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Short Guys Need Love Too

July 14th, 2008, 2:04 pm by Dreamer

Why are women not crazy about short guys? I have a lot to offer a fine lady… good income, a home, sporty car and I love to cook romantic dinners. So what gives?

mila-avatar-copy.gifShort guys are hot too! One of my friends is usually attracted to tall guys, but they all seem to be jerks. She’s now dating a shorter guy and he’s awesome and treats her like a queen. So I guess my theory about that is don’t be so concerned about height, be concerned with the way he treats you. Some say a man’s greatness is measured from his head to the sky not from his head to the ground, and if so, short guys win this one.

Personally, I don’t automatically single out tall guys in a crowd or turn down short guys - height isn’t really a determining factor for me in what I find attractive in a guy. However, I know there are people out there shallow enough to turn down a guy based on his height. Every different person has different preferences as to what they find attractive in the opposite sex. And for every girl out there who may say, “He’s too short,” - I think there are just as many, if not more, women out there who would not even consider your height. I think any mature woman with a good head on her shoulders would look at a guy for what he has to offer - and you said you have a lot to offer a woman. It takes time to meet someone special. Don’t get discouraged. - TARA

Taking a Chance

June 9th, 2008, 5:04 pm by Dreamer

I’m a single male and I recently went to a party that one of my friends had. Of course that means talking to friends, having a good time and meeting new people. One of my friends introduced me to a friend she brought over to hangout. I think she is very attractive, smart and nice person. Although we chatted little during the party, I would like to meet her again and get to know her a little more and possibly go out to dinner or just hangout. I would like to step out of my shell and actually take a chance. How do I do this? What if she lives in a different town? Can something like myspace work, since we did meet in person?

I don’t want to knock online communication, that does work for some people. Personally, I know I’d rather hang out with someone in person and get to know them in person. How far away does this girl live? If it’s close enough for a drive on the weekend, maybe you two can have dinner on a Saturday or Sunday or whenever you’re both off work. Maybe you can use MySpace as a way to break the ice, then move toward chatting on the phone, then eventually over dinner. Feel it out and see if you want to pursue a relationship with her once the communication increases. - TARA

What to do?

May 27th, 2008, 3:47 pm by Dreamer

What happens when you begin to have feelings for a guy/girl that is your friend and you dont want to ruin your friendship? You cant just ignore them every time they meet a guy/girl and they talk about them. If you do ignore them they might think your rude when in reality your just hurt because you get a small jealous feeling. Do you let it go and try to be a friend to them? Or do you tell them your feelings and risk the friendship? 

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