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Blind Date

April 8th, 2009, 6:43 pm by Tara

tara-avatar1I go to college and share an apartment with 3 girls. Last week one of my roommates had a blind date. She complained for days that she didn’t want to go out with him. Sara (not her real name) is never ready when a date arrives. She keeps them waiting, sometimes for 30 minutes or more.

That evening I answered the door and OMG. Kevin was gorgeous and hot! We stood there looking at each other…like love at first sight. He asked if I was ready to go and I quickly said YES. What the hell, Sara didn’t want to go…at least that’s what she told us.

We went out and had the best time of our lives. He’s called and text me a couple of time since our date and I want to see him again.

But, here are the problems.  He thinks I’m Sara. I want to tell him the truth but I’m afraid he will not trust me and not want to see me again.

Sara is upset because she thinks her blind date stood her up. My other roommates tried to comfort her but she’s still upset. I’m caught in the middle. I know I should fess up…but I’m afraid Sara will want me to leave. My name is on the lease and I can’t afford to break the lease and my roommates need a 4th person to afford the rent.

What should I do? I want to see  Kevin again and tell him what’s happened. Since we hit it off right away, I think he’ll be OK with it.

I worry how Sara will take it and I would hate to lose our friendship.

Common Sex Dreams

March 19th, 2009, 7:29 am by Tara

We’ve all had ‘em. Waking up from late night dreams wondering what those torrid thoughts mean. Sex has always been a big part of dream content for both men and women. One hundred years ago Sigmund Freud concluded that almost all dreams represented some form of sexual repression. At that time sex was repressed culturally and as a result it might have been expressed more frequently by people in their dreams..

Dream experts today still try to make sense and interpret the most common flesh-baring fantasies. If your dreams sometime leave you dazed and confused, you’re not alone. The good news is that usually there’s more than meets the eye.

Check out the most common sex dreams. Have you dreamed of any of these smoldering trysts?

Dream #1:  Your sleeping with your best friend’s guy or girl

You may be truly attracted to your friend’s guy or girl  personality, looks and humor. Your dream may be telling you what type of person you want. Use these clues in finding a new mate and put more effort into your relationships.

Dream #2:  The Ex Encounter

Recurring, obsessive dreams about a former lover — especially someone you still see or talk to — might be a cause for concern, but the occasional glimpse of a past love is usually nothing more than mental vacation from everyday life. The past lover is symbolic. He or she may represent anything that you associate with him or her.” A high-school or college lover symbolizes the freedom you had before being saddled with work, children, and mortgage payments. Dreaming of a sexy bad boy in your past signals a desire for more spontaneity and excitement in your romantic life.

Dream #3:  Mysterious stranger

Dreams about making love with a mysterious stranger may signal a desire for more mystery, less ritual.”

A dream of sex with strangers signal a wish to break out of a romantic rut. It could be simple curiosity of what it would be like on the other side of the love act.

Dream #4:  Scorching the sheets with a hot celeb

Dreaming of your current celeb hottie. This is a guilt-free fantasy and fling with no emotional-strings attached!

Dream #5:  Kinky dreams with your lover

Kinky dreams usually suggest that you want some adventure, spontaneity and friskiness in your love life - something different than your normal routine. You may be lusting after another hottie or wanting to flaunt your happiness.

Dream #6:  Doing naughty things with your boss

Dreaming of naughty things with the boss doesn’t always denote sexual desire.  Physical attraction could mean that you admire and want to develop in yourself leadership, power, confidence or success. You’re probably trying to put yourself in their league.

Subtly Seducing a Guy

March 3rd, 2009, 9:08 pm by Tara

Grabbing your guy’s butt will catch his attention, but many times it’s the subtly suggestive moves that really drive him weak in the knees. Try one or all of these seductive ways to raise his interest and keep him insanely wanting only you.

  • Wear a necklace just above your cleavage. He can’t help but look!
  • Run your fingers up and down his back. Spell out dirty deeds you’ll do later.
  • Send him a text telling him about the sexy dream you had.
  • Teasingly brush your body against his back when in a crowd.
  • Caress his hips and tell him his pants feel as good as they look.
  • Bare your midriff when reaching up.
  • Wear stilettos and dangle those sexy heels.
  • Playfully teach him some naughty words or phrases in a foreign language.
  • Wear a backless blouse.
  • Let your spaghetti strap slide off your shoulder and slowly pull it back up. Let him pull it up!
  • Use sexual undertone words like sexy, hot and luscious.
  • Play footsie under the table.

Girlfriend admits to Sexting

February 18th, 2009, 9:07 pm by Tara

My best friend admitted that she is Sexting. Honestly, I didn’t know what the heck she was talking about.  (Bet UR wondering too?  Sexting is a word that has been coined to describe the practice of sending sexually provocative text or pics via cell phones.) Yes that’s right.

My friend was over my apartment a couple of weeks ago and flipped out her iPhone. OMG!  She is taking nude pics of herself and sending them on her cell phone. I can not believe what I saw! She says she’s tired of the clubs (never meets any decent guys) and wants to experience a new way to “date or hook up” with guys.

My gf and I have known each other since 3rd grade. Her behavior is causing a big rift in our friendship. She says I need to lay off and let her live her life to the fullest. That it’s no big deal what she’s doing.

As she stormed out of my place last night, she stated, “at least I’m getting dates…you’re always alone.” That pissed me off. I’d rather be alone than sending raunchy messages and pics to people that I barely know. And what about possible serious negative consequences? I can’t believe her “new life” is breaking up our 20+ year friendship.  What should I do?

Sexting is a relatively new trend in flirting. It’s the act of sending nude or semi-nude photographs via cell-phone text messaging — and it’s sweeping the nation. These virtual relationships can leave to other “activities.” And it’s not just adults, teens are doing it too.

Your gf seems to believe that sexting is exciting and fun. She’s able to virtually fool around without facing the consequences of an actual affair.

I understand where ur coming from. Your gf is living for the moment. Her compromising images could turn up when a college or a potential employer conducts a routine background check online. OMG…just imagine what they would see? And what legal issues may arise if her sexting lands in the hands of a minor?

Your bf is of legal-age and there isn’t much that you can do about her behavior but she should be really careful. BF are always there for each other. You may have to just ride out the storm.

Sexy Predictions

January 1st, 2009, 11:01 pm by Tara

Kick off the new year with tons of love, lust and life surprises!  Check out Cosmopolitan magazine for the 2009 bedside astrologer. Read about your sexy predictions, the #1 dare you must take, and what are the best days for romance.  There’s even a bonus guy section on what drives him wild and what doesn’t.

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