Everytime my boyfriend moves he breaks upwith me.When he went to college and I was in high school, he ended the relationship. We resumed our relationship when I attended the same college. He has now been accepted into a prestigious medical school and is moving out of state. I want to move with him but he said no and broke up with me again. I am devastated. We dated for more than 4 years…and I really love him. Was this a relationship of convenience for him or what? What should I do?
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Long Distance LoveMay 13th, 2008, 9:37 am by Mila
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I’m a single male and I recently went to a party that one of my friends had. Of course that means talking to friends, having a good time and meeting new people. One of my friends introduced me to a friend she brought over to hangout. I think she is very attractive, smart and nice person. Although we chatted little during the party, I would like to meet her again and get to know her a little more and possibly go out to dinner or just hangout. I would like to step out of my shell and actually take a chance. How do I do this? What if she lives in a different town? Can something like myspace work, since we did meet in person?
I don’t want to knock online communication, that does work for some people. Personally, I know I’d rather hang out with someone in person and get to know them in person. How far away does this girl live? If it’s close enough for a drive on the weekend, maybe you two can have dinner on a Saturday or Sunday or whenever you’re both off work. Maybe you can use MySpace as a way to break the ice, then move toward chatting on the phone, then eventually over dinner. Feel it out and see if you want to pursue a relationship with her once the communication increases. - TARA
Long distance relationships can work out, but it takes two for it to work. If one puts more effort it the relationship and then it wont. Sounds familiar? It should, because you need two people to make it work. It doesnt matter if your living 30 seconds away or 30,000 miles away. Long distance relationships will take a hard hit on your pocket, but if you play your cards right you can always find deals for traveling or take turns on visiting. Again it will take two for this to work. Play it right by planning ahead of time and not waiting till the last minute. You can also split a plane or bus ticket to make it cheaper. Its not really easy to drop everything that you have and move with your significant other. You have to think about your life too. If your significant other is settled down with a good and stable job, then I suggest you take a chance, but if they are not and then dont risk it. Before thinking of moving you might want to stop and thinking how things are going between you two. Have a good talk and see where the relationship is going. Dont forget that taking a risk is part of life, but be wise and enjoy life to its greatest. Always have a friend to have your back in case everything fails. - Dreamer 