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Fiance texts dating services

July 14th, 2009, 8:03 pm by Tara

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I found out my fiance has 2 cell phones, one that I know about and a “secret” one. A phone rang while he was sleeping at my house but it had a different ring tone.  I answered the call and immediately a girl hung up. I called the number back and got her voice mail. I called again, voice mail again. Then she sent a text asking who he was with? I was angry. I looked at his calls and texts and hell, he’s been using adult text services to text  women, telling them what he’d do to them sexually.

I woke him up and confronted him. He said he was lonely and bored one night when I was out of town so he thought he would have some meaningless fun. I became loud and angry! Now I find out from a mutual friend that he had also posted on adult dating sites.

I thought we had been getting along real well, engaged to be married, and  our sex life was great. He always said he was happy with me and couldn’t wait till we were married.

We’ve been separated for 2 months now. He’s begging me to go back with him saying he won’t do it again.  Why do I want to trust him? How can I be sure he won’t do it again?

Why do I still love him? Am I just a fool? What would make you think he really was going to change and be a faithful husband?

Posted in: Affair • Cheated • Engaged • Infidelity • Online sex • Sex Chat • Sexual • Text Message • texting | Post a Comment »

Girlfriend admits to Sexting

February 18th, 2009, 9:07 pm by Tara

My best friend admitted that she is Sexting. Honestly, I didn’t know what the heck she was talking about.  (Bet UR wondering too?  Sexting is a word that has been coined to describe the practice of sending sexually provocative text or pics via cell phones.) Yes that’s right.

My friend was over my apartment a couple of weeks ago and flipped out her iPhone. OMG!  She is taking nude pics of herself and sending them on her cell phone. I can not believe what I saw! She says she’s tired of the clubs (never meets any decent guys) and wants to experience a new way to “date or hook up” with guys.

My gf and I have known each other since 3rd grade. Her behavior is causing a big rift in our friendship. She says I need to lay off and let her live her life to the fullest. That it’s no big deal what she’s doing.

As she stormed out of my place last night, she stated, “at least I’m getting dates…you’re always alone.” That pissed me off. I’d rather be alone than sending raunchy messages and pics to people that I barely know. And what about possible serious negative consequences? I can’t believe her “new life” is breaking up our 20+ year friendship.  What should I do?

Sexting is a relatively new trend in flirting. It’s the act of sending nude or semi-nude photographs via cell-phone text messaging — and it’s sweeping the nation. These virtual relationships can leave to other “activities.” And it’s not just adults, teens are doing it too.

Your gf seems to believe that sexting is exciting and fun. She’s able to virtually fool around without facing the consequences of an actual affair.

I understand where ur coming from. Your gf is living for the moment. Her compromising images could turn up when a college or a potential employer conducts a routine background check online. OMG…just imagine what they would see? And what legal issues may arise if her sexting lands in the hands of a minor?

Your bf is of legal-age and there isn’t much that you can do about her behavior but she should be really careful. BF are always there for each other. You may have to just ride out the storm.

Posted in: Dating • Flirting • Lust • Naughty • Passionate • Pics • Romance • Sexting • Sexy • Text Message • texting • | Post a Comment »

Boyfriend Jealous over Guy

February 4th, 2009, 9:00 pm by Tara

My girlfriend and I go to UT-Brownsville and we’ve been dating for 6 months. Brinny has a “best friend” who is male. She always talks about him and text him almost everyday. She tells me that they loved each other (before she met me) but never became lovers cuz he’s separated from his wife. Now she says they’re only “friends.”  I don’t know if I believe her. I got pissed last night and told her to stop talking with him. She says it’s not fair since she’s known him longer than me, and that she loves me as a lover…not him. Am i right to get jealous with this guy? Am i not trusting her? Am i wrong to ask her to stop chatting with him?  - DJ

I would be jealous too! Maybe Brinny wants you to be jealous. This may be her way to show her that you care and love her. It’s hard to say. Whether she’s just playing a jealous game with you or not, the problem is their friendship is longer than the time you’ve been hanging with her. If they are only friends then she should introduce you to him.

At this point, I would try to brush it off, and act as if it doesn’t bother you. If you really think it’s a jealous ploy, I wouldn’t play her game. You’ll have no problem finding other ladies on or off campus.

Love Bytes viewers…what do you think? Is Brinny playing a game? Should David keep hanging with her or dump her? David is looking for advice.  Post your comments now - click “Post a Comment”

Posted in: Dating • Infidelity • Jealous • Liar • Love • Other guy • Text Message • Trust | Post a Comment »

Wife Caught Cheating Online

January 12th, 2009, 10:52 pm by Tara

I’ve been married 4 years and I just learned that my wife has been chatting online. She even has a private myspace that I didn’t know about. When I confronted her she denied it. I checked her computer and found that she’s been chatting with several guys, sharing our intimate sexual experiences, desires and her photos. We both work but she travels a lot on business. While I’m home working and taking care of our 3 kids, I bet she’s hookin up with some of those guys. She says she’s not cheating on me, cause it’s all online. She promises me that it’s all “fun and games”, and she would never take it any further. That it even helps our love life. To me online sex chat is infidelity. She’s says I’m overreacting. I want a divorce, but I love my kids and don’t want to live apart. I love her but how can I trust her?

Posted in: Divorce • Infidelity • Losing interest • Sex Chat • Text Message • myspace | 2 Comments »

Dumped via Text Message

January 5th, 2009, 8:42 pm by Tara

Eric and I have been dating for 4 months. We’ve hung out together a lot, always having a great time. We text each other often throughout the day, since both of our employers frown on personal phone calls. We spent many evenings together at the beach, movies, clubs and friends’ places. We are physically and socially very attracted to each other.

Today, after having lunch we engaged in a long hot passionate kiss.  Neither one of us wanted to go back to work but we had to.

ONE HOUR LATER he text me saying it’s all over. I sent a text and called him right away but he did not answer. By this evening I’ve sent him several texts, emails and have left messages on his phone. I’ve gone by his place but he’s not there.

I don’t understand. At lunch he showed no signs of breaking up. Out of nowhere he dumps me via a TEXT MESSAGE! I don’t know what to do. If he wanted to break up, why was he so affectionate at lunch? Why couldn’t he be a man and tell me in person? Or at least call me… but text me. Texting…it’s a mean, heartless, cowardly way of splitting up. - Jessica

Some lovers are turning to text message to say it’s over.  While hiding behind technology might appear a cowardly way of splitting up, some guys simply drop all communication with their lovers without notice.

Most of us send emails and texts everyday, so it comes as no surprise they are now being used to ditch someone — however distasteful it may be. Obviously, this guy doesn’t deserve you…so go out and find someone new.

Posted in: Breaking up • Dumped • Hot • Losing interest • Passionate • Romance • Text Message | 2 Comments »
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