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Put Fun into Sex

November 4th, 2009, 10:09 pm by Tara

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Couples that have been together for a while admit that the sex that was once hot and thrilling can become routine and even (dare I say) a little boring. No need to settle for ho-hum sex, or look outside of your relationship or marriage for the sparkle or excitement. Being in a safe, comfortable relationship can actually offer the best sex of your life. Take some steps to bring back the spark, and experience the best sex ever. Here’s some proven ways offered by ehow.com

  1. Be adventurous. The next time the two of you are making dinner together, hop up on the counter and reach for your partner. The idea of fooling around in broad daylight in the kitchen is sure to spice things up.
  2. Leave hot, naughty notes for your sweetie to find. Your notes can be flirty, suggestive, or downright crude. It’s up to you. Just make sure you get your point across. Great places to tuck notes include lunch packets, bathroom mirrors, pants pockets, money clip and car visors.
  3. Experiment together. Surprise your lover with a new toy. Bring some treats from the kitchen-think syrups, fruits, whipped cream-into the bedroom. Find some intriguing new positions in a book or online. Use your imagination.
  4. Play together. Throw around a Frisbee or have a water balloon fight. Having fun together makes you feel good about each other and yourself, which is a big turn on. And if the fun includes getting wet, soapy or muddy, that makes it even sexier.
  5. Switch roles. If your honey is the one to always initiate, take the reins. Make the first move, but don’t stop there. Tell him you are in charge tonight and that he is going to do what you tell him to. Chances are he will be thrilled-and so will you, since he will cater to your every whim.

Give one or all a try…you and your partner will love the results!

Nothing but a SOB

May 6th, 2009, 11:14 pm by Tara

kitten1As a single new Valley resident, it is hard  meet people. I’ve met some very nice girls but where are the good guys. My girlfriends and I never seem to find any.

We go to popular hangouts throughout the Valley. It’s always the same people at each club. And when you meet a new guy you never know if he’s married or not.

I met this guy who is cute, hot and romantic. We went out for a month and everything was great. I thought I had finally found a nice single guy in the Valley.

As our relationship became very intimate, he told me he was legally married but getting a divorce and was living with his brother. Now, I find out that he’s still living with his “soon-to-be ex-wife” and that she’s pregnant.

Saturday we went out to dinner at the Island and after asking a couple of things, he finally admitted to everything. He said he didn’t tell me everything before because he didn’t want to lose me.

Hell..lose me…why the hell would I want to be with him? I grabbed my wine glass and the dozen of red roses and threw them right at his face. I walked away and never looked back. What I thought was a nice guy was nothing more than a lying deceitful SOB.

Email Slipup

April 15th, 2009, 7:18 pm by Tara

kitten4Mike and I had been dating for 9 months when he freaked me out one day and said he didn’t want to be in a serious relationship anymore. We had a very romantic relationship so I couldn’t understand why.

One day I logged on to his email account (he had previously given me his password) to see if I could find out why he dumped me so suddenly. For months I checked his email but there was nothing about us or a new girlfriend. He did have emails about his new promotion at work.

Yesterday we ran into each other and spoke briefly. Talk about weird. I asked him about his new job and he questioned how I knew about it.

OMG!  Why did I slipup? I had read about it on his email account and by the strange look on his face, I could tell that I was busted.

Couple days later I logged on to his account but the password had been changed.  I logged on his facebook and he was dissing me, telling everyone what I had done. Now some of our mutual friends don’t want to have anything to do with me.

If he had told me why he was dumping me I wouldn’t have accessed his email. If he didn’t want me getting in his email he never should have given me his password.

April Fools Pranks

March 24th, 2009, 8:13 pm by Tara

OK pranksters, its time to whip up and share some of your April Fools Day pranks, gags and jokes. We’ve all had our share, whether we were tricked by a friend or lover or we did the mischievous deed ourselves.

For the romantics at heart, April Fools does not have to be about silly hoaxes, it can also be a wonderfully romantic day, one you and your lover won’t forget.  Think about it…what a great day to dazzle your honey with romance that is completely unexpected.

Whether silly or romantic, we love hearing about and sharing your April Fools escapades. Email your gags, hoaxes, pranks, jokes or your most romantic adventure to lovebytes@theV247.com or send them as a comment at the end of this post.

We’ll feature some if not all responses in time for this years April Fools Day.  So whip them up and send them in today!

Piercings - Turn On or Not

March 12th, 2009, 6:30 pm by Tara

I want to get genital piercings, but I wonder if guys find them sexy. My best friend pierced hers and her boyfriend loves it.  I don’t have a boyfriend right now and I don’t want to ask one of the guys I know.  So I’m asking you…hey guys..are genital piercings a turn on or not? - Rebeka

I dated a girl that had multiple piercings on her body - nipple, belly button and her private area. It didn’t turn me on. We use to fight about it cause I thought they looked awful and trashy. Most of my friends say I’m totally wrong. They think genital piercing is sexy. They’ve even taken their girls to have it done.  Rebeka, this guy doesn’t find it appealing.  Classy ladies don’t do it.

