she swears that she and the guy are just friends. I told her how I feel about her but she says for now she just wants to be friends. That there might be a chance of us getting back together after she gets over the hurt of me dumping her.

I want to win her back but my friends say I should move on because she’s just playing a game with me. I want to call or text her all the time but I’m afraid she’ll get upset and think I’m bothering her. I don’t want to do anything to screw things up so I no longer go to the clubs, movies or hang with my party friends.

I doubt I’ll find another gf like her again. I want to win her back somehow and marry her some day but I’m waiting for her to make the next move. Should I try to talk with her or what should I do?

dreamer2You don’t say why you dumped her, but I think if she really hurt she wouldn’t be hanging with the other guy so soon. If she’s made no effort to get back with you, no text, no calls, nothing…I would start hanging with friends to help get her off of your mind. Chances are you might meet someone else. Who knows…once she finds out that you’re hanging with someone else she might decide to get back with you. You’ll then have to decide if you want to continue seeing your new friend or go back with her.

Posted in: Break up • Dumped • Ex girlfriend • Other guy | Post a Comment »

Email Slipup

April 15th, 2009, 7:18 pm by Tara

kitten4Mike and I had been dating for 9 months when he freaked me out one day and said he didn’t want to be in a serious relationship anymore. We had a very romantic relationship so I couldn’t understand why.

One day I logged on to his email account (he had previously given me his password) to see if I could find out why he dumped me so suddenly. For months I checked his email but there was nothing about us or a new girlfriend. He did have emails about his new promotion at work.

Yesterday we ran into each other and spoke briefly. Talk about weird. I asked him about his new job and he questioned how I knew about it.

OMG!  Why did I slipup? I had read about it on his email account and by the strange look on his face, I could tell that I was busted.

Couple days later I logged on to his account but the password had been changed.  I logged on his facebook and he was dissing me, telling everyone what I had done. Now some of our mutual friends don’t want to have anything to do with me.

If he had told me why he was dumping me I wouldn’t have accessed his email. If he didn’t want me getting in his email he never should have given me his password.

Posted in: Break up • Dis • Dumped • Facebook • Romantic • dissed • email | 1 Comment »

Dumped via Text Message

January 5th, 2009, 8:42 pm by Tara

Eric and I have been dating for 4 months. We’ve hung out together a lot, always having a great time. We text each other often throughout the day, since both of our employers frown on personal phone calls. We spent many evenings together at the beach, movies, clubs and friends’ places. We are physically and socially very attracted to each other.

Today, after having lunch we engaged in a long hot passionate kiss.  Neither one of us wanted to go back to work but we had to.

ONE HOUR LATER he text me saying it’s all over. I sent a text and called him right away but he did not answer. By this evening I’ve sent him several texts, emails and have left messages on his phone. I’ve gone by his place but he’s not there.

I don’t understand. At lunch he showed no signs of breaking up. Out of nowhere he dumps me via a TEXT MESSAGE! I don’t know what to do. If he wanted to break up, why was he so affectionate at lunch? Why couldn’t he be a man and tell me in person? Or at least call me… but text me. Texting…it’s a mean, heartless, cowardly way of splitting up. - Jessica

Some lovers are turning to text message to say it’s over.  While hiding behind technology might appear a cowardly way of splitting up, some guys simply drop all communication with their lovers without notice.

Most of us send emails and texts everyday, so it comes as no surprise they are now being used to ditch someone — however distasteful it may be. Obviously, this guy doesn’t deserve you…so go out and find someone new.

Posted in: Breaking up • Dumped • Hot • Losing interest • Passionate • Romance • Text Message | 2 Comments »
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