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Wants Ex Girlfriend Back

April 20th, 2009, 8:55 pm by Tara

question4After dating for over a year, I broke up with my gf about a month ago and ever since then I’ve realized I made a BIG mistake. I can’t stop thinking about her. I knew I cared for her a lot but since we’ve been apart I now know how much I really love her.

Two weeks after we broke up she started talking and hanging with this guy she used to like before we were together. We’ve talked a few times since the breakup and she swears that she and the guy are just friends. I told her how I feel about her but she says for now she just wants to be friends. That there might be a chance of us getting back together after she gets over the hurt of me dumping her.

I want to win her back but my friends say I should move on because she’s just playing a game with me. I want to call or text her all the time but I’m afraid she’ll get upset and think I’m bothering her. I don’t want to do anything to screw things up so I no longer go to the clubs, movies or hang with my party friends.

I doubt I’ll find another gf like her again. I want to win her back somehow and marry her some day but I’m waiting for her to make the next move. Should I try to talk with her or what should I do?

dreamer2You don’t say why you dumped her, but I think if she really hurt she wouldn’t be hanging with the other guy so soon. If she’s made no effort to get back with you, no text, no calls, nothing…I would start hanging with friends to help get her off of your mind. Chances are you might meet someone else. Who knows…once she finds out that you’re hanging with someone else she might decide to get back with you. You’ll then have to decide if you want to continue seeing your new friend or go back with her.

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Ex is Myspace Friend

April 5th, 2009, 8:23 pm by Tara

My boyfriend and I both are on Myspace. While at work we log on frequently to see what’s going on. Last week I saw where his ex-girlfriend had become a friend. What’s up with that?

When we started dating he said he didn’t want to have anything to do with her. That dating her was a big mistake and he was happy with me.

When I asked him about her being his friend, he said I shouldn’t be upset, that she means nothing to him. If that’s true, then why did he accept her as a friend? The guy she’s been seeing just broke up with her and I think she’s trying to get my boyfriend back. He says he loves me and that I can’t tell him who he can and can not have as friends. OMG.  She lied to him, cheated on him and broke up with him. She used him to get the other guy. Why would he even want to have her as his friend?

Friday we went out and all we did was argue about his ex. He tried to make up later in the evening…but I had had it.  I had him take me home. When we got to my apartment, I quickly got out of the car and said good night…no kiss, no hug, nothing. It’s now Sunday night and he hasn’t called or text me. Does this mean that he would rather have his ex than me?

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Blogging Breakups

December 25th, 2008, 8:18 pm by Tara

My girlfriend and I mutually decided to split last week.  I looked at her myspace today and she posted our split!  It’s like…News Flash: I’m single again!  I can’t believe she did this.  Blogging our breakup…what is she trying to prove? - Hector, Weslaco, Texas

Hector, you write that the split was mutual so I don’t understand why you appear upset about the posting. Maybe your ex-girlfriend feels that posting the split is better than having to explain to everyone what happened and why. Maybe she’s ready to move on and posting the split is her way of saying she’s ready to meet someone new.  Whatever the reason, don’t delve on it. The relationship is over and you too are single again. Go out, meet new people and have fun!

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Liar Liar

December 10th, 2008, 8:23 pm by Tara

Recently I’ve had an intuition that my boyfriend had been talking with another woman. Lo and behold, I discovered a woman’s intuition is never wrong. Text message inbox showed he had a conversation with a girl whom he had previously kissed while he was involved in another relationship. He also spoke with her for about 10 minutes. Given it was around the Thanksgiving holiday and it could have been an innocent “Happy Thanksgiving” conversation. However the clincher is when I casually asked if he had spoken with this girl, he denied it. At this time he did not know that I already knew he HAD spoken with her and had even deleted the text message. My concern is if the conversation is so innocent, why did he feel the need to lie?

Obviously there are trust issues and trust is one of the base components of the relationship. Why do you have a need to sneak around to find information? The only way you will ever truly trust him is develop deeper and honest communication.  You’re allowing your mind to run wild with basically little or no information. As you wrote, it could have been merely a “Happy Thanksgiving.”

He may have denied it because he would rather not communicate about sensitive things, especially things that might upset you. Trust issues can tear you apart and weaken your love, or bring you closer together and strengthen your true love. It’s up to you how you deal with them.

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