After dating for over a year, I broke up with my gf about a month ago and ever since then I’ve realized I made a BIG mistake. I can’t stop thinking about her. I knew I cared for her a lot but since we’ve been apart I now know how much I really love her.

Two weeks after we broke up she started talking and hanging with this guy she used to like before we were together. We’ve talked a few times since the breakup and she swears that she and the guy are just friends. I told her how I feel about her but she says for now she just wants to be friends. That there might be a chance of us getting back together after she gets over the hurt of me dumping her.

I want to win her back but my friends say I should move on because she’s just playing a game with me. I want to call or text her all the time but I’m afraid she’ll get upset and think I’m bothering her. I don’t want to do anything to screw things up so I no longer go to the clubs, movies or hang with my party friends.

I doubt I’ll find another gf like her again. I want to win her back somehow and marry her some day but I’m waiting for her to make the next move. Should I try to talk with her or what should I do?

You don’t say why you dumped her, but I think if she really hurt she wouldn’t be hanging with the other guy so soon. If she’s made no effort to get back with you, no text, no calls, nothing…I would start hanging with friends to help get her off of your mind. Chances are you might meet someone else. Who knows…once she finds out that you’re hanging with someone else she might decide to get back with you. You’ll then have to decide if you want to continue seeing your new friend or go back with her.