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Long Distance Love

May 13th, 2008, 9:37 am by Mila

Is long distance love a bad idea or can it work? I think it depends. If you just met someone and they move to a different city or state, I think it’s hard to establish a solid foundation to your relationship. But if you and your significant other already have a strong foundation as a couple, without any major problems, lets say like any previous infidelities, I think the relationship has a shot. However, long distance relationships are hard not only emotionally, but also financially. You’re going to want to see each other eventually or quite often in some cases, and with the price of everything these days, the pocket could take a good hit.If it’s a very serious relationship why not consider moving with your significant other? If it’s not a serious relationship, why not just let things go and appreciate the moments you got to share with that person? Either way, the decision will be hard, but I think if clear thinking goes into the decision, then you’re bound to make the right choice. Just remember, whatever decision you make, be honest with yourself and be honest with your heart.What do you think of long distance relationships? Can they work or are they doomed to fail?

  Long distance relationships can work out, but it takes two for it to work. If one puts more effort it the relationship and then it wont. Sounds familiar? It should, because you need two people to make it work. It doesnt matter if your living 30 seconds away or 30,000 miles away. Long distance relationships will take a hard hit on your pocket, but if you play your cards right you can always find deals for traveling or take turns on visiting. Again it will take two for this to work. Play it right by planning ahead of time and not waiting till the last minute. You can also split a plane or bus ticket to make it cheaper. Its not really easy to drop everything that you have and move with your significant other. You have to think about your life too. If your significant other is settled down with a good and stable job, then I suggest you take a chance, but if they are not and then dont risk it. Before thinking of moving you might want to stop and thinking how things are going between you two. Have a good talk and see where the relationship is going. Dont forget that taking a risk is part of life, but be wise and enjoy life to its greatest. Always have a friend to have your back in case everything fails. - Dreamer 

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