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November 22nd, 2008, 6:03 pm by Tara
My friend and I were at a local club catching up on everything over a glass of wine. This handsome guy came to our table. He was so HOT. We engaged in a brief but flirtatious conversation and exchanged numbers. It’s been over one week and he hasn’t even called. I want to call him but I’m afraid to be rejected. I searched myspace and facebook…but no luck. He’s all I think about! What should I do? — Liz, still waiting in McAllen
Liz, I think you should call or text him. What have you got to lose? Maybe he’s lost your number. Maybe he’s not really interested. Better to know how he feels now than waiting precious time hoping he will call you. Do it today!
Love Bytes readers…Should Liz call him or just chalk it up to a night at the club and then move on? What would you do?
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August 7th, 2008, 5:56 am by Dreamer
 My best friend and I hang out alot but we have a problem. She makes less money than I do and always feels she can’t afford to go out. She insists that we rent movies and stay home every weekend. We’re never going to meet guys doing this. We could be going to places that don’t cost much money…like cafes or Starbucks…but she doesn’t want to. Am I being selfish and inconsiderate? We’re both in our late 20’s and it would be nice to meet some guys.
 Maybe your friend can’t afford to go out, but that doesn’t mean you should stop hanging out with her. Maybe you can still see her, and hang out with her on movie nights, and then go out with another group of friends who can afford to go out. You shoudln’t ditch your friend, but you also shouldn’t hinder what you want to do because she can’t afford to go out.
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August 7th, 2008, 5:52 am by Dreamer
 Everytime my boyfriend moves he breaks upwith me.When he went to college and I was in high school, he ended the relationship. We resumed our relationship when I attended the same college. He has now been accepted into a prestigious medical school and is moving out of state. I want to move with him but he said no and broke up with me again. I am devastated. We dated for more than 4 years…and I really love him. Was this a relationship of convenience for him or what? What should I do?
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July 14th, 2008, 2:04 pm by Dreamer
 Why are women not crazy about short guys? I have a lot to offer a fine lady… good income, a home, sporty car and I love to cook romantic dinners. So what gives?
 Short guys are hot too! One of my friends is usually attracted to tall guys, but they all seem to be jerks. She’s now dating a shorter guy and he’s awesome and treats her like a queen. So I guess my theory about that is don’t be so concerned about height, be concerned with the way he treats you. Some say a man’s greatness is measured from his head to the sky not from his head to the ground, and if so, short guys win this one.
Personally, I don’t automatically single out tall guys in a crowd or turn down short guys - height isn’t really a determining factor for me in what I find attractive in a guy. However, I know there are people out there shallow enough to turn down a guy based on his height. Every different person has different preferences as to what they find attractive in the opposite sex. And for every girl out there who may say, “He’s too short,” - I think there are just as many, if not more, women out there who would not even consider your height. I think any mature woman with a good head on her shoulders would look at a guy for what he has to offer - and you said you have a lot to offer a woman. It takes time to meet someone special. Don’t get discouraged. - TARA
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July 10th, 2008, 6:49 pm by Mila
Why do men fear commitment? What does a man really mean when he says “I’m just not ready for a girlfriend?” What are men waiting for? Or do they use this an excuse instead of simply saying “I’m just not that interested in you” Why does commitment have to be a bad thing?
I don’t think it’s fair to say that only “men fear committment.” I think that anyone who’s not ready to settle down - whether it be a man or a woman - could be considered to have a “fear of committment.” I know plenty of young, single women who want to focus on careers or just aren’t ready to get married or be tied down to someone. If someone’s not ready, they’re not going to be ready for anyone until they make up their minds that they are - and that won’t change for anyone. However, i also think this can be used as an excuse if they’re not into you. Just depends on the person. Either way, though, not worth the wait - move on and find someone who won’t give you any excuses. - TARA
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July 10th, 2008, 6:01 am by Dreamer
What makes a man lose interest in a women? I dated Jon for one year, went to all of his family events and all four of his friends weddings. I thought everything was going well…but after the last wedding he broke up with me saying he lost interest in me. How can a man lose interest without me seeing any signs? Help…
I think you need to focus on moving on instead of why things went wrong. Dwelling on the past won’t make you feel better. Just know that he wasn’t the one for you - and whatever his reason was - I’m sure he’s missing out on a great girl. Know your worth and find someone else who will know your worth, too. - TARA
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June 9th, 2008, 5:04 pm by Dreamer
I’m a single male and I recently went to a party that one of my friends had. Of course that means talking to friends, having a good time and meeting new people. One of my friends introduced me to a friend she brought over to hangout. I think she is very attractive, smart and nice person. Although we chatted little during the party, I would like to meet her again and get to know her a little more and possibly go out to dinner or just hangout. I would like to step out of my shell and actually take a chance. How do I do this? What if she lives in a different town? Can something like myspace work, since we did meet in person?
I don’t want to knock online communication, that does work for some people. Personally, I know I’d rather hang out with someone in person and get to know them in person. How far away does this girl live? If it’s close enough for a drive on the weekend, maybe you two can have dinner on a Saturday or Sunday or whenever you’re both off work. Maybe you can use MySpace as a way to break the ice, then move toward chatting on the phone, then eventually over dinner. Feel it out and see if you want to pursue a relationship with her once the communication increases. - TARA
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May 30th, 2008, 3:24 pm by Mila
How do you know when it’s love? Is it when just at the thought of that special person you get a nice little nudge in your heart and literally feel weakness come over your entire body for a split second? Is it when a certain song or a certain smell takes you back to a special time you shared with your honey? Is it when thoughts of happiness fill your mind when you think of your future together? I think it’s love. How do you know if it’s love?
I think love is different for everyone. I can tell you that for me, I thought I fell in love once when I couldn’t get enough of the guy I was dating. I thought of him all of the time and did everything for him. BUT, he didn’t feel the same and was playing me for a fool. I always had my suspicions, but didn’t listen to my instincts.
I realized that it wasn’t love - but not until years later when I met a guy who I actually trusted, and had fun with and could be myself around. The main difference between the two was the trust issue. I think when you love someone who feels the same way about you - that’s true love. When you know that they’ll put you first above everything else and would never dream of hurting you or could even think of being with anyone else.
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May 27th, 2008, 3:47 pm by Dreamer
What happens when you begin to have feelings for a guy/girl that is your friend and you dont want to ruin your friendship? You cant just ignore them every time they meet a guy/girl and they talk about them. If you do ignore them they might think your rude when in reality your just hurt because you get a small jealous feeling. Do you let it go and try to be a friend to them? Or do you tell them your feelings and risk the friendship?
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May 27th, 2008, 1:46 pm by Mila
How do you know when a guy/girl really, really likes you? I mean, what if you’re dating someone that tells you that they care about you so much and that you’re important to them, but yet for some reason, you’re still not convinced if they really mean that or not? What do you do? What are the signs that someone really, really likes you? How can you tell if they’re just dating you without them looking for the possibility of a commitment? How long should you wait after you’ve been dating someone before you make it a serious and exclusive relationship?
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