My best friend admitted that she is Sexting. Honestly, I didn’t know what the heck she was talking about. (Bet UR wondering too? Sexting is a word that has been coined to describe the practice of sending sexually provocative text or pics via cell phones.) Yes that’s right.
My friend was over my apartment a couple of weeks ago and flipped out her iPhone. OMG! She is taking nude pics of herself and sending them on her cell phone. I can not believe what I saw! She says she’s tired of the clubs (never meets any decent guys) and wants to experience a new way to “date or hook up” with guys.
My gf and I have known each other since 3rd grade. Her behavior is causing a big rift in our friendship. She says I need to lay off and let her live her life to the fullest. That it’s no big deal what she’s doing.
As she stormed out of my place last night, she stated, “at least I’m getting dates…you’re always alone.” That pissed me off. I’d rather be alone than sending raunchy messages and pics to people that I barely know. And what about possible serious negative consequences? I can’t believe her “new life” is breaking up our 20+ year friendship. What should I do?
Sexting is a relatively new trend in flirting. It’s the act of sending nude or semi-nude photographs via cell-phone text messaging — and it’s sweeping the nation. These virtual relationships can leave to other “activities.” And it’s not just adults, teens are doing it too.
Your gf seems to believe that sexting is exciting and fun. She’s able to virtually fool around without facing the consequences of an actual affair.
I understand where ur coming from. Your gf is living for the moment. Her compromising images could turn up when a college or a potential employer conducts a routine background check online. OMG…just imagine what they would see? And what legal issues may arise if her sexting lands in the hands of a minor?
Your bf is of legal-age and there isn’t much that you can do about her behavior but she should be really careful. BF are always there for each other. You may have to just ride out the storm.
I met a girl recently at a bar and asked for her phone number. After talking on the phone a few times, I asked if I could take her out on a date. I’m not sure where to take her on a first date. I’m 25 and she’s 23. We both like to go out to bars, but I want to take her somewhere that we can have a conversation where I can get to know her better. What would be a good place to go to?
Personally, I would want to go to dinner or a cafe. Or a quiet bar where the music won’t drown out our conversation. Also, you can’t really talk at a movie, so if you do that, I would suggest going somewhere else afterward. Getting ice cream is always fun, too.