help - Love Bytes - thev247.com

Archive for the 'help' Category

Dazzling gifts for her

November 26th, 2008, 11:55 pm by Tara

Hey guys, it’s time to Christmas shop for your love. Impress her with dazzling lingerie Every woman loves to wear sexy lingerie and lounge wear. It’s the most desired gifts to receive or give. Check out some of the hottest must haves from Victoria’s Secret. Purchase your favorites now before it’s too late.

Sexy black style!

Dazzle her with this hot lingerie.

Glamorous teddies, slips and garters

Posted in: Lingerie • Sexy gifts • Shopping • help • what to do • women | Post a Comment »

Where to spend the holiday

November 26th, 2008, 10:51 pm by Tara

My girlfriend and I have been arguing all week about where we will spend Thanksgiving. My mother believes that we should spend holidays with my family. My girlfriend would rather spend holidays with her family. This really creates a big problem in our relationship. What do most couples do? - Brad

Brad you don’t mention where the families live. Assuming they live in the same town, make a point to visit both families on Thanksgiving Day. Both mothers need to be less selfish and more understanding. If one family lives away, then most couples rotate holidays. For instance, this Thanksgiving will be with your family, Christmas with hers. Then the following year it reverses to Thanksgiving with her family and Christmas with yours. This issue becomes more compounded when you marry and when you have children. If you plan to marry this lady, you may want to settle this issue now…before it becomes a much bigger problem later.

Posted in: Holidays • confused • help • what to do • women | Post a Comment »

Hot & Flirtatious

November 22nd, 2008, 6:03 pm by Tara

My friend and I were at a local club catching up on everything over a glass of wine. This handsome guy came to our table. He was so HOT. We engaged in a brief but flirtatious conversation and exchanged numbers. It’s been over one week and he hasn’t even called. I want to call him but I’m afraid to be rejected. I searched myspace and facebook…but no luck. He’s all I think about! What should I do? — Liz, still waiting in McAllen

Liz, I think you should call or text him. What have you got to lose? Maybe he’s lost your number. Maybe he’s not really interested. Better to know how he feels now than waiting precious time hoping he will call you. Do it today!

Love Bytes readers…Should Liz call him or just chalk it up to a night at the club and then move on? What would you do?

Posted in: Answer • Dating • Friends • Question • confused • help • what to do | 2 Comments »

Who’s pays

November 19th, 2008, 7:11 pm by Tara

It’s ackward but I bet we’ve all been there. Who should pay the check when you go out with a friend? Should we split the total bill or each pay separately? Sometimes it’s really ackward…especially when it’s a guy friend. What do you do?

Posted in: Friends • confused • help • money • what to do | 2 Comments »

Stuck in the middle

August 19th, 2008, 6:32 pm by Tara

I have a guy friend who recently started a new relationship with a girl he knows. I met her through him, and we always hang out together as a group. I’ve known him longer, and I’m also close friends with his family. Recently, she told me that they got into a bad argument, and she’s not sure if he’s going to forgive her. He also mentioned to me that they were having some problems. I have a feeling that she’s talking to her ex-boyfriend again, but I’m not sure if I should tell him or not. What if I’m wrong, and what if he believes her over me and I loose two friends…..She mentioned to me that her ex has been calling, and I’m 99 percent sure that they’ve talked. She also told me that my friend would be very upset at her if he knew. I don’t know what to do! I just want to stay out of it, but I don’t want my guy friend to get hurt, either.

Posted in: Friends • confused • help • what to do | 5 Comments »

First Date

August 19th, 2008, 6:14 pm by Tara

I met a girl recently at a bar and asked for her phone number. After talking on the phone a few times, I asked if I could take her out on a date. I’m not sure where to take her on a first date. I’m 25 and she’s 23. We both like to go out to bars, but I want to take her somewhere that we can have a conversation where I can get to know her better. What would be a good place to go to?

Personally, I would want to go to dinner or a cafe. Or a quiet bar where the music won’t drown out our conversation. Also, you can’t really talk at a movie, so if you do that, I would suggest going somewhere else afterward. Getting ice cream is always fun, too.

Posted in: Date • Passionate • Romantic • help | 6 Comments »

Friends and Money

August 7th, 2008, 5:56 am by Dreamer

My best friend and I hang out alot but we have a problem. She makes less money than I do and always feels she can’t afford to go out. She insists that we rent movies and stay home every weekend. We’re never going to meet guys doing this. We could be going to places that don’t cost much money…like cafes or Starbucks…but she doesn’t want to. Am I being selfish and inconsiderate? We’re both in our late 20’s and it would be nice to meet some guys.

Maybe your friend can’t afford to go out, but that doesn’t mean you should stop hanging out with her. Maybe you can still see her, and hang out with her on movie nights, and then go out with another group of friends who can afford to go out. You shoudln’t ditch your friend, but you also shouldn’t hinder what you want to do because she can’t afford to go out.

Posted in: Friends • Question • help • money • what to do | 2 Comments »

Short Guys Need Love Too

July 14th, 2008, 2:04 pm by Dreamer

Why are women not crazy about short guys? I have a lot to offer a fine lady… good income, a home, sporty car and I love to cook romantic dinners. So what gives?

Short guys are hot too! One of my friends is usually attracted to tall guys, but they all seem to be jerks. She’s now dating a shorter guy and he’s awesome and treats her like a queen. So I guess my theory about that is don’t be so concerned about height, be concerned with the way he treats you. Some say a man’s greatness is measured from his head to the sky not from his head to the ground, and if so, short guys win this one.

Personally, I don’t automatically single out tall guys in a crowd or turn down short guys - height isn’t really a determining factor for me in what I find attractive in a guy. However, I know there are people out there shallow enough to turn down a guy based on his height. Every different person has different preferences as to what they find attractive in the opposite sex. And for every girl out there who may say, “He’s too short,” - I think there are just as many, if not more, women out there who would not even consider your height. I think any mature woman with a good head on her shoulders would look at a guy for what he has to offer - and you said you have a lot to offer a woman. It takes time to meet someone special. Don’t get discouraged. - TARA

Posted in: Date • Dating • Friends • Question • help • short guys • women | 3 Comments »

Losing Interest?

July 10th, 2008, 6:01 am by Dreamer

What makes a man lose interest in a women? I dated Jon for one year, went to all of his family events and all four of his friends weddings. I thought everything was going well…but after the last wedding he broke up with me saying he lost interest in me. How can a man lose interest without me seeing any signs? Help…

I think you need to focus on moving on instead of why things went wrong. Dwelling on the past won’t make you feel better. Just know that he wasn’t the one for you - and whatever his reason was - I’m sure he’s missing out on a great girl. Know your worth and find someone else who will know your worth, too. - TARA

Posted in: Losing interest • Question • help | 3 Comments »