We’ve all had ‘em. Waking up from late night dreams wondering what those torrid thoughts mean. Sex has always been a big part of dream content for both men and women. One hundred years ago Sigmund Freud concluded that almost all dreams represented some form of sexual repression. At that time sex was repressed culturally and as a result it might have been expressed more frequently by people in their dreams..
Dream experts today still try to make sense and interpret the most common flesh-baring fantasies. If your dreams sometime leave you dazed and confused, you’re not alone. The good news is that usually there’s more than meets the eye.
Check out the most common sex dreams. Have you dreamed of any of these smoldering trysts?
Dream #1: Your sleeping with your best friend’s guy or girl
You may be truly attracted to your friend’s guy or girl personality, looks and humor. Your dream may be telling you what type of person you want. Use these clues in finding a new mate and put more effort into your relationships.
Dream #2: The Ex Encounter
Recurring, obsessive dreams about a former lover — especially someone you still see or talk to — might be a cause for concern, but the occasional glimpse of a past love is usually nothing more than mental vacation from everyday life. The past lover is symbolic. He or she may represent anything that you associate with him or her.” A high-school or college lover symbolizes the freedom you had before being saddled with work, children, and mortgage payments. Dreaming of a sexy bad boy in your past signals a desire for more spontaneity and excitement in your romantic life.
Dream #3: Mysterious stranger
Dreams about making love with a mysterious stranger may signal a desire for more mystery, less ritual.”
A dream of sex with strangers signal a wish to break out of a romantic rut. It could be simple curiosity of what it would be like on the other side of the love act.
Dream #4: Scorching the sheets with a hot celeb
Dreaming of your current celeb hottie. This is a guilt-free fantasy and fling with no emotional-strings attached!
Dream #5: Kinky dreams with your lover
Kinky dreams usually suggest that you want some adventure, spontaneity and friskiness in your love life - something different than your normal routine. You may be lusting after another hottie or wanting to flaunt your happiness.
Dream #6: Doing naughty things with your boss
Dreaming of naughty things with the boss doesn’t always denote sexual desire. Physical attraction could mean that you admire and want to develop in yourself leadership, power, confidence or success. You’re probably trying to put yourself in their league.
We all got it…stress, stress and more stress. Stress can be a leading cause of diminished sexual desire. It can lower testosterone, which is responsible for sex drive. It can also release a chemical reaction in the body, restricting blood flow and thus making arousal and orgasm sometimes difficult.
Two months ago, my brother told me he’s gay. I am stunned. He always hung with a bunch of guys but had a number of girlfriends in the past. His relationships lasted for months and sometimes a year. I never thought my brother was anything but heterosexual.