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Ex is Myspace Friend

April 5th, 2009, 8:23 pm by Tara

My boyfriend and I both are on Myspace. While at work we log on frequently to see what’s going on. Last week I saw where his ex-girlfriend had become a friend. What’s up with that?

When we started dating he said he didn’t want to have anything to do with her. That dating her was a big mistake and he was happy with me.

When I asked him about her being his friend, he said I shouldn’t be upset, that she means nothing to him. If that’s true, then why did he accept her as a friend? The guy she’s been seeing just broke up with her and I think she’s trying to get my boyfriend back. He says he loves me and that I can’t tell him who he can and can not have as friends. OMG.  She lied to him, cheated on him and broke up with him. She used him to get the other guy. Why would he even want to have her as his friend?

Friday we went out and all we did was argue about his ex. He tried to make up later in the evening…but I had had it.  I had him take me home. When we got to my apartment, I quickly got out of the car and said good night…no kiss, no hug, nothing. It’s now Sunday night and he hasn’t called or text me. Does this mean that he would rather have his ex than me?

Boyfriend Jealous over Guy

February 4th, 2009, 9:00 pm by Tara

My girlfriend and I go to UT-Brownsville and we’ve been dating for 6 months. Brinny has a “best friend” who is male. She always talks about him and text him almost everyday. She tells me that they loved each other (before she met me) but never became lovers cuz he’s separated from his wife. Now she says they’re only “friends.”  I don’t know if I believe her. I got pissed last night and told her to stop talking with him. She says it’s not fair since she’s known him longer than me, and that she loves me as a lover…not him. Am i right to get jealous with this guy? Am i not trusting her? Am i wrong to ask her to stop chatting with him?  - DJ

I would be jealous too! Maybe Brinny wants you to be jealous. This may be her way to show her that you care and love her. It’s hard to say. Whether she’s just playing a jealous game with you or not, the problem is their friendship is longer than the time you’ve been hanging with her. If they are only friends then she should introduce you to him.

At this point, I would try to brush it off, and act as if it doesn’t bother you. If you really think it’s a jealous ploy, I wouldn’t play her game. You’ll have no problem finding other ladies on or off campus.

Love Bytes viewers…what do you think? Is Brinny playing a game? Should David keep hanging with her or dump her? David is looking for advice.  Post your comments now - click “Post a Comment”

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