Spring Break Bikinis

March 11th, 2009, 9:40 pm by Tara

Spring Breakers are hitting South Padre Island for a week of party and fun!

Make a statement that you’re a HOT and SEXY babe and not afraid to show it!

Look hot, wild, sexy and totally cool.

Fun, fresh and flirty in the sun.

Grab your bikini or go buy one!

Then head to the beach for a week of fun - South Texas style!

Subtly Seducing a Guy

March 3rd, 2009, 9:08 pm by Tara

Grabbing your guy’s butt will catch his attention, but many times it’s the subtly suggestive moves that really drive him weak in the knees. Try one or all of these seductive ways to raise his interest and keep him insanely wanting only you.

  • Wear a necklace just above your cleavage. He can’t help but look!
  • Run your fingers up and down his back. Spell out dirty deeds you’ll do later.
  • Send him a text telling him about the sexy dream you had.
  • Teasingly brush your body against his back when in a crowd.
  • Caress his hips and tell him his pants feel as good as they look.
  • Bare your midriff when reaching up.
  • Wear stilettos and dangle those sexy heels.
  • Playfully teach him some naughty words or phrases in a foreign language.
  • Wear a backless blouse.
  • Let your spaghetti strap slide off your shoulder and slowly pull it back up. Let him pull it up!
  • Use sexual undertone words like sexy, hot and luscious.
  • Play footsie under the table.

Hot gifts for her

December 16th, 2008, 9:21 pm by Tara

Despite what you may think, a woman’s idea of romance isn’t a kitchen appliance, a bottle of perfume (so cliche) or roses.  And despite popular opinion, it’s not the price tag that counts, it’s the thought. The more time, effort and thought you put into her gift — and the more you personalize it — the gushier she’ll get.

So, this year, make sure she’s bursting with cheer (and gratitude) by putting one of these romantic gifts under the tree.

1.  Lacy teddies, slips, garters and more

She’ll look decadent with any of these Victoria Secrets gift items. It’s what all girls love to receive!

2. OMG, love coupons are not romantic, but handmade cards are. No matter what you give her, by including a card and a personalized note, you automatically get romance points. If you buy a card be sure the inscription comes from the heart.

3.  Waterproof Radio Shower Mirror

Lets you play music from MP3 or CD player and more.

4.  Membership to an “… of the month” club

This is a perfect monthly reminder of your love for her. Not only will you get points for romance, you’ll get points for originality and thoughtfulness, especially if you tailor it to her tastes.

If she’s a chocoholic, go with a chocolate of the month club. If she’s a wine snob, go with wine of the month. And it doesn’t stop there, ”of the month” clubs  also center around cheese, coffee, candles, flowers, fruit, and movies; just log onto AmazingClubs.com and browse until you find the perfect match.

5. Concert tickets

Give her concert tickets to her favorite singer or band. Make it a weekend getaway that she’ll never forget!

6. Jewelry

Spoil her with exquisite jewelry. Select a certain cut, carat or cluster. Jewelry makes a gorgeous gift to express how you are feeling…now and for a lifetime.

7. Relaxing spa package for two

Spend the day together relaxing at a spa. Then go home with a bottle of wine and enjoy!

Too clingy or what?

December 9th, 2008, 2:36 pm by Tara

When you text your boyfriend ‘I Love You,” and he text back “Cool,” how are you suppose to feel? Does this mean I’m being too clingy or does this mean that he does not show affection enough?

 

 

 

Clingy no. It’s a loving move on your part. Some guys have a hard time expressing their love to their lady. Maybe your guy thinks it’s too mushy for him to respond with a like message. Maybe he had friends or co-workers around him. He may not be the type of person that displays affection in public. Maybe he didn’t want to be teased or ridiculed by his friends. Does he show affection in other ways?  If so, move on…don’t sweat the small stuff.

Showing love in public

December 8th, 2008, 9:51 pm by Tara

I’m a very affectionate person. My boyfriend gets embarrassed by my touchy-feely ways in public. He comes from a family where they don’t even hug. Do you have any suggestions on how I can show him some love in public, without embarassing him?  -  Christina, Brownsville

I’m a lot like you…I love being affectionate in private and in public. Try some of these sweet subtle moves. When hanging with a group of friends or just the two of you, gently play with his hair or scratch the back of his head. This makes him feel very relaxed and comfortable. Try rubbing his back when you’re standing or walking, softly moving up and down the spine. Give him a quick kiss on the cheek. It’s happens so fast that he won’t have time to be embarassed. Place your hand on his arm when he’s talking.

Tina needs more ideas…share your moves, whether they worked or not. Comment at the end of this posting.

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