My brother-in-law had an affair with a married woman. They cheated on their spouses for more than 6 months. In the beginning they thought it was fun and highly sexual. He was mesmerized in his fantasies while she wanted an unattached sexual relationship. Neither one thought the affair would impact their marriage or kids. When their spouses found out, they both filed for divorce.
Trust is the foundation of successful relationships. Many affair relationships fail because it’s difficult to trust someone who has started the relationship by being unfaithful and deceitful. They betrayed their vows, spouses and kids. Most likely they will do the same thing to each other. When the initial blissful stage subsides and the stresses of real everyday life kicks in, things can be different and much less secure.
Today the “lovers” are still together and my ex-brother-in-law says that he never imagined that it would end this way. What a scum bag…Get real Jack. The more I think about it they deserve each other. If one cheats on their spouse, they have no values or ideals. If he or she cheated once, you know one or both will cheat again.
As a single new Valley resident, it is hard meet people. I’ve met some very nice girls but where are the good guys. My girlfriends and I never seem to find any.